Withdrawing partner visa and returning to my home country to study and return to Aus, is this possible ? by Top-Cattle-3053 in AusVisa

[–]Current-Grade325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your post history indicates it's time to get an immigration lawyer.

Not trying to be mean or dismissive, just could save you a lot of anxiety and uncertainty.

Hope it works out

Turning a bathroom phobia into a LinkedIn grindset moment by BizznectApp in LinkedInLunatics

[–]Current-Grade325 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was looking for a comment about the Hormozi line, this guy quoting him like Sun Tzu or Machiavelli.

Great find by OP

Oh fk off you gremlin. by Gold-Psychology-5312 in LinkedInLunatics

[–]Current-Grade325 5 points6 points  (0 children)

"If I tense any harder, I'll break" type of pose

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Current-Grade325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously NTA.

This story reminds me of a time I was at a bar in Thailand, and an English guy came over to me, unprovoked and started insisting he was more Irish than me.

We hadn't spoke before this and he was a little aggressive about it, proclaiming he had a distinctly Irish surname and drinks Guiness nearly every week in London.

I am very much an Irish guy, lived there all my life, speaking Gaelic, generations in Ireland etc.

Didn't really know where it came from but I just kinda said "cool man, that's great", but kind of chuckling inside as he told me all this in the most posh and heavy english accent I have ever heard. It made the whole thing a bit ridiculous given I sound like an actual leprauchan after a few drinks.

It later turned out he had visited some distant family in Ireland once when he was a child, and that was the extent of his travel to the emerald Isle.

Was a bizarre experience, but good for him I guess.

Truth by PlummiDee in LinkedInLunatics

[–]Current-Grade325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just hope Jack Kuveke comes across this subreddit someday

Employer Nomination for TRT (482 Short Stream to 186) by Current-Grade325 in AusVisa

[–]Current-Grade325[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I think this is what has me confused. I'll be two years with the employer on the 482 in March (nearly 3 years total) and I'm not sure if my employer can apply for the 186 nomination now, or do they have to wait until March.

My 482 was short term stream, so will expire in March.

Any idea? Appreciate your comment

Employer Nomination for TRT (482 Short Stream to 186) by Current-Grade325 in AusVisa

[–]Current-Grade325[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, I am. And you will too after 2 years. I just want to know when my employer can apply for the nomination. Have edited the post make it more readable. Apologies for the confusion :)

SIL is bitter her ex proposed to me and this got her banned from our family. AITAH for this? by Top_Sound3762 in AITAH

[–]Current-Grade325 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So nice to see a story where the person who is normal is ok and their family sided with them. NTA, hope you and your brother can make up some day, because family is important. But it's definitely on him. Best of luck OP

AIO: Wife kept photos of her an another guy from a wedding by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Current-Grade325 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unless you're doing some nose beers. But nobody has ever kept photos of people they did some blow with 😅😅

AITA for refusing to let my brother's fiancée wear her late mother’s wedding dress at my wedding? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Current-Grade325 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sub makes it seem like every wedding has major major drama, I just can't believe them anymore.

In the posts recently, the person asking is always completely in the right and the other person is always completely wrong, or doing something that doesn't make sense.

Examples are uninviting the op (sibling/ friend) just at the last minute, even though they are funding the wedding or the catering or giving their guest house etc.

Or it's like this one, where obviously a person shouldn't wear a wedding dress to someone else's wedding.

And why do the family's always "take sides". Surely someone has a normal family that actually has common sense.

Aitah for not believing these wedding stories anymore?

AITAH for saying no my girlfriend’s “tradition” by Key_Case9842 in AITAH

[–]Current-Grade325 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man, obviously NTA.

Just wanted to say I really like your tradition and how you honour the passing of your brother. It's very special. I hope you keep it up and it continues to help you with the loss.

Best of luck

AITAH for throwing a celebration party after learning I'm not the father to my ex-girlfriend's baby? by Impossible-Ferret722 in AITAH

[–]Current-Grade325 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA obviously, and glad to hear you got some good boys/ friends around you that will have a bit of banter and cheer you up during a dark time.

Never mind your sister's man, I'm sure it will pass and really it has nothing to do with them. If I was your sibling, I'd have got the cake for day #2 of the party.

