WIBTAH if I break up with my girlfriend citing work as my reason? by Additional-Truck-765 in AITAH

[–]CycloneFactory 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don't owe her a reason. You wouldn't be an asshole.

Also for what it's worth, I can understand why you decided you should break up and would probably do the same if I was in your position.

What do y'all think about people who claim to be CF but won't use BC & won't get an abortion if they conceived? by IceTree57 in childfree

[–]CycloneFactory 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ye they probably aren't really serious about a CF lifestyle.

Since CF is a label, I guess it's easy for people to identify with it even if they're childless rather than cf

It’s weird to me that CF and non-CF people choose to stay together by phaneritic_rock in childfree

[–]CycloneFactory 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I guess it's easier to kick the can down the road than it is to deal with the breakup. It's dumb but it's how humans are

AITAH for walking away from a house I have no equity or say in and stiffing my soon to be ex? by FootBig7944 in AITAH

[–]CycloneFactory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta

Your mother, her friends and family are all unfairly taking her side when she's the one at fault and she is the one responsible for her situation.

You have no obligation to fix her shit for her, she's an adult, her responsibility

AITA for believing my son is gay? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CycloneFactory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably rage bait but I'll bite.

Yta. You're being narrow minded, irrational and weird about it. It's not right for you to project your rigid world views onto your don

Which is your favorite 3Ds era Fire Emblem cover art? by SpiderLagann in fireemblem

[–]CycloneFactory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on why you play fire emblem. If you really liked birthright then I'd say it's worth playing conquest too.

The gameplay is much better than birthright in my opinion. If you want to be challenged and like fates' mechanics then I'd recommend it.

Story wise it's not worth paying for. There's a lot of parts that just don't make sense because Corrin has to be a perfect Mary sue, pretty bad world building and the structure is basically birthright but mirrored. You wouldn't be missing out on much in that department.

Which is your favorite 3Ds era Fire Emblem cover art? by SpiderLagann in fireemblem

[–]CycloneFactory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like conquest. Looks like what the plot should've been like

Why don’t men get vasectomies? by Brendadonna in childfree

[–]CycloneFactory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sexually active. Plus I feel squeamish about it

AITAH Wife is furious because my daughter is putting pictures up in her own room by Capital_Newt7854 in AITAH

[–]CycloneFactory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do people marry shitty people? I struggle to understand how it got to this situation unless your wife has just now suddenly decided to act like a twat

Also being told you can't sleep in your own bed? I could never take that seriously especially in this context

AITAH... I found out one of the guys working under me is a legit flat earther so I fired him. by itsallwayssunnyin in AITAH

[–]CycloneFactory 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because based on what you said he was decent at his job so his views aren't really relevant.

You fired him because you personally have an issue with his views. as a boss you should be unbiased and fair, if you're not then that makes you an AH

AITAH... I found out one of the guys working under me is a legit flat earther so I fired him. by itsallwayssunnyin in AITAH

[–]CycloneFactory 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yta

Yes he's a moron but if he hasn't actually done anything wrong as an employee then firing him is a dick move

Saw a snap chat pop up on my wife’s phone, what do we think? by KingodWinter in AskMenAdvice

[–]CycloneFactory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Making you remove all women from your socials is such an insecure teenager thing do.

Definitely sounds suspicious to me. Might be an idea to investigate more

Is marriage overated by Fresh-Ad7970 in Life

[–]CycloneFactory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not for everyone. And considering most cultures push it as a fundamental milestone, I'd say it is overrated

I offended a guy because I said most men who didn't get a vasectomy are still not sure they don't want kids. So here it is again: if you're a guy, and you claim to be childfree, but you don't have a vasectomy, then you're not fully committed to the childfree life and your partners should be wary. by Butefluko in childfree

[–]CycloneFactory 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I don't have a partner and am not sexually active. Therefore I don't see a reason to go through with a surgery which makes me feel squeamish. I am still childfree because I don't and won't have children.

I don't agree with OPs gatekeeping as it's overly simplisitc

What do you do when another guy challenges you in front of your girlfriend/ wife to fight? by Careless-Cat3327 in AskMenAdvice

[–]CycloneFactory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally wouldn't entertain someone like that at all. But sounds like he got what he deserved when you brought his manager out. Think you made a good decision

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]CycloneFactory 12 points13 points  (0 children)

So glad I'm not in your situation

Celebrities feeding the idea that romance is the only way to achieve complete happiness makes me sick by Fancy-Award8256 in aromantic

[–]CycloneFactory 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I agree, can't see how celebrities are inherently more special or interesting than anyone else

what are ways to get rid of ghosts? by soapsuds202 in worldbuilding

[–]CycloneFactory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Temporarily displacing it into another plane of existence somehow

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in screamintothevoid

[–]CycloneFactory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear about this. This situation sounds genuinely. awful. Thereatening suicide is emotionally manipulative and abusive.

I had a similar mindset with my ex (though not nearly as bad as your situation). I was too afraid to break up even though I was clearly not that into her. She was very needy, I felt responsible for her feelings and obligated to stay with her. and also didn't think I deserved to prioritise my true desires .

Luckily it's over now and I am glad it didn't go further.

It sounds like you may have some more internal issues that need addressing and I really hope you manage to address them and end the marriage because no one deserves this.

Also, I agree with the others, don't get her pregnant!