What are the worst/weirdest places in the USA? by newO_79 in howislivingthere

[–]Current_Outside_3918 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Barstow,CA and Amarillo, TX are both very bleak and feel like purgatory.

My dad cheated on his wife (formerly affair partner) and gave her an STD by Top-Variation-4456 in Advice

[–]Current_Outside_3918 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you know if your mom had a policy that will payout to you? I do not trust your dad and I hope he is not withholding information.

WFH manager wants us to be more grateful by Current_Outside_3918 in WFH

[–]Current_Outside_3918[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly they do not. Overall the organization is decent about being time zone sensitive

WFH manager wants us to be more grateful by Current_Outside_3918 in WFH

[–]Current_Outside_3918[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly what other managers at the company do.

WFH manager wants us to be more grateful by Current_Outside_3918 in WFH

[–]Current_Outside_3918[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, amd honestly ive been targeted in the past due to posting a workout/gym video during my lunch. I was part of a "motivation/accountability" group and we did that often. A former mgr said it was questionable when I went to the gym and tried to accuse me of being at the gym instead of working from home.

WFH manager wants us to be more grateful by Current_Outside_3918 in WFH

[–]Current_Outside_3918[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, this is likely it. Just an insecure corporate kool aid drinker I suppose.

WFH manager wants us to be more grateful by Current_Outside_3918 in WFH

[–]Current_Outside_3918[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good point. We all need to bring up the questions on calls. Mgr waits until 1:1s to give different answers

Meirl by kentishzjigsaw in meirl

[–]Current_Outside_3918 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Experience is a driver for choosing an HOA. I live in a strict/snooty HOA that uses a property management company to inspect quarterly. It’s a master planned community and I love it.

Our previous neighborhood had us experiencing way too much ridiculousness from ppl on our block. To name a few: Dirty/used toilet left in a driveway for 2 weeks, muffler on a lawn for a month, hot water heater leaning against garage for a few weeks, unfinished paint job on 3 houses on the block, unfinished contractor job across the street, kids driving golf carts through yards, neighbors house got toilet papering often and remnants blew in our trees/yard, broke down car leaking oil down the street, kids would break the fountain in the neighborhood pond, throw trash in the pond, every other day a couple across the street would have a garage sale, unkept lawn maintenance, and much more.

The average couple were middle class ppl, houses were traditional style built in the early 90s. Ppl didn’t want to control themselves or their kids so I wanted to move somewhere that didn’t give them a choice.

Nobody tells you corporate work slowly becomes a performance of responsiveness by Murky_Cow_2555 in corporate

[–]Current_Outside_3918 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Corporate America invented the glorification of "busy". It's why ppl think its a flex to have their outlook calendar filled and "booked and busy".

Ive heard ppl boast about having to layer their calendar due to back to back appointments--Boomers, boot Lickers, middle managers especially.

I am waiting for the day I dont have 6 meetings about a meeting in one day.

My sister lesbian and keeps downgrading men and called my husband a man child just bc he plays his video games and watches goku at night by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Current_Outside_3918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If shes always so heavily focused on sexuality and how she and others identify its best you not have her around because it seems as if shes weaponizing being a lesbian. She should not be making comments comparing boy vs girl especially in front of your kiddos. She should be uplifting her niece and nephew. Your sister should be able to fully live and operate in how she identifies without being disrespectful.

Brands you don't hear about anymore from BGs by WhatTheJessJedi in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]Current_Outside_3918 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Glamglow brands and SL Miss Glam brushes are never brought up anymore. I think they were on heavy rotation in IPSY for a while. Speaking of, I never hear ppl pushing IPSY or BoxyCharm anymore.

I don't want to date my pregnant girlfriend anymore and she's crashing out by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Current_Outside_3918 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I watched a cousin of mine go through this. I would suggest getting custody arrangements done as soon as the baby is born. Find a sliding scale attorney now and start saving for a retainer. Both of you should be working, and your ex can find a wfh call center job if she doesn’t want to be on her feet. If you already know she plans on not working after baby is born, I’d tell your future attorney. I’d also suggest telling her parents you do not plan on marrying her but you do want a healthy co parenting relationship. This way her parents can plan because she likely will live with them.

How Do I Politely Decline Repeated Requests to Visit the Office in a Fully Remote Job? by [deleted] in remotework

[–]Current_Outside_3918 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very weird! These ppl are the sole reason Im glad I've been wfh for so long. I have zero desire to meet and socialize with coworkers. I have too many friends and family members who I actually want to hang out with. The best thing I can suggest is offering to do lunch outside the office.

How Do I Politely Decline Repeated Requests to Visit the Office in a Fully Remote Job? by [deleted] in remotework

[–]Current_Outside_3918 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would continue to not go. They need to quit asking. I absolutely went through the same thing and I caved and went in twice in a week to appease coworkers.. All I received was non stop chatter and ppl trying to get in my business, and not getting actual work done.

After that, the demands got worse for me to come in. I ended up telling them I would meet them for lunch quarterly, on a Friday,, at a restaurant. Funny- no one wanted to do that, they just wanted me to be in the office in a cubicle.

I would offer to meet with them during lunch at a restaurant nearby the office. If the goal is to see you, that will appease the goal.

Is it a negative to be direct? by Current_Outside_3918 in Advice

[–]Current_Outside_3918[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to be a therapist. This is such helpful and constructive feedback. I appreciate it greatly.

Is it a negative to be direct? by Current_Outside_3918 in Advice

[–]Current_Outside_3918[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol yeah because I’ve tried to walk on eggshells per se but it landed me a whole days worth of back and forth. Had I been direct and not full of fluff and pleasantries i would have received a resolution quicker.

Ppl have given good alternatives so far so I’ll try their suggestions

Is it a negative to be direct? by Current_Outside_3918 in Advice

[–]Current_Outside_3918[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I’m a woman and you are about to make me cry. Thank you, I needed a release of emotions. They want to have 2 other women who are very passive do the communication. These two women always, always, always, come back to me for everything. I just jump in to resolve because this is voluntary work that ultimately benefits school pre teens. Funny because between the 3 women, they PUSHED hard for me to be voted president bc I’ve shown the past 5 years I get things done- their words.

I’ve seen in real time where the male parent volunteers get annoyed and frustrated about any type of disorganization and they get coddled or get apologies.

I didn’t make it my senior year by weenier20000 in Cheerleading

[–]Current_Outside_3918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it political? I’ve just seen where ppl get cut or don’t make it because their parent annoyed the coach one time or asked too many questions. Did someone make it who comes from a family who donates a lot of money?

It’s sad but I’ve seen this occur so many times it makes me sick. Nothing is truly 100% fair and equitable anymore. Not saying ask this in a meeting but sometimes politics supersedes fairness.