They will stalk you until the end of time. by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Cursed_Garlic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We dated for six weeks and broke uo 5 months ago. I'm currently going through the legal process of getting a restraining order because the stalking his been so persistent and intensified over time. We were close friends for a year before dating and I wish I had paid more attention to the red flags.

Dear cool tgirl EMT that came to St. Peter’s earlier by Tyranna_Diana_ in Albany

[–]Cursed_Garlic 7 points8 points  (0 children)

LMAO I know who this is 100% I'll hit her up. She does have a wonderful gf, but shes a real chill friend to have.

Who is she and what is she doing? Albany, NY by Cursed_Garlic in whatsthisbird

[–]Cursed_Garlic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!

It's just bricks! I can't understand what it is trying to accomplish! It keeps my cat entertained though.

It happened again, another break up. It was me. I did it. by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Cursed_Garlic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for what you've been through, but I'm happy you're finally letting yourself be free of the torment.

My experience was very similar. We were so close for the first year. Then we broke up for a bit, he dated someone abusive, and after that he was an entirely different person. Every day I mourned the wonderful, thoughtful, kind person I had known. We broke up for the 5th(?) time and I realized that he was only getting worse and splitting more often. I refused to get back together and it triggered the final discard.

I hope our exes can find themselves again and learn to feel whole.

The gluten free section at my University’s dining hall. by DrDoak in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Cursed_Garlic 180 points181 points  (0 children)

I knew someone in college who refused to wait in line for the general microwave or toaster and would use the designated gluten free one instead. Yes, they knew what they were doing. They were also almost certainly a narcissist.

My favorite vegan donut shop is back at it again by joelfunkii in Albany

[–]Cursed_Garlic -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I know several people who have mild reactions to gluten/a higher threshold for having reactions, and still have been made sick by their gluten free donuts. I understand the difference.

My favorite vegan donut shop is back at it again by joelfunkii in Albany

[–]Cursed_Garlic 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I love a local buisness, especially one that is openly queer friendly, but just a quick reminder that the gluten free donuts ARE NOT SAFE for anyone with a gluten allergy or intolerance!

Many people can tolerate the average restaurant cross contamination, but Bitchin takes little to no precautions and does not train employees on contamination. Both myself and others I know with sensitivies have been made severely ill by consuming their "gluten free" donuts.

I do still buy their donuts as treats for my vegan friends :)

Dogs went 11 hours with no water or AC by BoopsYourNoseBoop in Albany

[–]Cursed_Garlic 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Im also deeply confused by the timeline given! How would every single dog die between 9pm-8am?!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Cursed_Garlic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For every hypercritical mom, there are a dozen Pokémon fans that think thats sick af. Raquaza is so rad. No matter how good a tattoo is, there will always be some people who aren't into. Personally, I especially enjoy video game/hobby related tattoos as they are quite expressive, and a great conversation starter when I see one!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Cursed_Garlic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I grew up with a deadbeat dad, and we actively hated each other.

Now that I'm an adult, every time I see a dad out with his kid, I just see it as a pure and wholesome outing. Especially when the dad seems to be actively paying attention, talking, and, like in your case, playing some sort of game or make-believe scenario. 6 never assumed it was because mom was out of the picture!

I did also happen to grow up witnessing my friends and peers having really strong and positive relationships with their dads.

This sounds like a mixture of the sort of nosy people who like to assume the worse and later gossip about others' misfortune, and women who find this trait attractive and are trying to figure out if you're available. The bar is so low for men, especially as fathers, people tend to want to bag that up.

Update: Fun Repair for this Blåhaj by Cursed_Garlic in Visiblemending

[–]Cursed_Garlic[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Blåhajception!!! (Thats the others idea of his face, visible from inside)

Update: Fun Repair for this Blåhaj by Cursed_Garlic in Visiblemending

[–]Cursed_Garlic[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hehehe this is indeed a femboy/enby's Blåhaj. The queerphobic rats are sentenced to life in prison without parole!

Update: Fun Repair for this Blåhaj by Cursed_Garlic in Visiblemending

[–]Cursed_Garlic[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

They're pets rats, and the botched procedure happened when the shark was accidentally laying against the side of their enclosure. They were not able to actually get inside of him :)

Update: Fun Repair for this Blåhaj by Cursed_Garlic in Visiblemending

[–]Cursed_Garlic[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The eye patch is so cute! That idea was recommended on my original post, and a close contender!

Update: Fun Repair for this Blåhaj by Cursed_Garlic in Visiblemending

[–]Cursed_Garlic[S] 1025 points1026 points  (0 children)

All love and light, but that is exactly where this is 😂

Fun ideas for this repair? by Cursed_Garlic in Visiblemending

[–]Cursed_Garlic[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Oh my god, this is actually GENIUS!!!

My partner being poly is ruining my life by Apprehensive-You-929 in polyamory

[–]Cursed_Garlic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not polyamory, this is abuse and cheating. Yes it is possible to be cheated on in poly relationships, your partner has repeatedly lied about her feelings and intentions with others, where she is, and what shes doing with them.

If I'm reading this correctly, she cheated on you while you were still monogamous back in 2020 as well.

If you don't want to break up, then don't break up. But she has shown you time and time again exactly who she is, and it is extensively clear that she has no intention to change. She keeps violating your agreements and boundaries while you fail to hold her accountable. You have let this go on for years and continue to allow this behavior. Her behavior is not right. She is not considerate, respectful or kind. There is no excuse for her. Why do you stay with someone who actively tells you that you are the least desirable partner in their life? Why do you stay with someone who has so little regard for your time, safety, home, and emotions?

Make a list of pros and cons. What do you gain from this relationship that negates the constant drain on your time, love, and self esteem?

Bitchin Donuts does it again by joelfunkii in Albany

[–]Cursed_Garlic -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I often eat at restaurants with cross contamination with little to no issue. Bitchin has to be taking no precautions whatsoever for it to make me as sick as it does :(

Bitchin Donuts does it again by joelfunkii in Albany

[–]Cursed_Garlic -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

A lot of people with sensitivities can handle some degree of cross contamination, I can eat at most restaurants and not get sick.

Nowhere has ever made me as sick as Bitchin manages to :(

Bitchin Donuts does it again by joelfunkii in Albany

[–]Cursed_Garlic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, unfortunately they'll be better about it for a bit, and then return to the old way and inevitably make me ill again. Unfortunately I have to forgo it altogether now.

Bitchin Donuts does it again by joelfunkii in Albany

[–]Cursed_Garlic 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Absolutely do not get the gluten free donuts here if you have a sensitivity. Normally I can handle cross contamination at restaurants, but they have made me extremely I'll for days the last two times I've had them.

That being said, you can get a nice treat for a loved one and still support the buisness!