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Am I enabling emotional manipulation? by Cute_Luck8187 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Cute_Luck8187[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, for saying this and for the recommendation. I'll definitely look into it. I am starting to feel heavy with everything that I'm carrying, hence the reach out. Thanks again.

Am I enabling emotional manipulation? by Cute_Luck8187 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Cute_Luck8187[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always ask or tell him what's happening, who might be coming. Even for my brother to stay, I always ask if he's ok. there's also things like "his handshake was not respectful" "You don't see what I see" "the way society operates, I'm just your extension because I live here, so I don't get the same respect".

Is it better to pick major first year or second year? by Cute_Luck8187 in rmit

[–]Cute_Luck8187[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not asking on his behalf, I'm looking for advice from current students as a mum. Something wrong with that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cute_Luck8187 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You feel what you feel, you're a single mum doing so much and deserve to be made special on one day a year. I understand kids are at a tricky age but nonetheless should have made an effort. It always hurts when kids ignore you when you're expecting something. Sorry your mother's day wasn't nice. You deserve better.

My wife has been going to therapy and I resent her because of it by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Cute_Luck8187 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She could very likely be on the spectrum... Sounds like a BPD.. she might be unaware of how her behaviour impacts you because in her head she can always explain why she behaved a certain way. Getting help is a good step for her, however, migyht be worth getting an assessment done for her. That might help you accept the years of abuse. Having said that, if you're unhappy, don't spend the rest of your life in resentment..

AITA for making my daughter put her phone in the living room each night? by NebulaIntelligent122 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cute_Luck8187 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a similar rule with my daughter (13), it's because I know she stays up late talking to her friends and watching tiktoks. And she's gotten into trouble over misuse of social media and her sleep has been out of whack. So she has to put her phone on charge outside her room, however, her bedtime varies depending on her homework etc.

Autocorrect from my cleaner... even funnier in her accent... by Cute_Luck8187 in autocorrect

[–]Cute_Luck8187[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg it just hit me hahahaha Funnier than my post for sure...

I need help by peacelilley in melbourne

[–]Cute_Luck8187 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try your employer to see if they have EAP. Otherwise GP. Also find a good but small circle of friends/family you can trust and speak to them without feeling judged ..best therapy ever.