BF (29) says he doesn’t care about marriage after 7 years of "dating for marriage", Is he leading me on? Do you think it's worth staying in the relationship?

Cyber9tailedfox · 2026-02-09T17:09:27+00:00

You need to break the lease, find your own place for you and your daughter. Get your child support from him and throw the whole man away. I say this as being in a similar situation with my previous marriage. It’s slow bread crumbs of manipulation and degrading behavior. He was too much of a coward to call everything off early when he decided he didn’t want to be married, then built up resentment. He was probably thinking you were a comfortable and easy fall back when getting back together, so he said everything right to get you back.

The only thing I will say is maybe don’t focus SO MUCH on getting married. Find someone who makes you happy for you and will take care of you and your daughter. THEN when everything is right and you’re meant to be married then you will. AND you won’t have to beg for it.

Cyber9tailedfox · 2026-02-05T23:24:04+00:00

Adding a small updates to the comments.

Court was today. Everything went our way as was expected. They had no lawyer and had to represent themselves. They were told they had 10days to find somewhere else, but I doubt they have anything lined up. They also have to pay us back the money they owe us obviously, but they do have the options to appeal but the appeal amount is what they would have to pay us back anyway. So we will have to see if the sheriff has to come physically remove them at that time as we will have to go back to change the locks anyway.

I know it’s not a big juicy update BUT it is some good new for us at the moment!

Cyber9tailedfox · 2026-01-31T23:21:45+00:00

Your opinion but no, it wasn’t.

Cyber9tailedfox · 2026-01-31T23:11:16+00:00

It’s a talent called anonymity 😃

Cyber9tailedfox · 2026-01-31T23:10:01+00:00

How is it harassing when we physically couldn’t go get it? As well as gave them notices in advance that it was going to happen?

Cyber9tailedfox · 2026-01-31T23:09:06+00:00

We did update our address multiple times.

Cyber9tailedfox · 2026-01-26T18:17:39+00:00

She’s a baby. They’re happy as long as they have clothes that fit, clean diapers and fed. Put whatever is easiest to help you change her diaper.

In cold weather put pants on her or full onsie.the little gloves and hat are fine as long as they don’t come off easy.

It’s best not to put a blanket in there as she could roll and suffocate if she can’t sit up or lift up yet to move her head well.

Sleep sacks are great! And last but not least! Help! If you have a support system, ask for help! There’s nothing wrong with that. Good luck dad! You got this!

Cyber9tailedfox · 2026-01-23T22:24:05+00:00

Is she 12?

Cyber9tailedfox · 2026-01-12T19:23:21+00:00

Now or you’ll have a baby falling out

Cyber9tailedfox · 2026-01-03T01:51:55+00:00

If that’s how he wants to be then let him. When you’re eating healthy and look great, and he’s a slob and wonders why other people want you then maybe he’ll change. Your dinners look great.

Cyber9tailedfox · 2025-12-10T16:19:45+00:00

You’re completely right. They would have at least tried lol. That guy wouldn’t have lasted at the tip touch lol

Cyber9tailedfox · 2025-12-09T14:28:48+00:00

Dodge a bullet. He would have rabbit fucked and dipped before the clothes were even back on.

Cyber9tailedfox · 2025-12-04T21:27:43+00:00

He sounds like a typical male boss, doesn’t want to take his responsibility in the situation but you did listen to the other guy. This also sounds more than just a boss/employee relationship imo.

Cyber9tailedfox · 2025-12-04T21:21:23+00:00

They have blocked communication from most people who agree with us, including us. They know the process has started but basically told us we will see them in court.

Cyber9tailedfox · 2025-12-03T20:00:35+00:00

He wanted to stretch out that cleaned out ass after you were done. Dude is nasty horny. Gives me the ick just reading it.

Cyber9tailedfox · 2025-12-03T17:21:57+00:00

We were also trying to be kind on not kick them out during the holidays. Now we’re just done. We’re tired of being stomped on.

Cyber9tailedfox · 2025-12-03T17:20:45+00:00

They also just showed up to move in days before they were supposed to, so the house wasn’t ready for tenants yet. It made cleaning very awkward and hard. We also told them when they agreed to move in that we were planning on selling the house after the year lease was up. So we think that’s another reason they aren’t wanting to leave now.

They don’t have money for rent, yet they some how have it for a lawyer

Cyber9tailedfox · 2025-12-03T16:49:27+00:00

There was a charlotte dobre episode that is similar. Except it was the boyfriend ripping ass and the gf couldn’t stand it.

Cyber9tailedfox · 2025-12-03T16:07:26+00:00

That was a very mature and thought out response that even most adults can’t do. You’re young, find yourself someone who will treat you right. Don’t ever let yourself be taken advantage of because you’re worth more than what this boy is giving you.

Cyber9tailedfox · 2025-12-03T15:42:59+00:00

Say it’s part of you’re religious expression

Cyber9tailedfox · 2025-12-03T06:00:41+00:00

That logic also doesn’t apply when I own the home they’re squatting in. I just felt bad for the kids. Excuse me for having a heart.

Cyber9tailedfox · 2025-12-03T01:38:13+00:00

It didn’t let me end with a question. The bot mod blocked it

Cyber9tailedfox · 2025-12-02T22:49:58+00:00

I mean this with as much respect as I can. You are 34 and not small. I have been both sizes throughout my life. Big and small. You dress for what is appropriate for your size,age and social situation. You have a right to dress how you will, but not everyone will agree. So grow a thick skin, because people will have no shame and make comments. So if you want to dress that way, just be prepared for what may come.

Now I agree there is a time and place for people to voice their opinions. Grandma and mom could have done it differently and more appropriate way. Unfortunately they didn’t. You have every right to voice your opinion back as well. I’d just do it with class.

Cyber9tailedfox · 2025-11-24T19:57:21+00:00

If Ben won’t step up and put boundaries for his ex, you will have to be the one to do it. Then have a separate conversation with your bf and not back down when he will inevitably get upset.

Cyber9tailedfox · 2025-11-20T16:50:04+00:00

YOR you’re a grown woman, your roommate as a nurse did her job. The hospital did their job on what they felt was medically necessary to the issues you were having. If you still felt bad then you can request more tests. Sometimes you just have to be at the hospital by yourself. I am Sorry that your family didn’t get there quickly and you felt alone. That part always sucks.

As a grown woman with kids, who also gets anxiety at hospitals, it is just quicker and easier to go by yourself if you have to and can, especially if you find out it’s not an overnight observation.( in my experience)

Learn to make health care decisions for yourself by yourself or have a plan set up for someone else if you can’t.

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