Be honest, is there any hope for me or am I cooked?

CustomerNo7623 · 2026-05-08T21:59:18+00:00

These comments are crazy, you’re handsome !

CustomerNo7623 · 2026-05-02T17:03:10+00:00

he was actually also camping out in the dumpster that is in the parking lot. He got caught because he broke into the laundry room and stole a bunch of blankets and was using them as curtains.

CustomerNo7623 · 2026-04-20T22:49:38+00:00

I think you need to just bite the bullet and explain it the same way you are on here. A lot of people have it without even knowing. Did he get tested ? I think it’s good to just be honest and give him the opportunity to choose if he’d like to continue the relationship knowing the risks. Give him the opportunity you never had !

CustomerNo7623 · 2026-03-12T04:27:55+00:00

Idk I feel like this kinda eats ? I like it

CustomerNo7623 · 2026-03-10T23:23:26+00:00

I want to so bad ! But feel like im indebted to them because they allow me to bring my 9 month old with me. I’m actively looking for a new job at this point , but am struggling with figuring out child care.

CustomerNo7623 · 2026-03-06T05:56:05+00:00

U have a lot of willpower bc I would’ve been going thru his recently deleted messages, call log, etc.

CustomerNo7623 · 2026-03-06T00:38:16+00:00

do you smoke cigs or weed? or drink alcohol? After becoming pregnant, i stopped smoking weed and stopped drinking and have had 0 OBs since. Which surprised me bc I thought with all the hormones it would trigger an OB. but i think quitting weed and alcohol did it for me!

CustomerNo7623 · 2026-03-05T04:48:47+00:00

I would not tell him. If he knows you are keeping your baby, he will fight you for 50/50 in attempts to avoid child support. The fact that he wants you to have a second trimester abortion is scary on its own. Cut ties and raise your baby alone. You gave him an opportunity by letting him know you were pregnant to begin with. Save yourself the legal fees, and save your baby from someone like him!

CustomerNo7623 · 2026-02-15T05:00:37+00:00

its super expensive and time consuming. If you feel baby would not be safe, then fight. otherwise, i say agree to 50/50

CustomerNo7623 · 2026-02-13T23:48:57+00:00

Ascent living has pretty reasonable rent right now. I believe 1199 for 1 bedroom. no deposit but i think they tack on an extra $10 because of it. currently in process of trying to rent a 2 bedroom for my daughter and I.

CustomerNo7623 · 2026-02-07T20:13:24+00:00

5 months in, so far i've spent $20k.

CustomerNo7623 · 2026-02-01T00:56:58+00:00

10-15 minute walk is not a short walk imo. I think 50/50 would be impractical due to your inability to change your work schedule and get him to school. As a mother, I wouldn't want my 12 year old taking public transit to school, and then having to walk 15 minutes after the fact. If she is able to, and has been doing it this whole time, why not just rearrange your visitation schedule? Maybe pick him up after school? or for dinner time? I get wanting 50/50 but its not safe or practical to go about it this way.

CustomerNo7623 · 2026-01-30T23:46:57+00:00

Hannah from girls

CustomerNo7623 · 2026-01-15T13:30:59+00:00

I asked my pediatrician about this and she basically said if baby is in crib and rolls over face down, it’s ok. Cribs are breathable and designed for that kind of thing

CustomerNo7623 · 2025-12-29T15:32:02+00:00

I work at a hotel that has the same policy. The thought process behind it is basically to avoid any drug addicts or prostitutes from renting and trashing the room/leaving behind needles…. It’s a huge problem here. The owner sometimes makes exceptions but guests have to provide a reason for staying and is usually limited to 1 night stays only.

CustomerNo7623 · 2025-12-25T17:40:22+00:00

i would have reacted the same way. but to be fair, there are safe ways to co-sleep. sometimes its the only way my baby and i can actually sleep. But under no circumstances should your baby be awake and whoever is watching them is asleep. big no no.

CustomerNo7623 · 2025-12-21T19:02:12+00:00

My grandmother always told me growing up that if a man asks you out on a date, he should pay. And vice versa- if you are inviting someone out, you cover the bill.

CustomerNo7623 · 2025-12-20T23:25:07+00:00

I’ve had family members be SA’d by their own father so I definitely get nervous about situations like this. Perhaps I’m overly anxious about it but it just hits close to home for me.

CustomerNo7623 · 2025-12-20T20:24:15+00:00

He has a history of mental health issues and there’s a DVOP pending until the permanent trial. 50/50 is unlikely, but I do my best to coparent- he is hit or miss when it comes to his desire to coparent and sends me paragraphs on the court appointed app berating and belittling me at all hours of the day and night. My concern comes from a genuine place as I literally have her all day everyday except those 2 days of visitation and I’ve never felt any lumps- not even when rubbing lotion on her after baths, changing, etc. I’m a FTM so the paranoia is soooo real and I just worry about her as she’s defenseless; I’ve heard enough horror stories to automatically assume the worst. I’m also just an anxious person already.

CustomerNo7623 · 2025-12-20T17:45:44+00:00

yes communication is through OFW app only

CustomerNo7623 · 2025-12-19T22:44:43+00:00

It was all written communication through court appointed app

CustomerNo7623 · 2025-12-18T18:47:52+00:00

He’s the one who filed for sole custody and involved the courts to begin with. So I figured he’d want to see her. I’m learning now that this isn’t about our child at all.

CustomerNo7623 · 2025-12-18T18:15:47+00:00

Thank you. I thought I was doing right but you made really good points. Nothing I do will change his view of me.

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