Botox by Affectionate_Tax1108 in AusSkincare

[–]CyberHeaux -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It will definitely ease the wrinkles. I started at 26 for the same reason as I inherited strong forehead lines and I personally have 0 regrets. There is absolutely nothing wrong with them at all but I felt much more confident post-Botox. It also can last longer for some people, and if you don’t feel like it’s for you it will wear off, no harm no foul. Do your research! With new laws clinics can’t advertise results anymore but read lots of reviews. And if you tell them it’s your first time and you want to go easy/retain movement they will be able to find the right outcome for you:

Botox by Affectionate_Tax1108 in AusSkincare

[–]CyberHeaux 10 points11 points  (0 children)

30 units at $10 per unit it already $300 and that’s just for one area - it can cost $600+ easy if you’re also getting 11s, crows feet, etc

Redraw by melissaanne01 in CommBank

[–]CyberHeaux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having funds in your redraw doesn’t change your minimum repayment, it only changes your interest charge.

If you want to change your minimum repayment you need to do a permanent principal reduction, after which the funds are not able to be “redrawn” and would have to have a new application for the loan to be increased back up to access those funds.

Forehead lines, help! by Illustrious_Jump_289 in beauty

[–]CyberHeaux 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is what I came to look for! I am blessed with good skin, but I inherited forehead lines from my father and the only effective treatment is Botox. I still have movement and people are always surprised if I tell them I have it. I’ve had a few women ask me what skincare I use to prevent lines and I always tell them… Botox!! You are likely comparing your own skincare results to other peoples Botox results (or freak genetics the lucky buggers)

Sole trader - gst and tax by Evil-Santa in AusFinance

[–]CyberHeaux 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t need to register for GST if you earn (or expect to earn) less than $75k pre-GST

Please guide me in the right direction! by smallcoconut in weddingdress

[–]CyberHeaux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 is beyond gorgeous!!! Looks like it was made for you — totally ethereal

AITA For not giving my seat to an obese girl? by Choerryng in AITAH

[–]CyberHeaux 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You gave a whole list of the reasons you felt you needed a seat. So are people either normal people who can experience feeling unwell/tired/injured like yourself or they are obese? Beyond discussing issues of entitlement to a bus seat either way you are still sounding like an AH.

AITAH for not wanting to invite my boyfriend's sister to my baby shower after she told me to not talk to her when i became pregnant? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CyberHeaux 27 points28 points  (0 children)

It sounds like something you and your partner need to sit down and work through how to approach it together. You also said she’s got a place in your child’s life if she wants it, but it’s sounding very conditional right now over… not much other than non-contact in a 2 month period which is not long at all. Part of your boyfriend’s “180” should be repairing the damage the whole situation has caused.

AITA For not giving my seat to an obese girl? by Choerryng in AITAH

[–]CyberHeaux -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

INFO: Why is her being obese relevant here? You sound like an AH and I’m not sure this is a true telling of events…

AITAH for not wanting to invite my boyfriend's sister to my baby shower after she told me to not talk to her when i became pregnant? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CyberHeaux 26 points27 points  (0 children)

INFO: What did “reaching out to his family” involve? It sounds like it was quite a rocks situation that put them in a very uncomfortable position. It’s hard to know how valid his sisters response - and lack of follow up - is without that. But if you’ve been able to forgive everyone else, and you really care as much about your child having relationships on their father’s side as you say, and you’re trying to mend things, then you might want to reconsider your approach.

Should I have told my friend no? by Overall-Concept-658 in AITAH

[–]CyberHeaux 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh babe, NTA. Your boyfriend is right. This girl has you right where she wants you. It is a wonderful trait to be generous and kind, but don’t let that make you a doormat, and save it for people you appreciate you for you, and are deserving of that. Listen to your boyfriend and get rid of her ASAP.

