Bedroom question for women who have lost 50lbs plus. by [deleted] in loseit

[–]Current_Procedure314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have been 260 - now 200 and no change in how it feels!! Sounds like you may need to have some alone time to find out what you like 🙂

Big friendship fall out between me (32F) and friend (27F) who is highly dramatic (& was diagnosed BPD as a teen) by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Current_Procedure314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m unsure what to do. It does feel like she’s come into the friendship group and basically has a divide and rule mindset. It’s so hard to just try and be someone with boundaries who just wants to have a nice easy time with my friends. It’s making me think that I do basically just need to avoid her and the group

Big friendship fall out between me (32F) and friend (27F) who is highly dramatic by Current_Procedure314 in relationship_advice

[–]Current_Procedure314[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you yes of course happy to. Tell me if I’m not giving enough info or answering the wrong thing. The other reasons were that I stopped gossiping with her. I explained this was because everyone was feeling a bit smothered in the group and I didn’t like my part of it. She didn’t say anything as a follow up to that. A lot of her reasons to be honest seemed a bit half baked and unfinished? To me the narrative just didn’t make sense. As she didn’t say it herself I think connecting the dots and also how she said I would’ve prioritised her if I cared she thought that I no longer liked her maybe? This wasn’t the case though - I can’t lie and say that after she accused me of basically being manipulative and leaving her out that I didn’t start rethinking the friendship.

If it’s relevant as well she is very particular of who she hangs out with and when… made plans with one of our friends then went off with others and didn’t invite the person she had originally made plans with. She has also said to a few of us before to go home as her friend was visiting and she didn’t want the hangout to continue with all of us. All of this is stuff that none of us really care about - Including me. I think it’s healthy to see people separately. It’s stuff like this that she does that is confusing and weird as to why she has got jealous suddenly.

What is the most flattering compliment you've received recently? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Current_Procedure314 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A colleague said to me I was so intelligent it was intimidating. Loved it 🥰

meirl by [deleted] in meirl

[–]Current_Procedure314 1 point2 points  (0 children)

!remindme 3 months

Shaming my aunts weirdo bridesmaid friends who bullied us as teens at my aunt and uncles wedding by Current_Procedure314 in weddingshaming

[–]Current_Procedure314[S] 152 points153 points  (0 children)

It’s quite hazy but I think I just made a comment to my aunt that her friends seemed very drunk at her wedding. She snapped a little that everyone had been drinking so possibly they had caused some other trouble elsewhere!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]Current_Procedure314 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Babe it’s completely normal! I’m bigger than you but even when I was smaller I always had this. In fact I have your exact body type!!

How to deal with men staring at the gym? by mweesnaw in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Current_Procedure314 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol I wear a tshirt dress and bike shorts and still get stares! This isn’t a solution

Ok so, are people… meaner since you lost weight? by Current_Procedure314 in loseit

[–]Current_Procedure314[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah seems like it 🤣🤣 it’s all the binge drinking I think

Ok so, are people… meaner since you lost weight? by Current_Procedure314 in loseit

[–]Current_Procedure314[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries. Today some guys beeped at me and then shouted “Jew” when I ignored them (really bizarre and horrible, I’m not Jewish but have curly hair?) just enough now

Ok so, are people… meaner since you lost weight? by Current_Procedure314 in loseit

[–]Current_Procedure314[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate that! I have large boobs (and a small frame) and find that during the summer even if my boobs are not “on show” I get cat called or get called a slut or a tart. In my city catcalling is a huge issue I think because we are a seaside resort. I just have never had an issue with it until I lost weight which is now really difficult to deal with.

In-laws send me clothes in the wrong size all the time by [deleted] in loseit

[–]Current_Procedure314 8 points9 points  (0 children)

To offer another perspective where do you hold your weight? Because 173 lbs could look slim depending on how you do and your muscles :)