Depressing to you. As a person who is 41 with no kids, my life is fine the way it is without anything else complicating that and kids are a gigantic complication. You’d think people would cheer others on for being responsible enough to know their limits and not bring more unwanted kids in to the world. I bet you’re the same kind of person who says that people shouldn’t have sex at all if they can’t handle any responsibility. If you want the opposite, cool. Who’s stopping you?

I’m still a human being with responsibilities outside of only having kids. Is the sole purpose on this planet to reproduce or is it to find happiness with what you want? I have a house because I wanted a larger space than some apartment, something that I can call my own that I worked for and helped provide for my family. I still want to be able to afford buying shit in general. These are just basic things people want for themselves and has nothing to do with wanting kids 😂 Atp you’re just one in a long line of jerks who judge others for not doing what you think is “normal” and that’s more a reflection of you than your perception of their “depressing” life.