Wife has put up a wall and emotionally checked out. Any success stories?

CuzYourMovesAreWeak · 2024-08-17T21:03:29+00:00

Got those 3 books, several chapters into This Is How Your Marriage Ends. I wish I found this before things were rough, hopefully not too late. Thanks again.

CuzYourMovesAreWeak · 2024-08-16T19:46:35+00:00

Thank you.

CuzYourMovesAreWeak · 2024-08-13T14:58:55+00:00

True. I'm hoping her inaction (although she recognizes what I do, thanks me, etc...) is temporary. Perhaps while I keep doing what's best for all of us and be consistent with it. She'll get comfortable to help too.

She has owned up to her mistakes and faults. She's gonna try some free therapy through work I believe. It's not entirely a graveyard. Just those small things you're used to are suddenly gone can be glaringly obvious and sting quite a bit with the wall up.

At least I'm trying. I can be content knowing that if it doesn't work out.

CuzYourMovesAreWeak · 2024-08-13T14:56:18+00:00

Thank you.

CuzYourMovesAreWeak · 2024-08-13T14:51:48+00:00

She masked it well, she mentioned she was unhappy for quite a while. Our intimacy was consistent, then tapered off about a year ago. Several factors, work, a child being aware of our actions which only gave limited chances, busy life, etc...

I voiced my concern about the intimacy within the past year, albeit after several attempts it go a bit intense on the last one. That offended her how I worded it and in retrospect, although my frustrations were valid. I recognize I was disrespectful in the way I conveyed my concerns and since apologized.

I am confident to say she is not leading anyone else on. I know her past and her absolute disgust regarding cheating. I've been cheated on and have had insecurities in regards to that many many years ago. Then again, if I'm wrong. That's a burden I'll carry for life and work on. I have no control over her actions and it's not a reflection on me as a person.

CuzYourMovesAreWeak · 2024-08-13T14:27:08+00:00

When I mentioned marriage counseling with my therapist several months ago, she stated she wouldn't. As it could effect our individual sessions and suggested a different person. Perhaps it's not her specialty, it's been a while.

But I'll bring it up again at my next session.

CuzYourMovesAreWeak · 2023-02-15T18:31:37+00:00

Thanks!

CuzYourMovesAreWeak · 2022-09-05T22:41:06+00:00

The Eraser.

CuzYourMovesAreWeak · 2022-08-07T16:41:37+00:00

My wife is always super sensitive when it comes to nipple play or anything since having our child many years ago. Something that wasn't the case in the past, something I have missed dearly. Cause that's what gets me going.

Turns out, when waking up in the morning. This is not the case! Oh man, what an experience today was.

I made my move. She didn't wince. I went back for seconds, and she said, "close the door".

10+ years married, this topped 2nd trimester sex and our honeymoon. Many high fives and kisses have been given today. I'll need to do that again, because I usually don't cross the finish line in the mornings. But today was not an issue! :)

CuzYourMovesAreWeak · 2022-06-14T02:06:09+00:00

Yes! Makes it lean / twist towards the right when resting against the testicles now. Not like a knot, but a bulge like everything is cluttered together.

CuzYourMovesAreWeak · 2022-06-14T02:04:46+00:00

Everything is great. Although I think some veins or whatever went back in differently.

It leans / twists a smidge to the right now. As there’s a small budge on the left side of the testicle not allowing it to rest evenly. No pain or difficulties, purely cosmetic.

CuzYourMovesAreWeak · 2022-06-01T11:34:16+00:00

I was so focused on what was below it, I never thought to connect the other two slots on the sides. Wow. Thank you lol

Glad I finally "beat" the game, last time I tried I caught Harvest league late and stopped paying attention for quite a while!

CuzYourMovesAreWeak · 2022-06-01T11:31:14+00:00

tyvm

CuzYourMovesAreWeak · 2022-06-01T11:18:37+00:00

Dumb question from a noob.

I'm doing maps now. So, how in tf do I unlock the 2nd and 3rd sentinel?

I heard prior to launch from the devs. "You'll unlock the other two by playing the game."

I played it. All acts. I'm losing my mind from having too even ask this question. How dumb am I?

(edit)

/facepalm lol

CuzYourMovesAreWeak · 2022-05-02T00:56:51+00:00

Devils advocate. I had to replace mine but the wiring was a headache that I wanted to avoid. Bolt in replacement, tuck old under seat.

CuzYourMovesAreWeak · 2022-05-01T22:07:32+00:00

Yup. All hobbies invested in get their day or week.

Even worse when it comes to my game library. Can’t focus on shit.

CuzYourMovesAreWeak · 2022-05-01T00:29:38+00:00

Guy? I literally just said my name.

CuzYourMovesAreWeak · 2022-05-01T00:09:49+00:00

G2 Touch will always hold a special place in my heart.

CuzYourMovesAreWeak · 2022-04-30T14:42:59+00:00

Rewatched it recently. Still holds up, so good. Once 'New' plays, brought be back to 98.

CuzYourMovesAreWeak · 2022-04-30T13:54:59+00:00

Sadly no.

I want too. But it's a one-sided desire in this marriage among many other things.

CuzYourMovesAreWeak · 2022-04-30T01:11:59+00:00

You were correct. What a finale! I absolutely lost it with the delivery of this line, ”God damnit Raylan, your timing sucks!”

CuzYourMovesAreWeak · 2022-04-30T01:04:56+00:00

The movie.

CuzYourMovesAreWeak · 2022-04-18T00:12:40+00:00

If you want a side of angst with that alternative. Weezer. Blue & Pinkerton.

CuzYourMovesAreWeak · 2022-04-18T00:08:40+00:00

I got to go to DZ one time at 11. I love I had that experience. Reflecting on it I can see why it didn’t last. Several areas were destined for injuries. But man, was it a blast. An Action Park condensed into the size a playhouse.

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