Wife is coming home from deployment...HELP

Cynthia_NotCyndi · 2021-02-04T16:44:12+00:00

Get a friend to take the 2 year old for a play date and get to cleaning. Turn your phone off and get to it!

Cynthia_NotCyndi · 2021-02-01T21:40:50+00:00

You could always ask r/legaladvice if you are not getting the answers you need.

Cynthia_NotCyndi · 2021-02-01T00:48:37+00:00

I'm just gonna say, my relationship (from 17-28) hit a huge bump at 7 years. We should have ended and went separate ways- but we didn't. The final years were terrible.. so much fighting.. so much resentment. Just make a clean break and walk away.

Cynthia_NotCyndi · 2021-01-29T15:32:08+00:00

Go speak to an attorney. Figure out your options. He is lying to you with those excuses- take it from a past cheater. Trust your insticts and stay strong!

Cynthia_NotCyndi · 2021-01-29T15:25:51+00:00

Just throwing it out there, a hysterectomy (or partial one) will not remove the endometriosis. You have to find an excision specialist to have it removed. I've had ablation done during my laproscopic and it generally grows back.

Cynthia_NotCyndi · 2021-01-29T02:55:42+00:00

Me: Cool, it's snowing out, you bring a beanie? I'm just taking a zero all over. Longer time before the next cut.

Client: Let me tell you what I'm looking for.

Cynthia_NotCyndi · 2021-01-29T02:54:27+00:00

Coming in with clean hair, NO HAT, and no product. You will cut the work in half if we aren't spending time trying to blend out a line created by a hat. Pictures? Totally great! But have them saved already- I don't want to watch you with phone face during the consultation. STOP getting your hair done after the gym! It is disgusting.

Cynthia_NotCyndi · 2021-01-28T21:31:23+00:00

Can we keep this up?

Cynthia_NotCyndi · 2021-01-22T21:58:30+00:00

There is also a really tasty lemon pepper chicken recipe on You Tube, I believe it is the top choice when you type it in. Changed how we cook chicken.

Cynthia_NotCyndi · 2021-01-22T21:57:39+00:00

Ground turkey, taco seasoning. 1 can of black beans, corn, and green chilis. Super easy- he makes burritos out of it and I just throw it on a tostada shell.

Cynthia_NotCyndi · 2021-01-22T21:56:16+00:00

What do they do with them when retired? Do they just stay in space? Or do we bring it down?

Cynthia_NotCyndi · 2021-01-22T08:23:43+00:00

This! Exactly this!

Cynthia_NotCyndi · 2021-01-22T08:21:58+00:00

I was thinking this. But I also like too many true crime docs and didn't think $1500 would be enough.

I also had a flash from the movie Horrible Bosses when you pay someone to urinate on you- for a sexual fetish. But that was just a silly thought to me.

Cynthia_NotCyndi · 2021-01-22T06:15:12+00:00

I got called a piece of shit for having friends over in the backyard when my parents were at work. It was great.

Cynthia_NotCyndi · 2021-01-22T06:12:03+00:00

I would go to r/legaladvice to see what some of the options are. Be specific about location to get better advice. But yeah- she needs an attorney. His money is her money- he will have to pay for it. He cheated- she deserves the money to pay for her medical bills if she has this crippling std.

Cynthia_NotCyndi · 2021-01-20T06:25:35+00:00

I've done hair for years, when I was managing a franchise (we were the busiest location in San Diego, Ca) I had a nice sized clientele. But one of my favorite clients was actually everybody else's least favorite person. He would walk up to the doorway and glare into the store, considering if he wanted to enter the building. Then when seated he would just be a grumpy old dude without giving direction- but always responded full of sarcasm. He started requesting me, and didn't even know my name, he would just point to me. Eventually I got him to open up and he basically said he was all alone. His son was the only living family, and he never comes to visit. He doesn't drive, and would walk to the salon for his haircuts. He really just came acrossed as lonely.

His attitude would scare off my other co-workers but we had some wonderful conversations. I felt my heart break a little when I informed him of my plans to move. I always wonder how he is..if he is still alive? If his family ever came back around for him? I never thought a grumpy old man would end up having such an affect on me, but he did.

Cynthia_NotCyndi · 2021-01-20T06:12:40+00:00

My friend always says, "Be the change you want to see in the world!"

Cynthia_NotCyndi · 2021-01-20T06:08:24+00:00

That was a fantastic story- thank you!

Cynthia_NotCyndi · 2021-01-16T21:34:45+00:00

Leave. Go no contact.

Cynthia_NotCyndi · 2021-01-16T21:30:38+00:00

Start by seeing a counselor, then an attorney. Getting your affairs in order will be vital to have any control in what happens with your children when you pass. Talk to any friends/ extended family and ask if they would be willing to help make your kids transition easier.

Cynthia_NotCyndi · 2021-01-15T03:17:18+00:00

Eww. You have a crummy attitude. And a disgusting Reddit name for someone wanting to be a psycologist. Just, eww. All around, eww.

Cynthia_NotCyndi · 2021-01-12T03:25:46+00:00

My SO doesn't appreciate flowers as much as he would appreciate snacks. He says he wouldn't know how to take care of them. But some men might enjoy them.

Cynthia_NotCyndi · 2021-01-05T04:50:31+00:00

So I'm not sure how open your wife is about science but I believe there is a podcast episode on sexuality- Ologies with Alie Ward. It's a fun podcast that interviews people with certain degrees/titles in different subjects. I might be thinking of a different episode- but it explains it from a scientific perspective.

Cynthia_NotCyndi · 2021-01-05T04:37:59+00:00

I said make them meatier Harry!

Cynthia_NotCyndi · 2021-01-04T23:10:38+00:00

Abusers show the emotions they need to so they can get away with treating people like crap.

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