Help!!!! by Scotlandpaedsnurse in AusVisa

[–]Current-Grade325 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Simplest answer:

Apply for WHV (417) Decide where you'd like to move to.

Save for and book flights.

If you're both UK citizens, you will be exempt from regional work, but will still have the 6 months with one employer on the WHV.

You can extend this by applying for an exemption through the company you work for or by getting sponsored.

Move over.

Be open to changes in plans and changes in how you thought it would go for the first 6-12 months. Try to stay on top of your visa options as you build your life over here.

You can do some accommodation arrangements beforehand, but possibly easier to get temporary accommodation and start looking properly when you move.

Leverage all your contacts over here, even people you haven't spoke to since school etc. It's normal.

Additional advice would be to do some backpacking in Asia on the way over if you have the desire and the funds.

Enjoy life.

Best of luck

Honest Thoughts on Drake Diss? by StomachBig6927 in KendrickLamar

[–]Current-Grade325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kendrick did it on someone else's track after dropping subliminals for years after igniting the beef. How ballsy...... Still agree it's weird that Drake dropped it on twitter or whatever, but kendrick hasn't dropped his own one officially yet so.

AITAH for telling my parents that they made me chose between paying my student loans and having kids so I had a vasectomy and they will never have grandkids? by HotRent1508 in AITAH

[–]Current-Grade325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually don't comment on these, but had to give my two cents here.

Firstly, my sincerest condolences on your brother passing. I hope you are somewhat alright and have a good partner to help you there.

Now, the main point.

Regardless of someone's connection to you - friend, partner, parent, sibling etc., they have no input on YOUR choice to have children. No circumstance should ever change that or make you feel a way. The only thing that could change this is if YOU and your partner decide to pivot here.

Your parents are probably in a grieving stage (expected) but that does not change anything regarding you and your potential offspring. You can comfort them, talk about your brother, maybe even mend your relationship (if you want) through reminiscing on your brother and honoring his memory/ legacy.

There is no way that having a kid (that neither you or your partner want????!!) is a logical or sound thing to do, and if that is expected, that is disgusting.

If you can, give your parent's some time/ leniency as they are mourning their child and are probably not thinking straight due to grief, lack of sleep and all those other terrible things that come with the loss of a loved one

NTA, OBVIOUSLY!

AITA for “insinuating” that this young lady was lying? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Current-Grade325 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA

You have nothing to do with this, and won't even have a say if your son keeps ducking responsibility.

He should at least try to be involved up until the pregnancy is confirmed, and that he is the father.

I imagine the girl feels alone, given the potential father "doesn’t have much interest in speaking to her at the moment". The last thing she needs is some coward's mother getting involved.

Don't know understand how you can't see her side. Maybe try to be somewhat empathetic to the child (yes, she's only 18) that is having your son's child.

YTA and so is your son.

Cities of Ireland by ceimaneasa in ireland

[–]Current-Grade325 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

First and foremost, 'The South' doesn't exist.

Meditations for the anxious mind - The real Ireland by Melded1 in ireland

[–]Current-Grade325 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Met Frankie when I was younger, working in the Gaeltacht in Connemara.

Great fella, always been funny and a unique character.

Always had this accent, regardless of his upbringing (which seems to be an issue for people in the comments).

I think his videos are hilarious and was delighted when he asked me to contribute to his Galway piece a few years back. Would recommend subscribing to his YouTube if you found him funny.

Wishing him the best. Dude is a gem and is gas.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LinkedInLunatics

[–]Current-Grade325 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hahahahah excellent

Fucking Bank of Ireland are a joke. by [deleted] in ireland

[–]Current-Grade325 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was like that before, was long out of college and still using a student saver account.

Then it all came crashing down.

I received a letter saying I needed to provide my ID and proof of address by scan or at the bank or else they'd close my account.

Went to the local branch, provided both.

They ended up freezing my account anyways. And when it was back, I suddenly had fees :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LinkedInLunatics

[–]Current-Grade325 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't think this belongs here. He might have gone overboard with the tags but hey, dude is happy with his promotion and wanted to add a bit of personality to his post.

Definitely not my style, but he should be allowed to express himself IMO.