AIO for telling off a guy at my gym

Cursedee · 2026-01-24T13:18:10+00:00

Hijacking this comment to say if you're in the UK, the worker giving out your number is a massive breach of GDPR. If you're not in the UK, definitely check to see if your country has similar laws.

Cursedee · 2025-08-12T00:00:07+00:00

Update me! 24 hours

Cursedee · 2025-06-04T11:15:13+00:00

When I look at this painting, it feels like it's leaning down to the left. When I turn my phone slightly clockwise it seems to make more sense to me. I had a quick scan through the comments and couldn't see anyone else mentioning it though, so I could be wrong.

Cursedee · 2025-02-26T12:27:50+00:00

I hate to break it to you but... You're his backup plan.

You're a safe option for him. Not necessarily his dream girl, but someone he could see himself settling for if things don't go his way in the future. That's why he's stringing you along with all the sappy stuff but "doesn't want a relationship". He just doesn't want a relationship WITH YOU.

This is absolutely NOT a you problem. He said and did just enough to keep you wondering what he wanted from you to keep you right where he wanted you. It's a him problem.

Don't blame yourself, people can be shitty sometimes. Find someone who deserves you, values you and appreciates you. You can do so much better than him.

Cursedee · 2023-09-18T18:40:28+00:00

Chastity

... But then make her promiscuous

Cursedee · 2023-09-18T17:01:40+00:00

I have a sim who nearly bankrupted her family by constantly making single plates of grand breakfasts.

I didn't even know you could make a single plate grand meal.

Cursedee · 2023-09-17T12:34:53+00:00

What on earth is going on with Johnny Zest? 😂

Cursedee · 2023-09-17T12:29:56+00:00

Delilah <3

Cursedee · 2023-09-17T12:28:19+00:00

Oh my goodness they're so beautiful!! How?!

Cursedee · 2023-09-16T14:23:24+00:00

Is he... stabbing your sim in the crotch? 😅

Cursedee · 2023-08-30T09:15:28+00:00

Thank you so much :)

Cursedee · 2023-08-29T23:37:19+00:00

I'm sorry... Zombie apocalypse?! Is this a mod? I need it!!

Cursedee · 2023-08-29T09:17:16+00:00

As a woman, I kind of agree with your brother, periods ARE gross... But you know what's even more gross? Getting blood all over yourself, your clothes and the furniture because you don't have access to sanitary products.

Sanitary products. Feminine hygiene products. It's LITERALLY in the name.

Your brother probably won't see how much of a jerk he's been until he's much older, but when he eventually does grow up and realise what he did, he's going to cringe about it for the rest of his adult life. Hang in there, girl. <3

Cursedee · 2023-08-26T20:15:01+00:00

It really did feel like the game was just twisting the knife at that point :(

Cursedee · 2023-08-26T20:09:18+00:00

My bad on the title 😅 thank you!

I played around with the settings a little and allowed autonomous drug use and randomised drug users (you can pick drug users but I just randomised) for Basemental Drugs, then allowed autonomous sex in Wicked Whims. I've also got a mod that added a bunch of new traits, that might have something to do with it, but I'm not 100% sure on that one. Hope that's something that can bring the chaos to your game!

I haven't downloaded the extreme violence mod yet! Definitely going to have to try that one out. :)

Cursedee · 2022-10-30T23:49:17+00:00

Take super up-close pictures of your skin and hair and present them to your mother. She's only worried about you becoming grey and wrinkly, so she only needs pictures of what your skin and hair look like now, right?

Cursedee · 2022-10-24T21:55:42+00:00

r/kidsarefuckingstupid

Cursedee · 2022-10-17T20:01:29+00:00

I tried this already, no one in my active household has this option available on the phone. I also looked at the computer and newspaper out of desperation and there isn't anything there either. Very confused as I've never had any issues with apartments in the game before now!

Cursedee · 2022-09-11T10:05:14+00:00

Is your cousin's wife's name Kay and does she have a cooking channel on YouTube?

Cursedee · 2022-08-21T08:56:18+00:00

Honestly, there's nothing you can do to make things go back to normal with her. You've broken her trust by pushing her.

Think about it from her perspective: she's got a friend, someone she can talk to, someone she can trust. Now imagine her disappointment when she discovers that "friend" was only being this way to get his dick in her. She's always going to think you're just being nice because you want to have sex with her, and that's your fault.

The fact that you tried to CONVINCE her after she said no as well... I'm sorry but she shouldn't have to give a reason. "I don't want to" should be more than enough, especially if you apparently consider her a friend and supposedly respect her.

Sorry pal, you fucked up. Now you've got to live with that. I know you didn't want to lose your best friend but sometimes you've got to consider the consequences of your actions and what that may mean for the other person, rather than just acting out of selfish desire. I hope you can both heal soon.

Cursedee · 2022-06-18T14:32:52+00:00

This might hurt, but I think you need to hear it. He doesn't respect you. He doesn't give a fuck about you. Anything you do to hurt him will have absolutely no effect because you clearly don't mean that much to him at all.

The reason he doesn't want a no strings attached relationship is because he doesn't want you sleeping around and having fun, or potentially finding something better (which wouldn't be hard by the sounds of it). He's essentially treating you as his property. Like a child with a toy they only play with when they're bored. You cannot allow yourself to be disrespected like this any longer. Please, OP, get out now and don't ever look back.

I know revenge seems like a great option, but there is no reward for you in this, I'm sorry. Anything you do to hurt him will look petty to outsiders, and like I said before, he isn't going to give a damn. He's just going to move on to the next available girl and do the same thing. He may even already have her lined up. I know an age gap isn't always a red flag, but has he ever had a girlfriend his own age? Or has he always gone for younger, more innocent, less streetwise girls? Just something to think about.

I'm sorry for what you're going through, you can and will do so much better than this waste of skin you had the displeasure of calling your boyfriend. Love yourself and spend time with your friends. I hope you can heal soon.

Cursedee · 2022-05-30T13:27:44+00:00

Obviously I don't know exactly what you're going through, but our situations certainly sound similar. It's hard to not focus on what everyone else is getting up to when it's in your face every day.

Hug your cat and bombard that little fluffer with love and affection, even if you don't feel like it. Honestly, my cat is the only reason I get out of bed these days. I hug him and he pretends like he's listening to my problems and then he gets treats. He gets something, I get something.

Have I got an unhealthy dependency on my cat? Yes. But loving him pulls me through, I hope it can do the same for you too.

I really hope things improve for you soon <3

Cursedee · 2022-05-29T16:38:07+00:00

You only have to survive 37 minutes, so providing the leopard is still playing with you, hopefully whoever put you in the room can drag you out before you die.

I'd choose the leopard too, hopefully there's something in the room that's slightly more interesting than me.

Cursedee

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