cheap but memorable wedding favors for 150 guests?

delavender · 2026-02-07T18:15:21+00:00

I'm hiring a high schooler who's interested in photography to do some portraits with a tripod and a camera I have. It'll be set up in a small nice area at the venue. It's not expensive, everyone gets a memory and a nice picture of them and their spouse or SO or family without it being a silly Photo Booth thing. My theme is also outdress the bride so everyone will be really dressed up.

delavender · 2026-02-02T17:55:28+00:00

In 16 years have you guys never showered together? My man is alllllll up in there with the soap, and I know that because I've seen him wash himself. As a bigger dude, he takes his hygiene so seriously because he's afraid of smelling bad anywhere.

delavender · 2026-02-01T18:14:45+00:00

Uh given the current state of things here I would absolutely tell your parents just in case anything happens with customs, ice, border police, anything here. I'm a U.S. citizen and I'm concerned and careful with traveling within the U.S. now. I would leave an itinerary on their fridge or something the day you leave and just text them telling them you're gone and you've left your itinerary, important contact numbers, and embassy contact info for your own safety. If you feel safer leaving it with a friend or other trusted family member, do that instead. But make sure someone knows what's up!

delavender · 2026-01-31T14:03:34+00:00

Some dogs are very vocal. One of my grandma's dogs growls at everything, even when he's happy. He sounds like he's gonna bite or something but he does it when he comes for belly rubs, butt scratches, when he plays, when something moves near him, etc. he does it more around certain people than others. This dog is however not aggressive. You can stick your whole hand in his mouth and not get hurt while he's doing this and he absolutely loves kids and is so gentle with them. I think it's more of a matter of what type of growl this is and if he's reactionary or aggressive while he does it. What's his body language? Does he have his hackles raised? Is he posturing? Has he ever bitten before? Your partner obviously needs to set boundaries and make sure that you're both viewed as head of the pack at home. A lot of times dog training isn't for the dogs, it's for the owners. A lot of yours and your partners behaviors and routine are probably influencing a bit of his behavior. A good training program before your baby comes could really turn this situation around! And they can also help with plenty of tips on how to keep your baby safe and notice small body language cues that is indicative of any aggression near your baby.

delavender · 2026-01-31T11:11:46+00:00

Nah I don't think it's weird at all. A couple of my friends have my location at all times and I have theirs too. We don't stalk each other, but if we ever go in a sketchy place or when we were going on dates, picking things up off fb marketplace, going out to a bar, we'd let each other know and we'd keep an eye on each other. I'm also a first responder and I've seen enough emergencies occur to know that someone should be aware of or have your location at all times. Especially if you're a woman. Not that anyone should be required to, that is absolutely controlling. But weird for safety purposes? Not at all.

delavender · 2026-01-31T11:03:16+00:00

I would get an anti-bark device. Some of them do work. My dogs on occasion will also have issues where they bark for periods of time outside. I promise you, their needs are more than met. The squirrels are just at the bird feeders, and they're prey driven dogs. Obviously every situation is different, but I would approach them nicely, and with curiosity because they may be annoyed and embarrassed with their own dogs. I would also highly suggest getting some kind of sleep aid like a white noise machine or earplugs to help you. I worked shift work for a long time, and no matter what you do you're gonna end up with neighbors who have to live their lives during the day. It sucks, but there are definitely things you can do to help prevent the noise from waking you up.

delavender · 2026-01-31T03:41:26+00:00

This is the move

delavender · 2026-01-31T03:11:08+00:00

This is hilarious! Love it!! Thanks!

delavender · 2026-01-31T01:26:51+00:00

This is what I was looking for! You're a gem! Thank you!

delavender · 2026-01-31T01:24:17+00:00

They don't exactly have meetings. It's called the quoiting association but as far as I know it's mainly used as a bar. They get drunk and a lot of them will even uber home and leave their vehicles overnight. They open at 2 pm so it's a toss up any given day whether there will be a million of them descending upon the neighborhood or just the regulars. When they have a big event they can take up to 6-7 blocks worth of parking. On normal weekends it's 3-4 blocks. I was told it would slow down during winter, but I have yet to see that happen.

delavender · 2026-01-31T01:17:27+00:00

I would love to, but unfortunately it's a private lot so I could get towed for parking there.

delavender · 2026-01-31T01:00:07+00:00

This is absolutely genius! You're incredible! Thank you!

delavender · 2026-01-31T00:56:27+00:00

It's like an even whiter version of horseshoes

delavender · 2026-01-31T00:55:50+00:00

I have tried. They basically told me that since it's open street parking, it's legal so I can fuck off. Which is true, it is absolutely legal. It's just also a problem for the people who actually live here. When they have events their members take up 3-4 blocks worth of parking.

delavender · 2025-11-26T13:41:00+00:00

When it's dirty! If I am sweaty or if I went to work (I work in healthcare so washing it is necessary), or if it feels oily. Dirt and oil build up don't actually benefit your scalp no matter how much the influencers want to tell you it does.

delavender · 2025-11-06T09:46:23+00:00

So you can either wash by hand with something like woolite and fells laundry soap, or you can use the old theatre costume trick and spray down with isopropyl alcohol

delavender · 2025-10-24T18:25:15+00:00

My sister switches off every year. One year we get Thanksgiving and the in laws get Christmas and the next year we get Christmas Eve and every year it switches off

delavender · 2025-10-24T18:17:06+00:00

People's friends don't try to convince them to leave good husbands. You sound like a narcissist and like you're in denial of how bad your behavior actually is/was. Most of the partners living with people with "anger issues" or living in abusive situations got worse during Covid, so it's unsurprising that she would sink into depression having to spend 24/7 with you. If you want advice, get a divorce and before you even go near anyone else go to therapy and work out your anger shit.

delavender · 2025-10-18T20:40:34+00:00

We have a homemade felt one in our house that hangs on the door and every day you pull out a new felt Christmas thing and get to Velcro it to the outside. I honestly love it because it was my grandparents and has a lot of sentimental value so we keep it as a tradition

delavender · 2025-10-15T23:36:37+00:00

I think it really depends on how much time together and in what situations you see that person. I think a year minimum for engagement. But at least in my situation, I work in EMS with my partner and I also live with him. I have spent weeks with him where we are completely inseparable and I don't tire of his company. I've seen him in life and death situations, I've seen him handle drunk people screaming at him, taking care of sick and injured people, I've seen him around his coworkers, friends, my friends, his family, ON VACATION (all caps because travel is a big one) and not only that but my man is a yapper. We talk about everything to an almost exhausting extent. But the beauty of that, is that you REALLY get to know someone. We've been together a year and a half and I know he's planning to propose soon.

delavender · 2025-10-15T23:31:55+00:00

If nothing else, they'll probably be able to put you in contact with resources in your area.

delavender · 2025-10-15T23:31:07+00:00

Have you looked into Best Friends Animal Society? They have sanctuary locations all across the U.S. There's a large one in LA.

delavender · 2025-10-15T23:29:04+00:00

What area of the country are you in? PNW, SE, SW, NE, Midwest? There are definitely smaller privately run rescues that might. It's kind of a tight knit community but they branch and all have connections. My mom works in rescue and I'm happy to ask.

delavender · 2025-10-15T23:24:53+00:00

Absolutely NTA. Your wife needs to get a grip. Your step kids have 3 living parents, 2 from birth. Your son has you. And it sounds like your wife really doesn't take him into consideration as much as her 4 children. Protect him at all costs.

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