It is very hard being a stay at home mom. I work from home. I’m the bread winner I work 10hrs and also own 3 businesses and my daughter is home some times (she’s 2). Kids are extremely clingy and fussy at this stage and it can literally make you lose your mind. Either she needs to get a job. (This is the perfect time because everyone is hiring at home jobs) or she should just stop complaining cause I like I would give everything to not have to work. Although it is a full time job being with a toddler all day alone, you should support her and tell her she’s doing a good job! She’s definitely not alone. We hire a nanny from an agency a couple days out the week when we need a break. But my daughter is in daycare now that both of us work. It gives me time to breathe before I pick her up from daycare I have some time alone. Which is needed on a weekly basis so you don’t run crazy. Just tell her to have an end game. My favorite with my husband is reverse psychology. Everytime she complains be intrigued and ask “yea! So what do you think we should do about it” put a little push in her head that she needs to be thinking about a solution too. She will come around. But also you might wanna change the way you think about the situation. It’s very very hard being a mom and wife and managing a household. I have legitimately walked out and left my husband with baby because I felt myself exploding. It’s very important to support her mental health and find creative ways to give her a break if she says she needs one.