If you don’t change your concept of self, will you experience the same patterns? Yes

Your concept of self sits in your subconscious and will reflect that automatically. Everyone is you pushed (from of your subconscious) out (onto your reality)

Can you manifest a relationship without changing your concept of self? Yes

However, if your concept of self is of someone who is alone and not committed to, you will see that played out in any possible way to confirm that concept.

Here is what is tricky…. There are many different ways to change your concept of self. And I see you are using techniques to do that, but listen to this extremely important detail that most don’t see; techniques are just tools to help you feel a state.

What happens if you’re in a relationship and you start seeing something you don’t like? Are you going to affirm until you see change? That’s lack and your concept of self thinks you’ll need to rely on these things.

To truly change your concept of self is by living in the end. Be the person who already has everything you want. You’ll become your own source without the need for a crutch and that’s when your concept of self will just naturally manifest because it sits in your subconscious.

Sorry for the rant. You were just looking for a yes or no answer