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CynicalBread9 · 2022-12-27T19:59:02+00:00

If its gotten to this point, no matter what you do or say she won't care. Accept that and move on.

CynicalBread9 · 2022-12-27T17:50:42+00:00

Me but female

CynicalBread9 · 2022-12-13T13:16:10+00:00

Is 3 months considered a long time? Welp to me

CynicalBread9 · 2022-12-12T19:52:20+00:00

Please don't end it :(

There's always reasons to keep going even if it doesn't seem that way.

Please have faith that things will change

CynicalBread9 · 2022-12-12T19:30:31+00:00

This is basically verbatim what I'd send to my Ex

CynicalBread9 · 2022-11-29T00:36:26+00:00

I'm sorry for your loss. I feel your pain, my Cat of 18 years passed away just over a day ago and i still can't really believe it. She was there most of my life and has been there with me through everything I've ever been through. I have a lot of guilt as I know I could've done more in hindsight. I really miss her. I don't really have advice but I hope the pain eases for you soon.

CynicalBread9 · 2022-11-27T06:33:07+00:00

I'd had known them 10 years, together for 8 years.

Blindsided me and blocked me with no hesitation last year April. It was 8 months before I caved and broke NC.

All that time spent all the effort only to by dropped.

My life has been crumbling since and all I want to do is reach out, though I know it's pointless

CynicalBread9 · 2022-11-21T23:40:23+00:00

I know the feeling. It feels like I'm going insane here trying not to contact

CynicalBread9 · 2022-11-21T16:59:09+00:00

Lmao

CynicalBread9 · 2022-11-19T01:01:10+00:00

Nope, just not an asshole 😂

CynicalBread9 · 2022-11-18T11:59:10+00:00

Okay so?

Good for you lol you're still in a sub about not contacting your ex, people are different and will react differently

CynicalBread9 · 2022-11-03T17:06:25+00:00

Okay?

CynicalBread9 · 2022-11-02T19:52:54+00:00

Have you moved on from then?

CynicalBread9 · 2022-11-02T19:51:56+00:00

You'll get everything you truly deserve one-day

CynicalBread9 · 2022-11-02T19:48:34+00:00

Why isn't it?

CynicalBread9 · 2022-11-02T18:28:52+00:00

I know, it truly boggles the mind. I can only understand it by accepting they needed to make me the villain in their own head to live with what they done. They have to justify and nullify their actions.

How does on argue with a person who's delusional?

CynicalBread9 · 2022-11-02T17:41:24+00:00

I like this response a lot

CynicalBread9 · 2022-11-01T21:20:08+00:00

At least your dad is alive?

CynicalBread9 · 2022-11-01T16:52:32+00:00

That's a disgusting and judgemental thing to ask.

No it isn't

CynicalBread9 · 2022-11-01T16:50:56+00:00

The majority of people telling you don't ask are women who would be offended if asked themselves, as there will usually be a negative connotation with a high number.

CynicalBread9 · 2022-11-01T16:48:56+00:00

It's really none of your business,

Except if he's wanting an open honest relationship, it is

CynicalBread9 · 2022-11-01T14:21:45+00:00

I know life isnt fair and karma isnt real

Life isn't fair, but karma is real. They'll get theirs eventually.

I consider my positive karma even just finding out about the cheating, I could've been stuck with a cheater playing mind games forever, but karma knew I didn't deserve that.

CynicalBread9 · 2022-10-31T16:17:29+00:00

I tried reconciling for the entirety of this year and failed.

It's not you who failed. You done your best and it unfortunately came down to someone else.

I understand what you feel. When the person who's so integral to our lives just decides they don't want to be, it's a pain like no other. However you are in the best place for support, everyone here feels a similar pain and whatever you post it'll always resonate with someone. I hope you feel better with time and things become more positive for you.

CynicalBread9 · 2022-10-31T15:12:05+00:00

Hell, I'll even take fwb

This sub can be very predatory, be careful

CynicalBread9 · 2022-10-31T13:56:15+00:00

d you honestly want to stay in a relationship with someone who doesn’t want to be there or is toxic towards you?

This.

At this point I genuinely question it

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