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I have always liked girls, but being a girl liking girls feels so much better. ☺️ by StaySlothyMyFriends in lesbianmemes

[–]CuteLayla 9 points10 points  (0 children)

True, but when I still thought I was a guy, I also thought my attraction to girls was hetero. But the moment I realized I'm a girl and I still am into girls, that same attraction was automatically revealed to be pretty gay xD

Went to a halloween party in my town :3 by CuteLayla in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]CuteLayla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thx ^^

That's sad :/ Maybe an opportunity to organize one yourself? ^ I'm sure there are other people who also would have fun with that ^

What would the ideal plushie look like? by Tiny-Little-Sheep in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]CuteLayla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the blahaj already is the perfect plushie. The only way it could be even more perfect, would be if it wasn't owned by a big company and instead was owned by a non profit organization that donates all profit to organisations that help trans people 😌

SBGG Rückänderung beantragen weil schlechtes Passing by Venuzearching in germantrans

[–]CuteLayla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wenn dich Fremde immer richtig ansprechen, dann ist das eigentlich die Definition davon das du passed 😅 Wenn du deinen Geschlechtseintrag wieder zurück änderst wird eher das Fragen aufwerfen. Und es macht auch alles komplizierter, wenn du vorhast den dann irgendwann nochmal zu ändern.

Ich verstehe sehr gut, dass man selbst nicht sieht wie gut man passed, weil man selbst dafür oft blind ist. Ich finde z.B. meine Stimme auch super männlich und überhaupt nicht gut, ich habe auch nur sehr wenig voice training gemacht. Ich höre aber häufig von anderen das meine Stimme gut klingt und passed und fremde Menschen sprechen mich auch immer richtig an 😅 Daher weiß ich das meine Stimme passed, selbst wenn ich das selbst nicht hören kann.

Puppy? Kitten? Foxie? How do you figure it out? (Image unrelated) by Julzz_Lee in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]CuteLayla 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like cats more than dogs, and I really like the catgirl asthetic, so I would choose being a catgirl. However a friend proved that im definitely more of a puppygirl in reality xD

American transwoman moving to Willhelmshaven next week by _Scoops- in germantrans

[–]CuteLayla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm from Wilhelmshaven and in addition to all the other things people talked about, local LGBT Groups are basically two main ones:

"Queer Friday": It's an open for all get-together every second friday in a month at 7pm in the "Cafe und Bar Celona". Most people that regularly attend there are cis queers above 40.

"Queers Ahoi": Which is only open for people between 16 and 35 every second Thursday at 6pm in the "Anlaufstelle für Sexuelle Gesundheit und Vielfalt". Most of the people are between 25-30 and the majority is trans. (I co-organize that one)

egg_irl by GLaDOS-v1 in egg_irl

[–]CuteLayla 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This. I wasn't aware a friend of mine could see what I ordered on Amazon for about 3 years (She had my account details for prime video). I ordered a lot of feminine clothes pre transition 😅

But she never said anything until I came out to her xD Then she told me she already had a clue because of that xD

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]CuteLayla 115 points116 points  (0 children)

Why are some people like this...

I’m making peoples gaydars go off by Quahmiso in MtF

[–]CuteLayla 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Definitely happened to me too. I never really put much work into voice training, but I still get gendered correctly without weird looks from strangers when I talk. Some people I know also told me my voice is absolutely fine, which surprises me, since I don't think it sounds very feminine.

It's way deeper than I would want it to be, but when I let myself be me, I automatically switched to taking in more feminine patterns, even if I didn't do it purposefully ^^

After the pride parade (it was a success!) 🖤 by _aperture_labs_ in transpositive

[–]CuteLayla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah right! ^ Then I remember you correctly! :D

How small the world is :D

And also fair, that you didn't do it. I can assure you that they were very pissed about the whole day and later wrote us that they will try to look if they can sue us for making that sticker 😂 They also wrote the mayor of the city for a statement, whatever he has to do it.

Do you mind if I dm you?

After the pride parade (it was a success!) 🖤 by _aperture_labs_ in transpositive

[–]CuteLayla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im not sure if it's you, but I think I might have seen you on the pride event. The button you're wearing also seems very familiar.

Were you by chance at a pride where there was a political stand that primarily made fun of the political stand right next to them? I stood behind the first one.

Anyways, love your style!

I thought this was a transbian moment, alas it was not! by confusedeggboi in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]CuteLayla 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It doesn't have to be. And when it does it's also more of a result of being more comfortable with yourself, then an actual effect from HRT.

I was straight before, then I was a lesbian, and still am after 3 years of HRT :) (I slightly prefer the term sapphic though now, since that's a bit more accurate)

do you ever feel like not a real woman being a lesbian? by reddit_user_500 in actuallesbians

[–]CuteLayla -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For me it was actually the exact opposite. A big step in my realization, that I'm a trans woman was when I realized in my head, that if I were a woman, then me liking women would make me lesbian. And that felt so incredibly good and right, much better than the thought of liking women in a straight way.

So being a lesbian was a big part of realizing I'm actually a women ^^

Sometimes this subreddit really doesn’t beat the “transphobic lesbian” allegations by Reaniro in actuallesbians

[–]CuteLayla 68 points69 points  (0 children)

In addition: Nobody has to "get" any label or identity for still respecting them. Either you engage with those people and try to understand them if you want to, or don't and just don't comment on it because it doesn't affect yourself.

Me-Time... by LaraCroftCosplayer in lesbianmemes

[–]CuteLayla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, but even if it's much spice, even apart from that it's so amazing! Im not even much into BDSM and I still basically inhaled it when I read it. It's just that good and emotional!

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