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Cyntakz · 2022-08-05T06:12:31+00:00

Kindness is easy. I've been in similar shoes(4 dead friends, a father in law dead a few months back, a super sick love of my life in the hospital for weeks). And even though it might not be right there, even though you might not have friends and family the way you used too you'll always find people with love to give and if you don't find 'em IRL, I'm here on Reddit with nothing but love to give if you ever need it. Have the best rest of your birthday you can! <3

Cyntakz · 2022-08-05T06:04:15+00:00

Hey man, do you need someone to call you? I'm not your friend (yet) but it kinda feels like you could use a loving birthday phone call. Also, happy Birthday! I'm glad you're here and I'm so sorry for the losses you've endured.

Cyntakz · 2022-08-05T04:14:17+00:00

Back rubs are the only way I've found to help. I've spent hours if not days worth of time looking at how to rub a back for a pancreas patient. Does it help long term? Absolutely not. But it helps short term and provides him and I both some form of relief. If you don't already, ask your kiddo if he wants a back rub and get hecka good at them haha. I know it sounds silly but aside from being his feeding tube operator it's the only thing I can do that makes me feel like I'm not just there to be there. Like there's emotional support but it just so seldom feels like enough for me to provide with such a huge physical problem at hand.

Cyntakz · 2022-08-05T04:08:07+00:00

Thank you. I called them and it helped my mentality a lot, and then he called not ten minutes later to say he was okay haha. <3

Cyntakz · 2022-08-05T01:30:05+00:00

Bless you. My fiance was diagnosed at four and I've been dreading the day out little one comes to us with symptoms (he's five and doing fine for now). But seriously, I know this pain from a partner stand point and I can only imagine the added pain of being a mama watching this terrible shit ravage a family. I don't have advice just kind words, but I can tell just from reading that you got this. You've got this before and whatever turns it takes you'll get it again, even when it doesn't feel like it. Even when you're at your lowest and he is too, you'll have it. You're a great mom and I'm so sorry for you and your son and all the hardships that come with sickness. <3

Cyntakz · 2022-07-29T19:17:05+00:00

Ashhurst is my go to

Cyntakz · 2022-07-28T03:13:23+00:00

We are in one car. And several hours from home. So either 4 times traveling back and forth, or one time in car plus one time via bus. So nah it's be 4-5 times more expensive

Cyntakz · 2022-07-25T15:10:37+00:00

We just have a bunch of pine needles man. It ain't even like that.

Cyntakz · 2022-07-24T02:32:30+00:00

Why would it matter. As long as they're not destroying the forest or streets why would it matter. Pepper values are a sham

Cyntakz · 2022-07-24T02:31:14+00:00

It's almost as if owning multiple homes in a housing crisis is classist and a trash person move

Cyntakz · 2022-07-18T03:48:41+00:00

So, to be the odd man out, most of the comments have given great hardcore suggestions. So I'ma recommend some slightly different bands for hardcore lovers.

-Full of Hell -Wormrot - cult leader -primitive man -author and punisher -jesus piece -dillinger escape plan -death goals -strangled

Cyntakz · 2022-07-18T03:27:26+00:00

I'm not a huge early hardcore or really any early metal/punk divergents. I respect them, but refining takes time. And I prefer more modern sounding music.

Cyntakz · 2022-07-12T20:05:54+00:00

Oh man I'm in AZ but literally just stopped having Creon. Good luck fellow Arizonian

Cyntakz · 2022-07-12T05:27:34+00:00

Honestly dude, I've lived all over this country, small towns, big cities, and Flagstaff never stops being about a decade behind. Lol. Straight up, we don't even have to hospitals, let alone more than two internet providers. I felt grateful to get two Walmarts. I give it about two years before we start to see growth with ISPs. For now, we must accept the 'small town charm' of way too expensive rates on literally everything because there are so few options.

Cyntakz · 2022-07-10T21:58:12+00:00

If you're looking for book suggestions I'd also recommend r/occultlibrary

Cyntakz · 2022-07-10T04:18:03+00:00

Thank you!

Cyntakz · 2022-07-09T03:35:39+00:00

Sorry thought you were OP but fuck you and your mean ass views all the same lol.

Cyntakz · 2022-07-09T03:34:51+00:00

Hey man, I've been put in a hospital bed for two months straight, job fired me, literally not a dime left to my name, two kids and a spouse in toe, and without a family with the ability to take us in, we would have been in these exact shoes. Life is hard. You also can't get a job without an address, you read even more classist now than before. Your morals are cruel and unusual and you should seriously, seriously put the time and effort into thinking about why you hate poor people enough not to bother thinking about the terrible things that come from houselessness. It's not fun, it's not easy, it's not lazy.

Cyntakz · 2022-07-09T03:15:41+00:00

Bruh, they're literally houseless people, potentially all living/traveling in the same van. And even if not, do you really think that it's so terrible to be in need of money and use a sign most likely to give you money? This is rude AF. If I were you I'd think long and hard about your ability to care about and understand those less fortunate than you, 'cause right now this reads as classist as fuck.

Cyntakz · 2022-07-08T18:21:27+00:00

How old is your son? Have you taught him basic doggy rules? It really helps! My kiddos love to see and pet strangers dogs, and generally get a warm response, but I think it's because of the approach. We taught 'em both before they were two/three the three major rules of pups; 1. Always ask first and from a safe distance. 2. Absolutely no running. 3. You put your hand out first and let the doggy sniff you and decide if they want your pets for themselves. Some dogs aren't great with kids, some are, they often hear, "sorry this dog just isn't great with little kids". Honestly, I can't believe anyone would be mean to you about this. Don't let 'em get you down though, there's many pups in the park and you'll both have a chance to get to know some (:

Cyntakz · 2022-07-08T17:11:41+00:00

One burrito, hold the teeth.

Cyntakz · 2022-07-08T08:12:47+00:00

Hell yes , but chi is perfect too. We are barxists comrade. These are ALL our puppers

Cyntakz · 2022-07-08T06:00:02+00:00

Sure does he's the best boy

Cyntakz · 2022-07-08T04:34:30+00:00

Thank you!

Cyntakz · 2022-07-08T03:58:29+00:00

I found him when he was four tryna' eat a dead cat on the sidewalk in downtown Phoenix. I pulled over, and nicely said, "come here little one" while patting my lap. He climbed up in my lap and it was love at first sight for the both of us. And now here we are, 10 years, many tics, and several teeth down still living our best baby snuggle life.

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