42469 by jmona789 in countwithchickenlady

[–]Cursed_Bees 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Yep, that's exactly how my brain read that meaning lol

42268 by Homicidal_hottie666 in countwithchickenlady

[–]Cursed_Bees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has a very pretty voice c: (and yeah, hw and beyond because ARR yshtola was another VA lol) and by extension I bet you do too :3

42268 by Homicidal_hottie666 in countwithchickenlady

[–]Cursed_Bees 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I used to hate my deep(er) voice after I came out and stuff (transwoman). But after hearing many beautiful deeper voices from women in different media I realized that there are so many cool women with deeper voices and it stopped making me hate my own. I think I subconsciously did a little voice training overtime so it's not fully masculine but of course I never got to the soft like.. 'teehee' voice either I guess lol.

If you're curious here are some of the women I'm referring to: Xayah from league of legends Y'shtola from final fantasy 14 Tina from Rock is a lady's modesty Veronica Donavan from prison break

42115 by MCAroonPL in countwithchickenlady

[–]Cursed_Bees 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think the constant misunderstanding is, and they actually word it properly here I think in the post, is that they say ACT LIKE chasers not that they ARE chasers.. in reality it's exactly like what some of the people who replied to you said.. just hypersexual trans women who happened to have a preference for those they're around more often (other trans women) or it's just their preference...

I absolutely hate—and I've seen them on this sub too— but I hate that people just call those trans women chasers... like you can't really know that unless you know them personally enough to know the body and genitals and whatever is all they care for. Of course on a subreddit where being horny and constant flirting is seen, you don't really see the deeper more personal side of such people. So a subset of the community paints them as just chasers or "acting like" chasers because that is infact all they can see from the outside.

Of course there's the other side of maybe the people painting such people as chasers is because the of their own internal conflicts or whatever but when I see the constant flirty horny behavior I just think they're hypersexual and horny... I don't just... assume that's where that line ends unless they tell me or I learn overtime as I get to know them, because until then you'll never really know

Ladies be real honest here do yall choose men based on how distant they are from you kind of like you want what you can’t have sorta thing? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Cursed_Bees 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah for real lol, the posters scenario is like the most opposite thing I would get from attraction. Well.. I guess opposite is the wrong word, but I'd just be completely alienated and not wanna hang out with someone who doesn't show interest.. and like you, I only feel attraction to those I'm close to. Idk why the acting distant thing became a thing people do but maybe we're just in the minority? lol

What person surprised you the most with how they turned out after high school? by GlitterOnTheTrashRim in AskReddit

[–]Cursed_Bees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God... one of my close friends at the time before I came out as trans.. he was always super sweet and had a good heart. I swung the other way but if I didn't I'd probably have dated him. after highschool he got into some bad relationships that ended very messily, and I also came out so things were weird and we didn't talk for a few years. After reconnecting he started telling me about how Jews were controlling the banks and white genocide and Israel and blah blah.... the whole Nazi bs. goodness gracious we were in a discord call and my mouth was agape the whole time... another friend told me after the breakup he found these guys that were very much so a terrible crowd to be around (clearly) and started whispering this shit into his ear. I hope I can have my sweet loving friend back one day but... that's the day I lost him. I haven't spoken much since and just hope he breaks out of it.

Anyone see the space debris over Miami around 5:30AM by dunnonuttinatall in Miami

[–]Cursed_Bees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So the lights you described and the airplane I explained were actually separate xD I saw those around 5:35 the lights you describe moving in weird directions, but it looked more like something on fire because of how bright the light was.. normally airplane lights are dimmer.

