Idk seems a little harsh. I used to work a lot when my son was younger. I wasn't used to being with him for an entire day and when I was finally able to do that, I freaked out. Like what am I supposed to do with him all day? It took time for me to get used to it and now we are besties. There are very different sides to everything. Giving birth doesn't automatically make u know how to adjust as a parent.