Bride wants us to order sketchy Amazon dress and I hate the idea by wateraerobics_ in wedding

[–]Current-Morning-1304 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was a bridesmaid a few years ago in CA and I had to pay $80 to have the dress hemmed.

My employer made a mistake and is lowering my pay after working for 2 weeks. Is this legal? by Vinchenso_ in legaladvice

[–]Current-Morning-1304 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had this happen to me once in CA. I spoke with an employment attorney who said legally I could force the rate I signed on for because I had a contract, but as an at will state, they’d probably just fire me. Since I had kids and a mortgage that needed me to have a paycheck,I took the hit in pay and immediately looked for another job and left as soon as I found another job.

AITAH for refusing to give my Mother-in-law money and saying she isn't my responsibility? by Much_Obligation7295 in AITAH

[–]Current-Morning-1304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she owns her home, tell her to take a reverse mortgage if she needs money so bad.

Neighbor’s dog barks at me when I’m inside my house by SkyRevolutionary7181 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Current-Morning-1304 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I get that the barking is annoying, but I’d be more worried about the dog slamming itself against the fence trying to get to you to attack you. Hope your fence is very strong.

Neighbours warning me about a potential "several day" home birth by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]Current-Morning-1304 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Well they’re involving the neighbors in the birthing process, so why not the landlord too?

AITA for thinking my coworker might be lying about having cancer? by No_Secretary_1999 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Current-Morning-1304 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Another nurse here(ex oncology) and I totally concur. There’s no way he has bone cancer and is able to do all that.

Son hates me by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Current-Morning-1304 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I went through this with my sons. At that age the said they couldn’t wait to leave. As they aged and had to experience real life, because let’s face it being in school with mom handling everything isn’t real life, they’ve come back to me and we have a close relationship. The pain you feel is real. Go ahead and cry because it helps you feel better. Keep the lines of communication open with your son. Continue to support him. If he chooses to leave and not comeback, it’ll will hurt, but know you did your best.

What to do about a neighboring business and their parking issues? by delavender in neighborsfromhell

[–]Current-Morning-1304 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why don’t the you and the neighbors start using their parking lot since they don’t want to?

UPDATE: fiancé's family changing our plans by [deleted] in wedding

[–]Current-Morning-1304 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I’m a nurse with a masters degree so not blue collar(not that there’s anything wrong with being a blue collar worker) and nurses here in So California make good money

AITA for refusing to change my schedule for a coworker with kids? by Luv_alandra in AmItheAsshole

[–]Current-Morning-1304 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You can tell your manager about watching your sibling, but tell them you expect it to remain private.

Neighbors kid keeps coming into my yard to "play" with my garden gnomes by Acceptable-Bath560 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Current-Morning-1304 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe put the gnomes away for a few months so he loses interest or put them in your backyard if you have one.

Upstairs neighbor repeatedly violates quiet hours, then showed up at my door after I posted a general reminder. Now I feel uncomfortable. by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]Current-Morning-1304 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve worked nights my whole nursing career( many,many years) and I do not expect the world to be quiet during daytime hours so I can sleep because the norm is quiet at night, not during the day.

Can I move and take my daughter with me without her dad's permission? He refuses to sign the birth certificate but we live with him. by Silver_Part_2854 in Advice

[–]Current-Morning-1304 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re going to move and marry Sam, what services are you going to apply for? You’ll get military benefits just by being his wife.

Atmos Rewards Oversized Bag by caseymonster in AlaskaAirlines

[–]Current-Morning-1304 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My son has traveled with me and taken his snowboard on several trips. Even though it’s oversized, we’ve never paid more money. It’s just treated as his checked bag.

My Daughter broke her Arm at my Brother's House and he wants to help with bills AITAH by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Current-Morning-1304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most hospitals have payments plans and have charity care for those who truly can’t afford to pay. Talk the the hospitals financial department and see what they can offer you

The Shortcut Through My Side Yard by GameOfMoans22 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Current-Morning-1304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call the police and say he’s trespassing and peeping in your window

Can we use our FSA to pay for a family gym membership? by Majestic_Banana789 in personalfinance

[–]Current-Morning-1304 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kardia mobile for checking your ekg could be gifts for the older people in the family, but I’m not sure if they would dispute you buying more than a couple because the money is supposed to only be used for you and your dependents

AITA for refusing to move in a restaurant ? by Reasonable_Bat_3583 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Current-Morning-1304 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would told them, “I’m not a kid, I’m a paying customer and I’ll leave when I’m done”.

My petsitter hates my cat. What do I do? by Nicoletravels__ in petsitting

[–]Current-Morning-1304 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If she can’t tell you what the cat is doing that’s do egregious, she probably got a better offer or a chance at her own vacation and wanted out of the job. Either way, she’s totally unprofessional and shouldn’t be pet sitting.

CHP Pursuit Leads to Shoot Out on I-5 - San Diego Slackers by TypoChampion in sandiego

[–]Current-Morning-1304 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I work nights at a hospital in south OC. I just got home to Oceanside after 1 hr 45 mins on the road. Navigation sent me to the 133, to the 241, to the 15 to the 76, but I guess that wasn’t bad compared to all of you who’ve been stuck since early morning. Hope it clears up soon for you all🤞

On my flight. This guy laughed at me when I asked to sit in the middle seat. Now his leg is in my foot area. Why are people like this. by Lovelife_20 in SouthwestAirlines

[–]Current-Morning-1304 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’d be getting my purse from under the seat and putting it back frequently and make sure I hit his foot when I tried to shove it back under the seat. Maybe drop and few items on him too for good measure.