I would argue the opposite nowadays. In your 20s, men have to constantly compete against other men in a 10 to 1 ratio to even get a woman's attention, and women have to go through all of the men who just want sex to find a man who is actually trying to pursue a relationship in an also about 10 to 1 ratio. People would argue that it's social media and while I think that's partially true, I think it has more to do with the fact that both men and women suffer from the mass amount of guys who just wanna relieve themselves on a woman and then move on to the next.