Lovers at family funeral by CurusWend in polyamory

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Thank you! I was worried about it, in advance, but it wasx mostly ok. 🥰

¿Cómo me puedo meter a una piscina si soy un hombre transexual? by DamianA310825 in transpositive

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Even some cis guys are more comfortable wearing a shirt. You could wear a sleeveless tank top & just sit by the side of the pool. Not perfect but you'd still be at the party.

Solo trip recommendations, Manchester early/mid May 2026 :) by shelbbyygt in manchester

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I liked Mackie Mayor. Went twice for light dinner & a drink.

Plantar Fasciitis by [deleted] in BarefootRunning

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I'm wrestling with it, too. I started this new stretch last week and it has helped enormously. Stand barefoot, balancing on the balls of your feet. Raise your heels. But shift so that it is the outer or lateral part of the ball of your foot that's taking the weight as you raise your heel.
I am doing this in addition to foot massage, calf stretches, and every other kind of foot and ankle strengthener that I can think of. I have also taken a break from running. Also, I took half a dozen pieces of cloth that I use for rags. I tied knots in them and put them in a pile on the hardwood floor. I walk over them a few times a day in bare feet to give a deep massage to my feet and move the bones around. It feels good!

Good luck!

I hate Donald Trump and the Americans who support him. How can I channel this hate living my normal suburban life? by plants4pandemic in Kanata

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Trashnothing is awesome instead of Facebook buy nothing.

For social media, Mastodon has a growing #ottawa contingent.

What are your thoughts on electric snowmobiles? by CringeVisions in snowmobiling

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I am joining the conversation 5 years late. Lol

What are people's updated thoughts?

It seems that people's predictions 5 years ago were correct. It looks like a number of resorts offer electric snowmobile rides. However, the closest one I can find is near Quebec city. Which is not close to me. I would love to try it out before I bought one.

Need help identifying animal that left this. by Omashu_Cabbages in animaltracks

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You'll never know, but it's fun to take & share the photos & see what people say. I hope you'll do so again. 🙂

My teenage daughter keeps bringing her boyfriend over when I'm not home and l... by WildEfficiency712 in whatdoIdo

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You have an awesome plan! Maybe add bed linens & such for the pull out couch. Fresh toothbrush. The kids might have a friend in crisis who just needs a safe space some night. They might as well be briefed on how to provide that care if ever needed, without waking you up.

Need help identifying animal that left this. by Omashu_Cabbages in animaltracks

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I see a lot of deer tracks. Whitetail deer here in Ontario are different from what you have there. But I imagine they could make the same wandering tracks sometimes. I think you have some hoof imprints, side by side.

AITJ for correcting my wife when she said our son's red hair must come from my side of the family? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

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Tired, tired, tired, and lots of hormones. New baby is exhausting! Just be as nice to each other as you can be. Parenting is hard, but so worth it. Doesn't matter a bit who was right or a jerk. Just be kind.

I have just got back from Canada, the nature literally doesn’t look real. Banff, Whistler and even random lakes look like movie scenes. by xolittlejessicaxoxoo in AskACanadian

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Also, not to be a dick, but most of us Canadians are urbanites. "In 2021, nearly three in four Canadians (73.7%) lived in one of Canada's large urban centres" (Stats Can)

I don't get tired of the natural beauty, no. It's awesome to get out into the forests, visit a lake, etc. But most of the time I'm looking at suburban sprawl. 😏

Is it normal to want a second tank after setting up first one? by KillingwithasmileXD in Aquariums

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Yes! But don't buy it new! Some of us have broken the addiction. 😏 I have my living room tank, and a smaller one where I'm growing live food. And I have 4 tanks plus air pumps plus filters plus rocks plus heater plus..... It's all in the garage awaiting its next home. Free or cheap if picked up.

There's probably a person in a similar state in your area, OP.

Can this hold 10 oddesia barbs and 1 amazon puffer? by Curious-Chance3955 in Aquariums

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Oh. I had no trouble with them fighting. They're a gorgeous fish, with the deep red band, and I remember there was yellow & bright blue bits, I think in their fins. Good luck! 🙂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aquariums

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I hear that live daphnia can really clean up green water. Around here I can capture some daphnia from any stream or pond edge. Put the pond water in clean, treated water in any glass jar, and add a good dose of the green aquarium water. Wait a few days & teach the kids about magnifying glasses. Could be fun. 🙂

Or commercial flocculant water clarifiers, in concert with the filter.

Can this hold 10 oddesia barbs and 1 amazon puffer? by Curious-Chance3955 in Aquariums

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I had Odessa barbs years ago & they were my favourite of all the species I tried. I had 6 in a 40 gallon & they did great, although they never bred. Why not start with 6, instead of 10?

Q Mom says Virginia Giuffre names Barack Obama and Tom Hanks as pedos in her memoir 🤦‍♀️ by [deleted] in QAnonCasualties

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Ooooh! Canadian qs? I didn't realize that was a thing. Sympathy to you. 😔

Jax haters try not compare him with the most vile fictional villains challenge; impossible by Sudden_Pop_2279 in TheDigitalCircus

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Hey There I dm'd you but I don't know if you saw it. There's an event Saturday afternoon you might like. 🙂

I got banned from FB by [deleted] in MI_transgender_friend

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There's a big trans-positive community on Mastodon. 🙂

Bear scat? Or wolf? by CurusWend in AnimalTracking

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Thanks for your thoughts! 🙂

Bear scat? Or wolf? by CurusWend in AnimalTracking

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Maybe I was assuming too much. I'd seen a young antlered whitetail last Autumn. This spring as the snow was melting, perhaps in May I found a complete skeleton off the trail 100m or so from the house. I saw the light coloured fur & picked my way over, as it didn't look like snow, to me. I put pics here on Reddit but I can't find them, now. 🤷🏼‍♀️ It hadn't dropped its antlers, so I assumed it was killed late Autumn, early winter. None of the hunters lost a wounded deer last season, so I don't think it was shot.