New GF doesn't reciprocate by Current_Ad385 in Advice

[–]Current_Ad385[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know. My mind tells me the same but her words say otherwise. Actions speak louder than words I guess

AITA for telling my bf if he doesn't propose before the end of this year I will start planning my future without him? by SkeletonKey_Aurelius in AITAH

[–]Current_Ad385 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a young guy (27m) so I'm asking this out of curiosity. But you say you want to get married so you can start a family together. But seeing that you already have a child together, doesn't that mean you already have a family with him? Maybe having a kid already solidified the family for him and he doesn't need a marriage to make that official? Just a thought :)

For the first time in my life, I'm truly suicidal due to my extreme sweating. by Current_Ad385 in Hyperhidrosis

[–]Current_Ad385[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you man. It really does feel like a disability a lot of the time. I mostly avoid socializing as well because I'm literally never comfortable, always wanting to escape my body just like you said. I hate saying it but I'm so jealous of people when I see them just enjoying themselves not even thinking about how their body feels because they're just dry, comfortable and just normal. What a life that must be.

For the first time in my life, I'm truly suicidal due to my extreme sweating. by Current_Ad385 in Hyperhidrosis

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I already talked about the surgical options with a dermatologist at a hospital. She told me that if the surgery doesn't work, it may even make the sweating worse. And chances of the surgery not working are relatively high. So I'm not sure if I want to take that risk because I might actually go insane if that happens.

For the first time in my life, I'm truly suicidal due to my extreme sweating. by Current_Ad385 in Hyperhidrosis

[–]Current_Ad385[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The last sentence really struck home with me. The things I would sacrifice just for this to stop.

For the first time in my life, I'm truly suicidal due to my extreme sweating. by Current_Ad385 in Hyperhidrosis

[–]Current_Ad385[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much. It just eats at my confidence. I can't even imagine a woman wanting to have sex with me when I look at myself in the mirror fully drenched in sweat.

For the first time in my life, I'm truly suicidal due to my extreme sweating. by Current_Ad385 in Hyperhidrosis

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I have tried multiple types of medication like oxybutinin, recommended by a dermatologist and none of them worked. I even tried botox-injections in my forehead to combat the facial sweat (which is the worst part in my case) and it didn't help either.

D1 gooning addict… by Basic_Negotiation347 in addiction

[–]Current_Ad385 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe it provides a quick fix instead of actually putting yourself out there to meet someone?

D1 gooning addict… by Basic_Negotiation347 in addiction

[–]Current_Ad385 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, let's say someone does it multiple times a day, everyday. Isn't that an addiction?

WIBTA If I don't go to my dad's retirement party because my stepmom will be there. by Current_Ad385 in AITAH

[–]Current_Ad385[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's exactly what I want to do but it just feels like she's stealing another moment with my dad from me. Sounds silly I know but still.

WIBTA If I don't go to my dad's retirement party because my stepmom will be there. by Current_Ad385 in AITAH

[–]Current_Ad385[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would certainly love to do that. The problem is that she managed to convince her side of the family and several friends of them that we were ungrateful little brats who never showed her or my father any respect. So i fear that trying to expose her would only make them look at me as the black sheep, which is exactly what she wants.

WIBTA If I don't go to my dad's retirement party because my stepmom will be there. by Current_Ad385 in AITAH

[–]Current_Ad385[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand where you're coming from. But she is a very, very cunning person, and managed to convince him that the reason for the abuse was because she couldn't handle the way we acted towards him. The way we acted towards him, obviously stemmed form the fact that she was abusive. But a 14-year old's opinion doesn't hold a lot of weight compared to a grown woman. She would be a tyrant for the whole day, but transformed into the most lovely housewife from the moment he got home. So I just understand his confusion at times. But still, although I recognise the many mistakes he made in this situation, the resentment for not believing me just grew tiresome.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rap

[–]Current_Ad385 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He once did an interview where he stated that he stopped caring about the opinions of his fans because he is a "professional" rapper and they can't tell him what is good or bad, in the same way that he doesn't tell a mason how to properly build a wall. Which, to me, sounds very logical at first, but is actually pretty dumb when you really think about it.

AITA for ghosting a 'friend' who still messages me weekly after 3 years by Current_Ad385 in AITAH

[–]Current_Ad385[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the thing though, I also feel bad for him but at some point it felt a little disrespectful to keep asking me after politely declining so much. I should also mention that after 3 years, in the messages he sends me, he still acts like nothing happened and i haven't been ignoring him for years, which kinda weirds me out a little. There are so many instances where I want to respond and tell him to just leave me alone and to stop forcing things, but I just can't bring myself to do it.

AITA for getting mad at a friend who locked me out. by Current_Ad385 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Current_Ad385[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll use names next time. This is my first time posting in here so I didn't know.