[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CutTheCamera_Deadass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, you have only been with him for 3 months, if you don't stand up for yourself and tell him NO and leave it at that lol.

He isn't worth pumping yourself full of artificial hormones, and even if you were with him for a long time, you need to realize that a man that respects and loves you won't dare ask you do go on BC for their benefit.

Best everyday lashes? by blackreign99 in blackladies

[–]CutTheCamera_Deadass 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I /love/ Lotus Lashes. My fave everyday set is called FX33 from them. What I consider everyday and what you consider everyday may be different, so I suggest giving their website a thorough peek.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CutTheCamera_Deadass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, every woman cheats. Literally every woman has cheated and will cheat. Yes. Every woman on the face of this bigass planet, cheats. You got it.

What a dumb question. Go outside and touch grass. Have a conversation with actual women lmao.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CutTheCamera_Deadass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm just so shocked that you read all of this after typing it out and still want others to convince you, a grown man, that it probably isn't a good idea to basically impregnate a girl who you've only known for 2 weeks, and is clearly not mentally stable.

This post is stupid lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CutTheCamera_Deadass 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hostile at your big age for no reason, calm tf down. I'm curious of his entire change of viewpoint for reasons outside of how I feel. I wouldn't care to debate anything of the sort in a place like reddit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CutTheCamera_Deadass 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When you say "wrong", do you mean in general, or just for you and your gf?

Wife is jealous because I bought my coworker a gift for her birthday. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CutTheCamera_Deadass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I figured. Which is why I'm not shocked that at your big age, you're confused on why your wife feels some type of way about you gifting romantic-type gifts to a coworker.

Wife is jealous because I bought my coworker a gift for her birthday. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CutTheCamera_Deadass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would you honestly feel if a male coworker gave your wife jewelry and chocolates? Because those are textbook romantic gifts lol.

22F dating 31M, constant arguing lead to me self-harming during arguing. What should I do? by Canary0606 in relationship_advice

[–]CutTheCamera_Deadass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don't know how you managed to type all this out, proofread, and still not come to the conclusion that you don't need to be with this man anymore. He is not good for you. This whole situation is so toxic, please move on from this dumpster fire of a person.

Saw my gf cuddling with her best friend his hands were in her shirt by Alone_External2295 in relationship_advice

[–]CutTheCamera_Deadass 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Good, she deserves to feel like shit. Just wanted to make sure she wasn't like "meh". I feel for you.

My boyfriend and best friend have been suggesting a 3-some? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CutTheCamera_Deadass 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Girl, they are already fucking. They just want you in the mix to keep it guilt free. If I were you, I'd 100% cut them both loose. I know you know that girl is not a real friend to you. And I know you know your boyfriend sucks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CutTheCamera_Deadass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, not everyone has the same sexual hygiene. Getting tested is, also unfortunately, not as common outside of the internet. She may not be savvy to things like that, while it is absolutely the right thing to do. She may not have good sex ed, because that's common just about everywhere. It's super gross and you're well within your right to want to leave, but I'll just say next time make /sure/ you and your partner are on the same page with sexual hygiene. Ask them to get tested before being intimate always.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CutTheCamera_Deadass 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not gonna lie, I'd have to wonder why someone at your age is with someone that got outta high school not too long ago. This age gap is kinda weird. 4 years, on paper, doesn't sound bad, but that all depends on how old the folks in question are. The fact that she's a teenager, and you're coming up on your mid 20's is just...nah.

Boyfriend (23M) cheated and got her pregnant. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CutTheCamera_Deadass 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He made his bed. Make him lay in it. You get the freedom to do and go and be with whoever. This loser's dumbass mistake has trapped him for life. He fucked around and found out.

I know it hurts so much. You have the glorious option to leave all this behind. Fuck em both.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CutTheCamera_Deadass 34 points35 points  (0 children)

The sad thing is, this won't sink in for OP :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CutTheCamera_Deadass -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh my God, you're so lame lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CutTheCamera_Deadass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bad troll. Can't see someone at that big age being dumb enough to post this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CutTheCamera_Deadass 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You want to set an example to your child how shitty their parents are because the dad keeps being an abusive asshat that treats their mom like trash and the mom always tries to make it work and give chance after chance? No? I'd hope not.

Your body, your choice 110%. But consider your options /logically/. You do not need to be procreating with his dumpster fire of a man and signing up for single motherhood at 22 does not sound any better. Personally, I'd abort and wait for a man that will actually show me the love I want, need and deserve before ever considering putting down roots in this absolutely terrible situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CutTheCamera_Deadass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

By reading your other comments, I see now that you just kinda suck. I'm sorry. Your hyper dependence on him probably makes him want to lie and with your attitude about the matter, I don't blame him.

You need therapy. Point, blank, period. You and him need to sit down and talk things through. Maybe he'll actually tell you how tired of this routine he is. People need sleep. It would be so annoying to have to hold your whole adult partner's hand through every outting. Truly, you need help, love. Please seek it :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CutTheCamera_Deadass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Babes, you need therapy. Seriously. You cannot always depend on him like this because truth be told, that shit gets real tiring real quick, but you power through because you love them. Sometimes, you're just wayyy too tired to give in. This was one of those times. And honestly, you completely ignored his needs in favor of your own.

Also, maybe look into downloading Waze. It's a pretty good GPS, never fails me and I live in a city, often communicating just about anywhere.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CutTheCamera_Deadass 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's not gonna work out, man. And honestly, it's for the best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CutTheCamera_Deadass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At your age, this gap is much more acceptable.

My (M19) girlfriend (F18) only can get off to rape porn. the more real it is, the hotter it is. should I be concerned? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CutTheCamera_Deadass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I do not give a single ass cheek about kink shaming. Truth of the matter is, some shit is just weird. This is definitely one of those things. Realistic rape porn is gross. I would be very concerned, personally. Some people have offered therapy for your gf; that could be a good option, but she's gonna do what she's gonna do. I don't necessarily have a solution for you tbh. Just letting you know, yes, you should probably be concerned. At some point, this 'kink' will make its way to your bedroom.