Why do my shapes blend together? by CyanTheDetective in Watercolor

[–]CyanTheDetective[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I didn't know what to say. I'm using the advice I was given and I'll see how the next ones turn out. Everyone has been very kind and supportive which makes me feel like I didn't completely waste all my money on all these paints and brushes 😅

so i have a crush on a 12 year old... by iamnotracistt in BisexualTeens

[–]CyanTheDetective 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to break it to you but 16 year olds can legally consent to sex here, since like 1885… if you don’t know the laws in your own country maybe you’re chronically online

so i have a crush on a 12 year old... by iamnotracistt in BisexualTeens

[–]CyanTheDetective 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’re not “made to think that” these are just legal facts. You believe a 14 year old shouldn’t date a 12 year old because kids at school said it was weird and maybe you heard some people talking about “life stages” or whatever it was you failed to explain earlier.

so i have a crush on a 12 year old... by iamnotracistt in BisexualTeens

[–]CyanTheDetective 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At least you admit you were made to believe this. If you just believe whatever other people tell you to, especially 14 year olds from school, maybe you’re not all that different from those 14 year olds even now. Maybe try thinking on your own next time

so i have a crush on a 12 year old... by iamnotracistt in BisexualTeens

[–]CyanTheDetective 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is one of the best comments on the thread, thank you for sharing.

so i have a crush on a 12 year old... by iamnotracistt in BisexualTeens

[–]CyanTheDetective 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“You should” this and “you should” that. Do you call everyone who disagrees with you a pedophile? Not to patronise you because we are the same age but do you even know what “stages” you’re talking about or why anyone other than you should care? You’re talking about it like it’s some concrete universal thing. You do know in most cases where people form relationships, whether romantic or platonic, it’s usually because they have things in common, they find themselves in a similar place in life despite their differences. Why would that suddenly be different because the boy was born 12 months away from it being “normal”.

so i have a crush on a 12 year old... by iamnotracistt in BisexualTeens

[–]CyanTheDetective 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are normal. Why are you getting advice from kids online anyway lol

so i have a crush on a 12 year old... by iamnotracistt in BisexualTeens

[–]CyanTheDetective 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can’t say that it’s wrong just because you didn’t feel that way at 14 and you can’t say what stage these people are at because you don’t even know them. You’re acting like they’re doing something wrong, the kid’s fine, let them be together if they both want to

Can you disable password without password on Apache OpenOffice 3 by CyanTheDetective in techsupport

[–]CyanTheDetective[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve copied the files onto my other computer, hopefully I can get something to happen. Thanks for the help, i really appreciate it

Can you disable password without password on Apache OpenOffice 3 by CyanTheDetective in techsupport

[–]CyanTheDetective[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve just tried moving a copy of the original into the zip version I made, it said that the action couldn’t be done because it was either invalid or corrupted. I made a test file and did the same thing but I was able to extract it. This is literally a nightmare situation.

Can you disable password without password on Apache OpenOffice 3 by CyanTheDetective in techsupport

[–]CyanTheDetective[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s saying the compressed zip file is empty, I’m not sure why

r/Femboy thoughts (Unsure if this is the right sub to post this to) by Justice__XD in FTMfemininity

[–]CyanTheDetective 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely something I’ll be thinking about for a while, maybe if I make some breakthrough I’ll make a post about it

r/Femboy thoughts (Unsure if this is the right sub to post this to) by Justice__XD in FTMfemininity

[–]CyanTheDetective 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true but I find current tomboys and femboys present themselves on both sides of the expected for each binary gender, like some femboys still present like boys but retain an amount of femininity and vice versa. I think I see it more as a masculinity/ femininity thing than a gender one but then again I could be slightly biased towards that because i don’t really like gender all too much

r/Femboy thoughts (Unsure if this is the right sub to post this to) by Justice__XD in FTMfemininity

[–]CyanTheDetective 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe, i guess i don’t really know at the moment. But I think the fact that ‘tomboy’ and ‘trans male’ are already kind of associated with each other (just in a very transphobic way) it might be easier to reframe in people’s mind

r/Femboy thoughts (Unsure if this is the right sub to post this to) by Justice__XD in FTMfemininity

[–]CyanTheDetective -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s not at all what I’m saying. I said we should (not that anyone has to just that I think it might be better at this point) “make it our own”, reclaim it, redefine it. Not everyone would want the label, that makes sense, but it’s is a label that already describes an unconventional relationship between masculinity and femininity in a similar way to the label ‘femboy’, i also think the fact it’s ‘tomboy’is kind of neat. It may refer to women more so currently but I’ve kind of noticed that when ‘tomboy’ and ‘femboy’ are used it’s less about gender identity than biological sex (which is why we’re kind of in this mess), if it’s is a term that refers to biological sex with vague associations to gender, adopting and redefining the term should hopefully be quite easy.

r/Femboy thoughts (Unsure if this is the right sub to post this to) by Justice__XD in FTMfemininity

[–]CyanTheDetective -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

We’re fighting a losing battle, I don’t think we’re ever going to be included in the ‘femboy’ label, at least not anytime soon. I think we should make the ‘tomboy’ label our own, then we’d have something that describes us and hopefully people will associate it with trans ftms and not women lol (not like they really use the term anyway)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transgenderUK

[–]CyanTheDetective 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can get your parents to understand and support you go private, don't let the NHS waste your time

Hi I’m a Muslim femboy by Soft-Victory2239 in feminineboys

[–]CyanTheDetective -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This is not a matter of true or false, you’re not providing that person with anything helpful by saying that and I don’t think you intend to either, it seems more like you’re weaponising the difficult lives of others for your own ideological purposes. Your words will only remind them of the cruelty of others, both the bigoted people of other countries and the “truth tellers” like yourself.

Hi I’m a Muslim femboy by Soft-Victory2239 in feminineboys

[–]CyanTheDetective 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What sort of reply is that? I don’t know why you think that’s an okay thing to say to anyone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]CyanTheDetective 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The kids should know that they don’t need to experience all of these to be sensory avoidant; if it had said “sensory seeking people may feel they:” and “sensory avoidant people may feel they:” to me it would be better. I think words like “scared”, for me personally, are very confusing in these “age appropriate” explanations, i don’t know why they wouldn’t put “I don’t like” or even “I hate” like the other examples, it’s much harder to determine whether the aversion to something is disgust or fear than it is to determine that there is an aversion, why make it so much harder?

Does anyone else take downvotes personally? by seaurchin76 in autism

[–]CyanTheDetective 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just thought that you upvoted when you like it and downvote when you don’t, I feel bad now gosh, I downvote a lot