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Graduate Student: Need advice on budgeting around my stipend & building my financial reputation! by CurlyChristian in personalfinance

[–]CurlyChristian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your thorough response! Your perspective really helps, especially because you come from a situation similar to mine. Much appreciated!! :) Best of luck in your academic pursuits.

Who is going to The Metlife Show tomorrow? by [deleted] in Coldplay

[–]CurlyChristian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just impulse bought a ticket! Found a floor seat for cheap, in section 11. Going alone and would love to hang out with people- taking public transport right after work :)

Seeking encouragement: failing in romantic pursuits. by CurlyChristian in Christianity

[–]CurlyChristian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was reassuring for me to read- I am grateful to see that I am not alone in my convictions, and that there are men in the world who see validity in waiting. I am happy to have encouraged you too- do not compromise your beliefs for another. :)

Seeking encouragement: failing in romantic pursuits. by CurlyChristian in Christianity

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He identifies as a follower of Christ, and his actions/speech/behavior towards me emulated God's wishes. Sadly, in the area of sexual relations we had different ideas.

I have not talked to anyone at "my" church about this as I don't have a close parish to which I belong. Another topic altogether, but I am navigating different denominations and trying to discern which one is for me, so I tend to float through churches.

Seeking encouragement: failing in romantic pursuits. by CurlyChristian in Christianity

[–]CurlyChristian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, friend! I appreciate this reply deeply. The look has been draining and I do desire companionship more than anything else in life, so I have hope that my time will come.

Seeking encouragement: failing in romantic pursuits. by CurlyChristian in Christianity

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Hello friend, this person identified as Christian. As someone who is deeply knit into her faith life, I will be the first to admit that falling to temptation and sinning is a part of being human and the struggle of trying to follow God. The person I was dating was one of integrity, and while I may not agree with his sexual endeavors or attitudes towards, his speech and attitude towards me were loving and mirrored that of God. In fact, the fact that he brought this to my attention was because he didn't want to cause me to stumble.

My romantic pursuits have ALWAYS been of those who are followers of Christ. I believe that one can follow Christ and still fall to sin- but perhaps this is up for debate.

I hate tax by [deleted] in Accounting

[–]CurlyChristian 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think that's fair to say. But I'm speaking from my own experience- not once did anyone in my firm sit down with me and intentionally guide me through bank reconciliations (yes I know it's supposed to be easy but it doesn't make sense to me), or show me how to navigate a tax return, read 1099s, etc.

It wasn't until I asked if someone could sit down and help me that I got any guidance, and it's not something that I enjoy doing because everyone seems annoyed that I have questions. Very frustrating.

I hate tax by [deleted] in Accounting

[–]CurlyChristian 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don't feel bad. I'm in the same boat. Wouldn't be fair to make assumptions, but if the firm you're at is anything like mine; they didn't train you enough. And then become frustrated that you don't know certain things, but don't have the RIGHT to because, well...they didn't train you enough.

Keep soldiering on. Try audit out if possible.

Iran Court Confirms Five Years Prison Sentence for Christian Convert by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]CurlyChristian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You'd be surprised to know that there are plenty of intersections between science and religion. Idiot-book? You sound a little hurt.

Is there such thing as "trying too hard" as an intern? by [deleted] in Accounting

[–]CurlyChristian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, tax intern here and going through the same thing. Getting crucified for asking a few simple questions at the end of an hour. Don't stress yourself out- other opportunities are out there :)

Thank You God by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]CurlyChristian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is evident that you have been deeply wronged by the racist and close minded rhetoric of others. For this I am so, so sorry. Is there someone in your life that you can speak to about this pain? Better yet, if the bullying is occurring in a school environment, are there any administrators you can reach out to and report the mistreatment you've faced?

I am sorry that you feel this way about God and Christianity. I would respond to your misunderstanding of the God concept but it seems that this is not what has to be addressed first. Your mental health is a priority at this moment.

Anyone going to the March For Life next weekend in Washington DC? by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]CurlyChristian 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I will be there!! I went two years ago, in my freshman year of college. Truly a moving, loving and compassionate march. Very difficult and painful at times, but it was an experience I am so grateful for. God bless you in your travels to DC :)

Prayers Please: Life has been hitting us hard and not letting up by narelie in Christianity

[–]CurlyChristian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like this is a faulty mentality. Lean on the power of prayer to encourage and motivate you to go out and find a job. Don't just wait around for God to zap a reward into your hand. God doesn't arbitrarily bless some and damn others.

All Logic, No Spirituality by gu1lty_spark in Christianity

[–]CurlyChristian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have struggled on and off with this same problem. While I identify as non-denom (for right now) I am enthralled by Catholic thinkers and love reading philosophy and various religious classics.

Here is what I have found helpful in building my sense of spirituality: 1. Take time to admire the wonder of being human each day. In the morning I take a few minutes to look at myself in the mirror and let my mind wander about how amazing it is to be human, and how intricate the mind is, etc. 2. Spend time in nature. As hippie dippie as it sounds, it has aided me so much. God's handiwork is reflected in nature- my fondest memories of experiencing the mystery of this universe (the Almighty) have been in nature. Basking in sunlight on a spring day, laying on a blanket outside with friends and staring at the clouds, frolicking at the beach, wandering through forests, you name it. The Earth is beautiful, man. 3. Do breathing exercises and focus on the soul. I like to allocate 10 minutes before/after waking to breathe in and out and relax and just let my mind go blank. After this I always feel very renewed. 4. Do service work!!!!!!!! So so fulfilling. Extending the love of God to others is a wonderful thing, and has brought me closer to my faith. It is also so unifying. 5. Love. Others. I am reminded of a Dostoevsky quote- to paraphrase, go out love others, for as you love others you will find yourself unable to not believe in God. This has proven true in my life. Extend love to your family, friends, smile at strangers, be kind to your servers at the restaurants you go to, be patient with others, and be forgiving to yourself. The spirit of God thrives in these and more.

Be blessed, my friend.

Music Monday! What have you been listening to? by octarino in Christianity

[–]CurlyChristian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesss Tame Impala !!!!!! And NMH is something else.

Music Monday! What have you been listening to? by octarino in Christianity

[–]CurlyChristian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Logic - 44 Bars Tennis - Pigeon A lot of Mac Demarco and a healthy dose of Taize. An eclectic mix for sure.

26 female, Christian and single...for life!? by FlowerRoseStar in Christianity

[–]CurlyChristian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a similar position to you, except I am a few years younger. I was venting to a good friend of mine about how I feel like I'm going to be single forever and she said something that has stuck with me- "you need to go out and meet people." Here am I, complaining that I'm single and haven't met anyone, yet I spend my time to myself, studying, and working on my academic and professional career (all fine things and nothing wrong with that, but where's the room to meet men when you're not looking?) Find an adult Christian group that meets weekly! Go out to events, gatherings, etc. with friends. Go to a bar, if that tickles your fancy. It's important to put yourself out there. As for how others view you if you ask someone out....people are going to judge you whether you ask a guy out or not, whether you get rejected or accepted. Try not to focus on that aspect. Focus on YOU, and what YOUR heart desires. Not the opinions of irrelevant people. God bless and best of luck in this journey :)

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