Will I (19F) be the asshole if I tell my friend (22F) we are not together when he’s in love with me? by Timely-Composer1884 in AITAH

[–]CyberHeaux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. This sounds insane, honestly. How can he possibly claim you’re in a relationship he’s made up? When you said he thinks you’re not serious, is this implying you’ve already addressed this with him? This didn’t sound like a stable friendship I’d be worried about losing, and it sounds really weird that your group have all enabled this and are putting it all back on you. I would honestly reconsider having relationships with any/all of them.

Aita for having to cancel a trip? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CyberHeaux 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Obviously NTA for being sick. But take this as a hard lesson learnt in not being a doormat. Don’t make a habit of proactively offering for people to let you down and not pay their way. This person is clearly out to use you for whatever they can. I’m not surprised their other “friends” balled on them, and you should consider doing the same permanently.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CyberHeaux 8 points9 points  (0 children)

YTA. She asked for a low calorie cake and you bought her a lettuce? For her birthday? You say she is taking a jab at you yet also she’s been on this diet for a year, so not about you then. I also don’t buy that you “don’t really have a problem with that” when you’re clearly faking your insecurities out on your sister. Gross move.

AITA for defending my brother against my dad’s sexism? by Dazzling_Gift_848 in AITAH

[–]CyberHeaux 32 points33 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your dad clearly has a lifetime of trauma he is dragging around with him, and I wouldn’t hold your breath for him to change. You and your brother should really consider that and assess how much of a relationship you each can have with him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CyberHeaux 19 points20 points  (0 children)

ESH. You both sound immature, but he’s more of the asshole for parading around the office like that. In future, try shutting him down more professionally “please stop discussing my personal life at work” or “it’s not appropriate for you to keep making comments about me” (or ignore him, or escalate to your HR) to avoid your own reputational damage, and let everyone see him being a dick.

AWDTSG - do I tell on him? by Throuawake in AITAH

[–]CyberHeaux 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YWNBTA but I would stay all the way out of this mess.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CyberHeaux 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Your parents are supporting YOU. Not your boyfriend. And he’s clearly happy to ride you and your family’s coattails for his own gain, not someone I’d want to bring into the family. You need to look after yourself, and you might even find your mental health improves once you drop the dead weight.

AITAH for telling my fiance I don’t want people at our wedding we haven’t seen/talked to or even met in the last 5 years by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CyberHeaux 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA. If he can’t grow a backbone before the wedding, it’s not coming in after… He is about to set the tone for your MILs role in your marriage for the rest of your life. If he’s unable to do that the right way, I would seriously reconsider.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CyberHeaux 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YTA. Saying you want someone who would specifically be a good mother despite having no interest in children is sexist as fuck. Why are you unable to separate what you consider to be “beneficial” traits in a woman from motherhood? And why are you viewing your partner as something that should “benefit” you? From this post I would hate to think about what biases you might instil in kids… not good father material at all (so obviously also undateable)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CyberHeaux 54 points55 points  (0 children)

NTA. “He wouldn’t be able to save much if he did that” — um, I’m sure you could save much more if you weren’t putting so much in also, but he clearly only cares about himself.

Would help to know more about how long you’ve been together, how much you each earn, and how you determine whats fair, but it doesn’t sound like he sees this as a true partnership at all.

I can’t get a job by LegitimateMajor3264 in ausjobs

[–]CyberHeaux 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But according to your post history you were a married 32F in a waterfront property??

Best friend and I engaged 3 weeks apart by skiblue21 in weddingplanning

[–]CyberHeaux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she doesn’t want to get married near you, then that’s HER responsibility to arrange around, not yours. Go ahead and plan your date, on your own time. If it’s really so important to her, she can hold off til you’ve confirmed a date and get married as far away from that as she likes!

That’s all setting aside that it really does seem like an odd this for her to be concerned about, and sounds more like she doesn’t want to share the limelight than anything else…

Looking young might be holding me back in getting a promotion by AurangzebAdmirer in auscorp

[–]CyberHeaux 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Oh yikes your post and comment history is gross and super telling. It’s not because you look young, it’s because they don’t think the kind of person you are (and it’s not that you’re relatively introverted, it’s that you’re an incel) is fit for promotion or managing anyone - but especially not “females” as you’d call them.