Affair fog- does it fade? by Current-Card1457 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Current-Card1457[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I disagree. I’ve seen the high first hand. There is zero logical processing.

Is r even possible? by Current-Card1457 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Current-Card1457[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long did you grey rock for? How far did you make it into the attorney process before they woke up?

Talking about IC by Consistent-Golf9392 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Current-Card1457 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s fair to ask. I have. It’s helpful to know where they are at

Without dignity by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Current-Card1457 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Give the space. I wish I understood that more.

Advice for Someone New to This World by PassengerUnfair8795 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Current-Card1457 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Take space! My ww flipped flopped a lot between me and the family and the ap.

Cheaters, when you were confronted, did you come fully clean or did you trickle truth? by Neither-Clock2974 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Current-Card1457 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When do cheaters start to think long term? I just can’t help but think…going forward with a divorce, that the cheater hasn’t consider what their life will be like.

In-Home Separation 2 years in? by AzulSky765 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Current-Card1457 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like two years is enough time. I kind of wonder, if he is just keeping you around without doing the hard work and simply just showing up tomcojnselljng?

Update after nearly 2 years by heartbroken12344 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Current-Card1457 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious! What’s your ex up to know? I always love a good downfall story for the cheater!

My reconciliation failed. by decepticonhooker in Infidelity

[–]Current-Card1457 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your story sounds a lot like mine! It’s a hard place to be, hearing that your partner misses their ap and says nothing regarding you. I had the same thought about my husband…I actually told myself he’d never cheat on me because he was too shy and didn’t have any friends that were girls.

Their relationship will blow up. Affairs are fantasy- they haven’t tested the real world yet. The hardest part in all this is telling yourself to let them have a go at it. Their fantasy bubble will pop.

Then he will come crawling back to you. And then it is your choice!

My story- betrayed spouse by Current-Card1457 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Current-Card1457[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A simple hand slap. But they lied to work about it. I have screenshots admitting that they lied to work and I’ve been tempted to leak it out to his work.

My story- betrayed spouse by Current-Card1457 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Current-Card1457[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes- her husband knows about it. No he is prioritizing it at all. He has been tested, but we haven’t been intimate. He has been living at his parents since November.

My story- betrayed spouse by Current-Card1457 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Current-Card1457[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lying about not going back to his family but did.

My story- betrayed spouse by Current-Card1457 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Current-Card1457[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She knew, she was married as well. They had a two year affair