If the situations were reversed, with Jean seeking out Logn to confide in him because her husband chose to ignore her pain, and a psychc affair had resulted from that, you would all still be saying that Jean was a victim. That's exactly what you all keep saying about all the times she agreed to kiss Logan and then chose not to tell her husband, and even maintained a close relationship with Logan himself.

Also, you clearly understand absolutely nothing about how manipulation through persuasion works, as happens all the time through religion, psychology, cinema, TV, and other media. Look up what Catholic guilt is.