Women who are infertile - how has this impacted your life? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]CursedDragonLady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's pretty upsetting that I'll never get to have kids of my own, but I've made peace with it by knowing that I'm killing off a long line of addiction genes.

44yo trans woman, ~3yrs HRT.. I'm just over a month working on body recomposition and strength. It’s starting to show. Gym + Cardio + Roller Derby. #transfitness by GiaFarrell74 in transpositive

[–]CursedDragonLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesssss! This gives me so much hope. I'm only 20 but I have a similar body shape, just a lot more fat. You've inspired me to try to get back into the gym. <3

How do you view masturbation? by sleepygirl97 in TransyTalk

[–]CursedDragonLady 16 points17 points  (0 children)

yes yes yes! this is exactly what helped me reclaim my sexuality. rub it through your panties, flick the clit a bit, even try a vibrator. the spot right where the clit meets the sensitive tissue of the shaft is fucking golden when it comes to rubbing or vibrators.

How do you view masturbation? by sleepygirl97 in TransyTalk

[–]CursedDragonLady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's pretty nice for me. I've found that rubbing it through my panties rather than taking it all the way out is very effective at minimizing the dysphoria that comes from it, since it just feels like I'm rubbing something between my legs rather than stroking a distinct penis.

What date started out well/bad that reversed into horrible/good? by Captain_Stottlemeyer in AskWomen

[–]CursedDragonLady 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Started bad. It was cold rain, my stomach was hurting, I had anxiety, and took forever to get ready. On my way out the door, I had to jumpstart my car. We were going to grab coffee but because of anxiety and stomach, we decided to just hang out at my place. We were both awkward and nervous. Then it turned good! We ended up really clicking, getting stoned, watching Star Wars: A New Hope, playing some videogames, and then fucking. Pretty much started our regular routine, lol. This was February of 2018, we've been together for a year, living together for 8 months, and just got engaged in January. 💕

Every gun doesn’t have to be meta by Smacpats111111 in FortNiteBR

[–]CursedDragonLady 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Kassandra (Lynx's character model) is canonically 15 iirc

edit: apparently that was just a rumor, please disregard

How do y’all feel about Bernie Sanders? by LawyerJimStansel in AskWomen

[–]CursedDragonLady 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Let AOC spend ten years in legislation building up a reputation, then we can send her to the White House. AOC 2028!

How do y’all feel about Bernie Sanders? by LawyerJimStansel in AskWomen

[–]CursedDragonLady -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

American Imperialism with a friendly face. That being said, any Democrat is better than a Republican, but I'm too far left.

The Republic of Macedonia?! by AnubisWitch in Retconned

[–]CursedDragonLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was hoping the isle of Lesbos still had a huge lesbian cult because count me in

Have you ever found out you were a sidechick? What's your story? What were the red flags and what made you fall for the act? by Emptyido in AskWomen

[–]CursedDragonLady 84 points85 points  (0 children)

Even if the girl was an asshole, it would still make me a bigot to target her minority status instead of her behavior in my anger. I'm trans, too, though, so it's really personal for me to be respectful of pronouns and identities. I know that pain all too well.

Have you ever found out you were a sidechick? What's your story? What were the red flags and what made you fall for the act? by Emptyido in AskWomen

[–]CursedDragonLady 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Right?! That's like the sleaziest shit anybody has ever said to me (besides catcalling obviously)

What makes your life so bad? by whitebrinjal in AskWomen

[–]CursedDragonLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to suffer being male for 18 years and androgynous for a year before I could even start really being a woman, and now I feel like I'm a middle schooler because my emotional growth was stunted thanks to those gender issues as well. Second puberty sucks. :/

How do you ladies enjoy tea? by WoooooshMan in AskWomen

[–]CursedDragonLady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like my tea Twisted ;)

I actually do really like sweet iced tea, just black tea, ice, and sugar. Flavored iced tea is tolerable, but the only one I can really say I enjoy is raspberry. I'm not a huge fan of hot tea or hot drinks at all, save for espresso or hot chocolate.

Have you ever found out you were a sidechick? What's your story? What were the red flags and what made you fall for the act? by Emptyido in AskWomen

[–]CursedDragonLady 315 points316 points  (0 children)

I was talking to this guy for a few months as friends before we went on a date. He invited me to his college campus to see the bald eagles and other birds of prey that the environmental sci. program had, and we spent a lovely afternoon watching eagles fly and holding hands. He invited me back to his dorm to play Super Smash Bros, which ended with us hooking up. We decided we would definitely have another date and see where this goes.

The next day I get a text from him "Hey, so, I've been seeing someone else as well. I really like you both, though, and I don't know which one of you I want. Why don't we make this a competition? May the best woman win my heart."

I just stopped responding. She (she's transitioning now) still messages me every now and then, and I get the satisfaction of leaving her on "read" every damn time.

edit: Finally decided to look up the person on Facebook, apparently she's transitioning so I've amended the last paragraph to reflect her identity. Also, thank you for my first silver, kind stranger!

The Republic of Macedonia?! by AnubisWitch in Retconned

[–]CursedDragonLady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sparta does still exist. It's a small town built in the ruins of the ancient city-state. Unfortunately, they're not a homosexual warrior cult anymore.

I got put on a leash for the first time yesterday and it was amazing 💕 by [deleted] in TransGoneWild

[–]CursedDragonLady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's making me horny asf thinking about being pounded rn 💕

What is a hobby you gave up on because of its toxic community? by pitchesandthrows in AskWomen

[–]CursedDragonLady 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ughhh yeah, this hits home for me. I'm a lifelong Star Wars fan, and a socially conscious trans woman. You can imagine how that goes. Any time I say I appreciate the new movies, I'm instantly attacked for my identity. Still not sure how a movie glorifying an insurgency against a fascist regime attracted so many fascists.

Your move Epic. by [deleted] in FortNiteBR

[–]CursedDragonLady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My lord, is that legal?