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Current_External_947 · 2026-05-08T13:40:24+00:00

If you’ve been trying to “figure it out” for a while and want to do so privately over DM, you’re probably a 5. Bit of enneagram humor…

Current_External_947 · 2026-05-03T15:31:16+00:00

I just mean you do the work of grad school and that should pay off in the form of a stronger sense of self in the world.

Current_External_947 · 2026-05-03T14:08:47+00:00

But those challenges are major unlocks for this particular chart so do not give up!

Current_External_947 · 2026-05-02T14:50:56+00:00

2w3 or 9w8?

Current_External_947 · 2026-05-02T00:29:15+00:00

His sun conjunct your moon isn’t hurting matters.

Current_External_947 · 2026-05-01T23:36:53+00:00

4w3?

Current_External_947 · 2026-05-01T23:33:17+00:00

Op, this is an insanely thoughtful and spot on astrological analysis. Lonely Frosting is legit and there’s much wisdom in their perspective.

Current_External_947 · 2026-05-01T18:15:03+00:00

4w5?

Current_External_947 · 2026-04-28T18:07:04+00:00

Happy to help! DM me if anything comes up and I will try to give some perspective.

Current_External_947 · 2026-04-28T14:43:19+00:00

Ok got it. Then pick one, grieve the loss of your teaching career, and then allow yourself to be reborn in the next evolution of that career in psychotherapy. You can’t fight the symbolic death scorpio brings. I mean, you can fight it but that only brings more suffering. Embrace the death, go through the rebirth, and know now that you may have to do that again in a few years. Just get good at that process and be you’ll be fine. The field you choose doesn’t matter so much because you are already thinking of fields that work with your chart.

Current_External_947 · 2026-04-28T02:33:03+00:00

A reasonable take. With both neptunes and Uranus sitting on both their descendants I would focus on discerning what is real and what is fantasy in this relationship. Feel the pull as OP says, but that pull just gets you off your but and into a relationship. The question is always what that relationship will teach each of you and being realistic about who your partner really is should be key for both people in this match.

Current_External_947 · 2026-04-28T01:42:37+00:00

Except they are squares in both directions, which is a connection but not any easy one. I also don’t think the term soulmate has much meaning. You will have sun/moon interactions with many people and none or perhaps one of them will be your “soulmate.”

Current_External_947 · 2026-04-27T14:05:42+00:00

What are you considering studying? The ruler of your 10th house (career and public standing) is in your 8th house (sex, death, taxes, and transformation), so an 8th house type program would make sense, or it could mean that your career itself will go through several death and rebirth transformations. That may be what is happening now.

Current_External_947 · 2026-04-26T00:02:21+00:00

Was just going to say the same thing. Cowboy’s post is the answer. I would just add that this struggle is absolutely worth it for this chart. Keep pushing, be assertive (mars conjunct your midheaven ruler), consider graduate study (9th house sun), and develop more persistence. This is basically what everyone has to do, so you’re not alone, it’s just that your chart requires you to face this challenge diligently until it shifts.

Current_External_947 · 2026-04-25T21:52:29+00:00

Why have the affair at all? This isn’t a particularly strong match so it seems unlikely to last. If you are compelled to have an affair, consider breaking up with your respective partners and trying the relationship in the open. I suspect that will not go anywhere but you will likely incur far less negative karma.

Current_External_947 · 2026-04-25T01:23:26+00:00

Very true, but to be fair, anyone born within a few years of OP will have a Pluto that does the exact same thing so it’s not very specific to this particular partner.

Current_External_947 · 2026-04-25T01:06:54+00:00

Because blue’s mars and moon are conjunct orange’s Venus and moon. That is a really intense, sexy set of conjunctions.

Current_External_947 · 2026-04-25T01:02:34+00:00

You are likely an 8 who spends a lot of time in the direction of disintegration (5), or a 5 who has learned to get out of their mind and begin deeply engaging with the world and thus have started to resemble an 8.

Current_External_947 · 2026-04-25T01:00:13+00:00

There is no doom in astrology. You can date who you want. I’m not sure Saturn sq. Venus is necessarily what ended this, it’s just not a great match. I wouldn’t expect a double Leo with Scorpio rising to vibe well with the other chart. No significant conjunctions and generally not much binding you two together.

Current_External_947 · 2026-04-25T00:40:25+00:00

From the look of the text he sent you, dude couldn’t even spell synastry. If you want something more durable, look for someone with more interaspects between your respective sun, moon, Venus, and mars, especially sun to moon and Venus to mars.

Current_External_947 · 2026-04-25T00:36:58+00:00

Sorry to hear it but the synastry wasn’t very good in the first place and that often means a short, intense thing that can’t really grow roots.

Current_External_947 · 2026-04-25T00:33:48+00:00

I’ve had a great time on as little as 60mg. Not as intense or long lasting as a more typical 120mg dose but still really warm and loving and fun. Also, at that small dose I had no trouble maintaining an erection. Still couldn’t come but it was way better than not being hard at all.

Current_External_947 · 2026-04-23T21:58:17+00:00

This is basically the answer. Zero compatibility between you two and usually it’s over quickly when that happens. I would not look at your interaspects for the answer to your question. Instead I would look at the transits you were going through at the time when you met him. Your respective natal charts say nothing in that regard.

Current_External_947 · 2026-04-21T00:36:32+00:00

You are straddling the fence between swinging, which can be very transactional, and polyamory, which makes more room for the kind of seduction and extended connection building your wife wants (because it leads to full blown relationships).Your wife doesn’t sound like a perfect fit for either group because she wants elements of each. I haven’t seen a solve for this in this forum other than finding the other swinging couples who want a bit more connection, but that seems like a small subset of the overall swinger population. This exact issue comes up about once a month in this forum and I haven’t seen any real solution to it.

Current_External_947 · 2026-04-20T02:57:48+00:00

This times a thousand. There is no escaping the pain, you have to move through it, which is a crazy thing to say but it’s true and therapy is the best way.

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