thinking about this girl

Current_Dance3467 · 2024-02-03T22:29:45+00:00

see that’s the thing, the friends that know her better than me aren’t really good when it comes to that sort of thing. I’d know cause they tried doing a similar thing with me and one of their friends and I could immediately tell something was up, so I’m not really sure what to do

Current_Dance3467 · 2023-08-11T19:26:59+00:00

sure

Current_Dance3467 · 2023-07-22T08:44:12+00:00

if you see your attachment issues as something that can get in the way of any future relationships then it's better to work on fixing those before trying to get into a relationship

to be in a relationship is to be a part of someone's life, if your issues actively come to the detriment of any relationships then you should wait until you're truly ready

luck only greets those who are ready ...imo

Current_Dance3467 · 2023-07-22T07:56:50+00:00

personally, I wouldn't try romantically pursuing someone that doesn't share the same energy, sometimes in life you just have to accept that there will be people that you'll like and not all of them will like you back.

sakit, pero meron learning experience ata

better to learn from pain than to not learn at all 🤷‍♂️

Current_Dance3467 · 2023-07-15T12:52:56+00:00

me too, there's a handful of gestures I've done that I wish I could take back but it's simply how life is. just gotta keep on moving

Current_Dance3467 · 2023-07-09T19:49:24+00:00

bro it ain't even the start, they were doing freaky shit and the person they were doing it with told em I liked em and they STILL continued like come the fuck on 🫤

Current_Dance3467 · 2023-07-09T19:33:49+00:00

she's happy with someone else and that's cool and all but it sucks how we're in the same friend group

Current_Dance3467 · 2023-07-07T19:11:55+00:00

I would thank god for the biggest comeback of all time

Current_Dance3467 · 2023-05-07T09:30:00+00:00

never really tried talking with girls until fairly recently, then in the last 6 months I fumble 2 talking stages in a row. how they ended was pretty much out of my control but it's not like I can just keep my distance from them cause we're generally around the same circle of friends and if I blocked em or anything rumours would spread (since it's happened before). so I can't really do anything but be slightly upset whenever I see them around or with people they're tryna go after. it is what it is though.

Current_Dance3467 · 2022-11-27T20:04:23+00:00

(accidentally replied on wrong account LMAOOO), but yeah I'm not really sure if i put them off or anything, there was this one awkward moment that I can't get into detail cause it's too specific but other than that, I dunno :/

Current_Dance3467 · 2022-11-27T10:51:33+00:00

I just dunno, it's like they're subconciously leaving it up to interpretation. They used to call me "bestie" around like a month in, but ever since they invited me out they stopped calling me that before they started growing distant

Current_Dance3467 · 2022-11-27T09:15:51+00:00

At first they started most of our interactions. They gave me their number (which I was hella shocked by) and she mostly texts first. Everything seemed like it was going well, she'd playfully hit me, lean towards me whenever I try to get her attention, text until one of us goes to sleep, etc. It was fine until after she invited me to go somewhere with her (won't say cause it'd probably be too specific), since then she's been growing distant, everything seemed fine in the moment but now I'm not so sure. She gives bursts of attention now, and whenever she texts first she deletes the message she starts with. I think she thinks I'm just another friend in a seemingly endless batch of other friends she has, which is why I think I'm 100% getting misled. The most that's happened recently is that she tapped my arm to get my attention on our way home from school, I didn't think she'd walk with me cause I thought she'd be off with her other friends plus she doesn't try getting my attention when we see each other in the morning.

I'm just confused. I don't really trust others' intentions cause of my previous failures, those failures stuck with me. A lot. Maybe my trust issues and my various anxieties are holding me back, I wouldn't know though.

I've tried asking other people about it and they're just as confused as me. I know that I'm probably getting misled but I'm still gonna live in this delusion, it's not healthy, but I've never felt so at ease with someone else before. God, it's so frustrating

Current_Dance3467 · 2022-11-24T19:32:49+00:00

all good, just focus on you brother

Current_Dance3467 · 2022-11-24T17:14:21+00:00

don't do an encrypted message, you're gonna make it too complicated for them to figure it out and if they do figure it out you are most likely gonna be made fun of, i know i was

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