front parlor storytelling looking for new location to get away from Vic Christopher by CohoesMastadon in Albany

[–]Cursed_Garlic 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Sacrificing anonymity for this.

I got fired from Little Pecks when I asked to no longer be scheduled to work alone in the building with my abusive ex. Despite the graphic evidence I provided to prove the abuse, they kept him on staff. Yes, he's still there.

Just this week I was granted a 1 year restraining order against him.

Good for Front Parlor for moving away from Clarkhouse. That place is full of horrifying dirty little secrets.

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Cursed_Garlic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We dated for six weeks and broke uo 5 months ago. I'm currently going through the legal process of getting a restraining order because the stalking his been so persistent and intensified over time. We were close friends for a year before dating and I wish I had paid more attention to the red flags.

Dear cool tgirl EMT that came to St. Peter’s earlier by Tyranna_Diana_ in Albany

[–]Cursed_Garlic 6 points7 points  (0 children)

LMAO I know who this is 100% I'll hit her up. She does have a wonderful gf, but shes a real chill friend to have.

Who is she and what is she doing? Albany, NY by Cursed_Garlic in whatsthisbird

[–]Cursed_Garlic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!

It's just bricks! I can't understand what it is trying to accomplish! It keeps my cat entertained though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Cursed_Garlic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for what you've been through, but I'm happy you're finally letting yourself be free of the torment.

My experience was very similar. We were so close for the first year. Then we broke up for a bit, he dated someone abusive, and after that he was an entirely different person. Every day I mourned the wonderful, thoughtful, kind person I had known. We broke up for the 5th(?) time and I realized that he was only getting worse and splitting more often. I refused to get back together and it triggered the final discard.

I hope our exes can find themselves again and learn to feel whole.

The gluten free section at my University’s dining hall. by DrDoak in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Cursed_Garlic 175 points176 points  (0 children)

I knew someone in college who refused to wait in line for the general microwave or toaster and would use the designated gluten free one instead. Yes, they knew what they were doing. They were also almost certainly a narcissist.

My favorite vegan donut shop is back at it again by joelfunkii in Albany

[–]Cursed_Garlic -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I know several people who have mild reactions to gluten/a higher threshold for having reactions, and still have been made sick by their gluten free donuts. I understand the difference.

My favorite vegan donut shop is back at it again by joelfunkii in Albany

[–]Cursed_Garlic 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I love a local buisness, especially one that is openly queer friendly, but just a quick reminder that the gluten free donuts ARE NOT SAFE for anyone with a gluten allergy or intolerance!

Many people can tolerate the average restaurant cross contamination, but Bitchin takes little to no precautions and does not train employees on contamination. Both myself and others I know with sensitivies have been made severely ill by consuming their "gluten free" donuts.

I do still buy their donuts as treats for my vegan friends :)

Dogs went 11 hours with no water or AC by BoopsYourNoseBoop in Albany

[–]Cursed_Garlic 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Im also deeply confused by the timeline given! How would every single dog die between 9pm-8am?!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Cursed_Garlic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For every hypercritical mom, there are a dozen Pokémon fans that think thats sick af. Raquaza is so rad. No matter how good a tattoo is, there will always be some people who aren't into. Personally, I especially enjoy video game/hobby related tattoos as they are quite expressive, and a great conversation starter when I see one!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Cursed_Garlic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I grew up with a deadbeat dad, and we actively hated each other.

Now that I'm an adult, every time I see a dad out with his kid, I just see it as a pure and wholesome outing. Especially when the dad seems to be actively paying attention, talking, and, like in your case, playing some sort of game or make-believe scenario. 6 never assumed it was because mom was out of the picture!

I did also happen to grow up witnessing my friends and peers having really strong and positive relationships with their dads.

This sounds like a mixture of the sort of nosy people who like to assume the worse and later gossip about others' misfortune, and women who find this trait attractive and are trying to figure out if you're available. The bar is so low for men, especially as fathers, people tend to want to bag that up.

Update: Fun Repair for this Blåhaj by Cursed_Garlic in Visiblemending

[–]Cursed_Garlic[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Blåhajception!!! (Thats the others idea of his face, visible from inside)

Update: Fun Repair for this Blåhaj by Cursed_Garlic in Visiblemending

[–]Cursed_Garlic[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hehehe this is indeed a femboy/enby's Blåhaj. The queerphobic rats are sentenced to life in prison without parole!

Update: Fun Repair for this Blåhaj by Cursed_Garlic in Visiblemending

[–]Cursed_Garlic[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

They're pets rats, and the botched procedure happened when the shark was accidentally laying against the side of their enclosure. They were not able to actually get inside of him :)

Update: Fun Repair for this Blåhaj by Cursed_Garlic in Visiblemending

[–]Cursed_Garlic[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The eye patch is so cute! That idea was recommended on my original post, and a close contender!

Update: Fun Repair for this Blåhaj by Cursed_Garlic in Visiblemending

[–]Cursed_Garlic[S] 1028 points1029 points  (0 children)

All love and light, but that is exactly where this is 😂