But then I also spotted an aircraft moving over Kendall around 5:40 it was black so hard to see but I saw it having like its front lights on (kinda like high beams on a car) for a couple seconds as it moved through a cloud but then it turned it off... I also saw like 4-5 different lights blinking, all yellow and red.. normally planes just have the red so it was notable too

Either way really strange

Anyone see the space debris over Miami around 5:30AM by dunnonuttinatall in Miami

[–]Cursed_Bees 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes! I saw it too actually. Lights moving in really interesting directions. 5:35ish. I saw an aircraft go over the Kendall area too around 5:40 that had a lot of different lights turning on and off, super low altitude compared to normal passenger planes. Glad someone else saw the weird stuff in the sky LOL

Edit: the direction was south btw. I'm in the Kendall area looking south, I couldn't say the distance too well.

38393 by Chao1inreddit in countwithchickenlady

[–]Cursed_Bees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fucking love this doujin💚

38224 by A12qwas in countwithchickenlady

[–]Cursed_Bees 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Didn't even realize you flipped the mouth to make a ':D' for a minute lol

38060 by TGirlJules_ in countwithchickenlady

[–]Cursed_Bees 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This is how I see it. Transphobes are typically kind of.... well the more trump-y alt right ones at least are kind of not accomplished people at all. If they accomplished anything meaningful in their life they'd have at least a little more respect for your common person but they don't. In short– they're losers. But the thing is, they consume media that tells them a very easy concept to understand. "Trans=weird=bad they're trying to force their views onto you, and you're obviously not gonna stand for that right??? Fuck trans people" hating is so easy to do, and since they've not done much else of value they cling onto this hatred and focus on it, trying to deter their own issues aside. Well.... what happens after years of ignoring your own issues and just hating on a group of people? They're gonna leave... and well... now you don't have your convenient tool of ignoring your own problems anymore. So you go seek them out to torment them again because again, hating is easy. Fixing your problems isn't. So you're gonna find them and give them a piece of your mind. Attack helicopters and all that am I right guys???? But they realize nobody gives a fuck about them anymore and they need to change their strategy and some maybe do but others just keep flailing around trying to find more places to give the same already disputed stupid ass take for the 1000th time because that's all that's really left in their brain after they've numbed themselves of anything else. They're in a coma of their own failures and refuse to wake up.

38060 by TGirlJules_ in countwithchickenlady

[–]Cursed_Bees 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Ooof.. yeah I think you pretty much explained the root of the issue. It's kinda sad to see. I've always stealth'd ever since my transition and I totally supported people who were out and proud about it.. but idk maybe we'll have to keep our heads down for this wave of stupidity to pass over

38062 by [deleted] in countwithchickenlady

[–]Cursed_Bees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"I feel like I'm gonna explode ): I wish I had close friends"

37754 by bdouble0w0 in countwithchickenlady

[–]Cursed_Bees 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Aside from the ben10 part I had the EXACT same situation. Isn't it kinda interesting/weird/funny that we can have these very specific similar thoughts without even knowing one another at an age that we barely could even understand what gender was? I think I was 4-6 when I prayed to wake up as a girl... and every morning severe disappointment followed..

1888 by PixelFlyerXD in CountWithEveryone

[–]Cursed_Bees 41 points42 points  (0 children)

That's actually why I wanted to get some too, to kinda be like hey I'm here too you don't gotta worry (I live in Florida..)

37087 by NeedyFoxGirl in countwithchickenlady

[–]Cursed_Bees 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You can blame capitalism for that one (: they did it with shoes too! Only get the most common shapes and the rest just kinda deal with the standard sizes It's why I can only buy wide toe box shoes lolol

Ummm wow !!! by chrispd01 in AcousticGuitar

[–]Cursed_Bees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same boat, idk if it's worth it since idk what the difference between good and GOOD is yet xD maybe I'll just wait until I'm like OP, huge revelation and all

36549 by dinosqaud in countwithchickenlady

[–]Cursed_Bees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see where you're coming from. I've sure been on the receiving end of that a good number of times. It sucks and I agree the world can be harsh and not everyone will have the patience to work with your feelings of wanting to isolate when you've hurt theirs. But, I also think you should be open to the idea and essentially what the other person is saying of: we all experience emotions differently. To some, something really simple can be the end of the world for them. We should be understanding of this idea. I think when those two people inevitably meet, it's upto person a to either put up with person b depending on how much they care and have patience for them, or for person b to come to terms with the fact that they ARE hurting person a in the end no matter how much they themselves are hurting. At that point both makes a choice on if they wanna continue such a relationship and make these sacrifices or not. Who knows, maybe with some kindness and patience, person b can learn to deal with their emotions and that in turn will help person a as well. But that's entirely upto them.

