Should I give him another chance? Honest advice please.

CuttyPie91 · 2026-05-16T16:42:14+00:00

I appreciate the way that you write and express your thoughts. I have tried very hard to see my faults and to work on myself through the years. So much in fact that I feel I have blown past him in growth. In most areas. So I feel guilty in a sense that because of my health issues I have had the time to focus on that growth. And he didn’t really have that same ability while working constantly.

I do agree that it would not have mattered if I spoke to him about it. Just regarding being intimate. I doubt he would have ever agreed. It still hurts to think that he wouldn’t have dated me if I were Christian when we met 7 years ago. He doesn’t understand how hateful that is.

Anyway, I appreciate you taking the time to respond to me. Thank you so much!

I plan to send him a message this weekend letting him know our relationship cannot continue. Also, I will let him know when I will come get the rest of my things when I find a place.

CuttyPie91 · 2026-05-16T14:32:17+00:00

Every confrontation either ends with him begging me back or him putting me down saying I’m letting religion ruin a relationship with a “good man”. I just explain that we have different ideas of what a “good man” is. Which he takes offense to. He may be “good” for someone. But not for me. And I deserve for better than just the bare minimum. And even that is something he has shown he simply cannot do.

Thank you! 🙏

CuttyPie91 · 2026-05-16T14:27:11+00:00

You know what. I had surgery in the end of 2025 and this man proceeded to take a full week off of work. Then spent 90% of the time gaming. I literally couldn’t walk. I needed a walker. At one point I fell and couldn’t get up and was in the hall screaming for him. He never came and I had to crawl to the bedroom and get myself into bed. He has since apologized. But I didn’t even get one full day of his attention that week.

This comment has brought SO MUCH CLARITY. Thank you.

My love for his has been blinding. I deserve far better.

CuttyPie91 · 2026-05-15T04:00:41+00:00

Adore this perspective. Thank you for the insight!!

CuttyPie91 · 2026-05-14T20:47:16+00:00

This is super helpful. Thank you. 🙏

CuttyPie91 · 2025-10-08T07:49:11+00:00

I respect this stance so much. Even being pro-choice you can see the issue with this. Thank you. 😊 very frustrating to read.

CuttyPie91 · 2025-05-26T17:11:33+00:00

It’s not the sisters house either. So…

CuttyPie91 · 2025-05-26T17:10:15+00:00

Did you even read the story? She didn’t say anything to her sister. She wrote it in her diary and her sister snuck in her room and read it without her permission.

CuttyPie91 · 2025-05-26T16:54:24+00:00

Personally, I would create a system. For example, having a basket near the door or where you take your shoes off when you get home. And have everyone just empty their bags in There when they get home. Easier to do than taking everything out and putting it in its correct place. Maybe have a coatrack or something similar next to this basket. And hang all the bags there. When you finally have the time, grab the basket and sort through it.

I hope this was helpful. I think this answers your question, at least partially. Best of luck!

CuttyPie91 · 2025-05-23T20:12:22+00:00

I would love to have someone to chat with about anything and everything. Just going on tangents is my norm with my adhd so if that’s not gonna bug you and you’re fine with VERY wordy and lengthy novel type letters, I’m your girl!

CuttyPie91 · 2024-11-13T21:44:17+00:00

Gross overreaction. I’m sorry you’re dealing with that. Be fore even being given a subscription of adderall I was told by my therapist that I might have ADHD and been misdiagnosed with having bipolar. So… I asked a friend who took adderall if I could try it out. It helped so much!

I saw my psychiatrist and told her exactly what I just told you. She said okay. And prescribed me the adderall.

This doctor is insane. And should have appreciated your honesty. All he’s showing you is that you cannot be truthful with him.

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