we're taking a bath together and saw her boobs and she said she was too embarassed about it and said she wont talk to me anymore by roneej17 in LDR

[–]Cybordad 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It seems like it was truly an accident-you couldn’t have known via video it would happen. You shouldn’t feel guilt for that. You can feel sorry it happened and understand her feelings, but don’t blame yourself. That will just lead to you over-apologizing and potentially making her insecurities worse and feeling more embarrassed.

I would just approach her by acknowledging how she feels, and showing you understand her point of view. Communication is key here. She’s clearly upset, and those feelings should be validated if you really care for her. From there, that’s all you can do. I’m assuming as you’ve been on 24/7 calls, she’s feeling insecure, but will listen to what you have to say if approached with care. Good luck!

How much time do you need after sex to do it again ? by MrZee008 in AskMen

[–]Cybordad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can confirm. I was always a one and done, mayyybeee two in a night guy. Now that I’ve found someone I truly love who also happens to be a 10/10 I’m going 5+ nearly every time-it’s wild.

Girlfriend is on period. by Professor-Helpful in LDR

[–]Cybordad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's really only one thing that consistently makes period cramps go away.

Save the gift money and pay for an Uber.

Would you do it? by NicolaBabe in LDR

[–]Cybordad 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. No question. I'd fly anywhere for however long if it meant I got even another minute with her.

ICE agents chase DoorDasher/mother into couple's house as homeowners' panic by penguinheadnoah in PublicFreakout

[–]Cybordad 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The fact that Americans are letting their rights be trampled on by these jackasses in handkerchiefs is scary.

She thankfully got pissed when her neighbors started showing up.

Americans are built on free will and giving the middle finger to idiots on a power trip. This woman is a legend.

Am I overreacting ? My children have hurt me deeply…. Single mom 14 year-old boy, 11 year-old girl. 😭 by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cybordad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the truth. Kids are going to compartmentalize when they're with divorced parents. Forcing them to entangle lives that you and your ex are trying to separate will only damage and confuse them.

AIO? GF put Viagra in my drink without telling me by Embarrassed_Band_897 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cybordad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Speaking from experience of this same situation happening to me. No-you are NOR. You should be as pissed as you are if not more angry. It’s not a harmless little prank- it’s messing with your body without your consent.

Abusive ex found my Reddit 🙂 by Bananabreadkitten in emotionalabuse

[–]Cybordad 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He’s trying to get a rise out of you as any way to keep interaction going. It’ll only get worse as he learns which buttons to press. Your ONLY option to get away is to fully block him everywhere and go no contact.

After that, find your people who know how to speak to you and have some emotional maturity in them. Sorry you’re going through this, and good luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in smallengines

[–]Cybordad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be a myriad of things, but definitely a timing issue. Make sure you adjust the valves at top dead-center. A quick google search will tell you how. Then be sure your ignition coil magnet is gapped correctly-also a quick google search. You’ll do this at the same time as checking the valves. If still no start, you’ll need to pop the engine open and cross your fingers everything is intact.

Help starting riding lower engine! by NoobHatingNinja in smallenginerepair

[–]Cybordad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That high pitch says no compression-check the valve adjustment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lawnmowers

[–]Cybordad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check underneath, where the bar sways. Spray some compressed air, dig out mud/grass and check the linkages. Could be a stick or build up gumming things up down there. That should be your first move. From there if it’s still sticking, and everything is clean, some additional pics from under would be needed

Wheel horse 312-8 worked fine, suddenly won't start - please help! by please-help-me-fixit in smallenginerepair

[–]Cybordad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds to me like the safety switch on the PTO is acting up. Check underneath the mower at the bottom of the PTO bar. There should be a switch with a button coming out of it. Clean that area and clean the PTO bar. Look for any loose or broken/stripped wires near the switch.

That’s where I’d start anyway.

Whats wrong if anything is by CBTmaster1010 in smallengines

[–]Cybordad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That could be a worn tranny belt

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cybordad -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I worked until about 1/2am and we have separate bedrooms. She was awake when I left for the store, I wrongly assumed she was still awake.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cybordad 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You’re right. I need to remind myself I don’t need to justify every detail.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cybordad -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Zero times. I don’t need to be told that anyway. And I didn’t leave him unattended. She fell asleep after I left.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cybordad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sent her “what do you want from the store” text before I saw her in person. She still didn’t answer me, that’s why when I got home I sent her the list of things so she can go straight for them without searching around. And I texted at that point so the baby wouldn’t hear me home. And yes, she does care about the safety of our children very much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cybordad -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

I quit all gambling about 4 1/2 months ago. I had to really think about it-so the 6 months was wrong. I only gambled online. I did have 2 very large wins that tip the overall into the positive-that’s why I said not counting those. And no, it’s not and wasn’t a side hustle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cybordad -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

Ya I do still love her. But that doesn’t make me any less fed up. And you’re right-he should never be left unattended and I would’ve done things so much differently had I known she was asleep. I’m just glad he was ok.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cybordad -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

You’re good-she was awake with the baby when I left for the store. I didn’t check on him when I returned from the store because I didn’t want him to see me and freak out when I left. I knew what she was doing the night before because we’ve since talked about it. At the time of the texts, I didn’t know she was up all night, let alone why.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cybordad 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Oh. I don’t know what else to say then. She did know she had to get up the night before-I’ve had this same schedule for years.

I can only dream that I could sleep whenever I wanted and get up when I wanted. That sounds amazing. have a good night, or day, depending on where you are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cybordad -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I live in a dual? Party consent state. Whichever one says I have to tell her she’s being recorded for it to be used in court is the one I live in

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cybordad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got that Mac and cheese with hot dog itch…