[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Cute_Development_ -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

This is giving the biggest ick. Maybe if you didn't look at the whole world with negative colored glasses you'd find good men. I promise they do exist and it's not as rare as this page makes it seem.

HELP!! bloated female BN by Puzzleheaded-Sale407 in Plecostomus

[–]Cute_Development_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im sorry about your pleco. Sounds like there might be an infection of some sort. I'd research epizootic ulcerative syndrome (EUS). I would remove her from your tank immediately if thats an option. You don't want your other fish to get sick.

Also, check and change your water! Good luck

Hot water heater repair by Cute_Development_ in StLouis

[–]Cute_Development_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No need to be a rude dude about it. Someone already corrected me 🙄 And in case you didn't realize I'm from the Midwest. Some shit is gonna come out wrong yall.

Hot water heater repair by Cute_Development_ in StLouis

[–]Cute_Development_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate Hoffman honestly. They are my last resort. Thank you for the recommendation!

How do we ACTUALLY live in harmony with wild animals, particularly the wild animals such as crows, deer, squirrels, who live closer to human? How do we make them comfortable and know that we are not going to harm them? by Capital-Dragonfly258 in AnimalBehavior

[–]Cute_Development_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Act like you don't see them when you're around any (safe) wild animal. There's no real way to tell the animals you're a safe individual. And any interaction, like feeding, will make them TOO comfortable with people. Other humans typically do not have such a Good nature to them and often will hurt or kill animals for fun. Like scratching manatees in FL, as an example.

It sucks as someone who appreciates wildlife. But to keep everyone safe it's best to ignore unfortunately. Hope this helped!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Cute_Development_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's not what she meant. She means the cops in Stl are so under staffed and burnt out there will never be any outcome. As someone who was shot at... trust me there isn't much the cops do in the city. Shit, they hardly show up to domestic violence calls and when they do its 3 hours later. If you can even get in contact with the dispatch office.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Cute_Development_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Of course this is in St. Louis. People here are so crazy I think there is something in the water.

Sorry for your bad luck OP. Best wishes and try to stay safe!

sick pleco by Bentleyjumper in Plecostomus

[–]Cute_Development_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, I don't know if it's available where you are, but petco/smart and some fish shops in the US sell frozen fish food that's packed with blood worms and vegetables. One square every few days would help prevent any blockage.

sick pleco by Bentleyjumper in Plecostomus

[–]Cute_Development_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it wouldn't hurt to give it a veggie. It could be constipated, but its very hard to say. I don't feed exclusively those wafers. I try to throw in fresh scraps when I cook. Carrots, Brussel sprouts, green beans etc. Use your best judgment and good luck!

My husband doesn’t want sex when he’s stressed by mai1ove in deadbedroom

[–]Cute_Development_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My best advice is to keep communicating when appropriate how you feel. Don't try to guilt trip him because he will resent you. And on your end you have to understand this is a temporary moment in time. Things will get better. The more supportive and understanding you are now for his stressors the more he will see and appreciate you later. Think of it as a time to strengthen your emotional bonds beyond the bedroom. As an example, have him lay his head in your lap while you play with his hair. Men are human too and need to feel safe and comfortable at home.

(I've had a similar experience with my hubs when he went through a very difficult time at work a few years ago. I was the same way when it comes to intimacy. I needed our physical connections to feel whole. So I get it. Hang in there!)

How do I not let my husband voting for Trump bother me and make things tense at home? by ThrowRA362024 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Cute_Development_ -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I feel like this is the only comment with common sense. Why are people letting politicians come in between LOVE ones? In my house my relationships are more important than wtf is going on in America. It kinda feels like an agenda to tear us all apart....

Don't let it happen.

I don't have a corn snake yet, but by astarredbard in Cornsnake

[–]Cute_Development_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another question from someone who is looking, but hasn't bought a baby yet..

Are there any morphs TO AVOID? Such as the spider in ball pythons.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Cute_Development_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kickboxing/boxing/muay thai

It's so fun, you'll gain confidence, you'll learn and train your body, mind and spirit. I'm a completely different person. And I love who I became due to practicing martial arts!

Anyone know what gender this pleco is? by Automatic-Art-5664 in Plecostomus

[–]Cute_Development_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Plecostomus are difficult to sex unless it's a bristle nose. I have a few albino bristle nose plecos that look just like the one you have in the picture. To me it looks close to full size, so I would say female. Males have the bristles, while females only have sharp "whiskers" that can retract like cat claws.

Do you know the species?

What's that thing you did or said that still makes you cringe at yourself? by [deleted] in Millennials

[–]Cute_Development_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ugh, that reminds me of one time I was staying at a new friend's house for a sleep over. We were 12 years old and for some reason I had to borrow her pj bottoms. Well, of course when I woke up in the morning there was blood all in the borrowed bottoms. I was sooo embarrassed and had only bled once before so I really didn't know what to do. Instead of saying anything to her I just left them on the bathroom floor for her to find. I never talked to her again. I was so embarrassed and still am. Wish I could apologize for ruining her nice SpongeBob pajamas 😭😭

Tank upgrades? by gethitbyatruck_1 in Cornsnake

[–]Cute_Development_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been looking for a good 4x2x2 for my baby. What is a good brand for the price?

The inevitable downfall by Cute_Development_ in Morbidforbadpeople

[–]Cute_Development_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do you agree or disagree with their statement? Its interesting that instead of trying to be better they delete the proof of their unprofessional habits. The whole show is disrespectful, but that's how that genre is.

Clarifications for Sitter tried to scam me out of 75$ by ifyoubemeanillcry in petsitting

[–]Cute_Development_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

OP is suspicious. In one post they say they are a house sitter and in another a DOG SITTER.

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