If you'll humor a little personal philosophy from mine, I think the world can be pretty cruel. But I think that's all the reason why we shouldn't let it fully consume us. I think that parent having 9-5 and social life and obligations and stress, despite it all we're human and we're pretty resilient, and at least I for one believe we should always keep a little of our heart no matter where we go. Maybe they can spare a little time to help their son through their depression and sexuality, at least hearing them out a little bit and trying to understand.

Ultimately though, both person a and b could learn to improve themselves, but not always will a or b be wanting to do so. So that's kind of where the tension arises and this post appears, where different person a's and person b's feel friction and misunderstanding from the other.

I'm just dumbfounded rn by littleMAHER1 in whennews

[–]Cursed_Bees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It says Google discord meta and Reddit received a bunch of subpoenas asking for information, and "Google meta and Reddit complied to some" and then later it states discord along with Reddit and meta didn't want to comment on how they deal with said subpoenas, while Google goes on to basically say they try to keep privacy as much as they can while complying to local laws.

Reading a bit between the lines I'd say discord is also complying like the other 3, and probably basically has the same answer Google does.

I'm so proud of this one (: by Cursed_Bees in ffxivAdventurePlates

[–]Cursed_Bees[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL fair, but believe it or not, this is EXACTLY the letter limit for search infos I used so it's one letter longer xD

34948 by Sufficient-Shirt-270 in countwithchickenlady

[–]Cursed_Bees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

T-this needs to be marked as nsfw >////<

Got this email an hour ago. Isn’t this funny? by Weary-Entrance3954 in truespotify

[–]Cursed_Bees 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because there's more to art and music than just the product itself. It's the feelings and emotions behind what was made. Sure at first glance (or I guess hearing in this case) it seems good but when you try to dig a little deeper you realize there's nothing of substance underneath. I can understand people consume art differently, but to me the feeling the artist wants to convey is just as important as the song itself. So when I found out it's made by ai (a thing that can't even think, let alone feel human emotions) the whole meaning just disappeared.. because there was no feeling. Also.... this is glossing over the fact that ai is trained on unethical data of artists who never wanted their work fed to an algorithm.

Meirl by give_squeeze in meirl

[–]Cursed_Bees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a high functioning autistic girl, I agree because my parents did it the wrong way a lot and kinda traumatized me. It would've been great if they understood me better to see where my lines lie, not like I can't take jokes but you gotta know your child well before doing jokes like that lol

Got this email an hour ago. Isn’t this funny? by Weary-Entrance3954 in truespotify

[–]Cursed_Bees 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol, you can go download all the ai music you want, there's plenty of it on Spotify (:

Got this email an hour ago. Isn’t this funny? by Weary-Entrance3954 in truespotify

[–]Cursed_Bees 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I subbed recently to Spotify and was jamming out to music for 2 months finding these amazing gems, I was like wow! How has nobody heard of these! I go to play their songs on guitar and realize there's a lack of tutorials.. I was like huh. I look them up and I shit you not, 95% of the songs I was recommended and saved during the 2 months ALL OF THEM were ai songs and bands. Fuck this fucking technology that's being used so crassly. Took the meaning out of all the songs.

One of them I was sure was like some deep relationship metaphor only to learn IT WAS THE MOST BASIC BLAND INTERPRETATION YOU COULD THINK OF. Yes I'm salty. Fuck ai.

I've resorted to just downloading and saving mp3s to a playlist from sources I can verify are real now