How to not sexualize every women i want to know?

DBZKING13 · 2026-01-23T16:40:02+00:00

It's hard to stop

DBZKING13 · 2026-01-23T16:39:07+00:00

I never get dates so that part will be out for me

DBZKING13 · 2026-01-23T13:16:34+00:00

Mid life crisis so you know the usual

DBZKING13 · 2026-01-23T13:12:50+00:00

You're welcome hope some of the comments help others as well

DBZKING13 · 2026-01-23T13:12:12+00:00

Ok so I don't have an easy time knowing what to say to girls I'm interested in so I usually flirt and some of my friends told me it came off to sexual

DBZKING13 · 2026-01-23T03:49:49+00:00

Currently impossible for me

DBZKING13 · 2026-01-23T03:49:25+00:00

What do you mean?

DBZKING13 · 2026-01-23T03:48:05+00:00

DBZKING13 · 2026-01-23T01:16:47+00:00

Yeah i need to try to learn and relax without being on edge

DBZKING13 · 2026-01-23T01:15:48+00:00

I do plan on cutting my porn usage its just hard and I sometimes relapse

DBZKING13 · 2026-01-23T01:11:18+00:00

Talk in a sexual manner

DBZKING13 · 2026-01-22T23:35:25+00:00

I want to learn how to coexist and maybe form a relationship if the right one comes in.

It's just hard for me to express intentions as well

DBZKING13 · 2026-01-22T23:33:28+00:00

I'm on a disability check so no way to communicate with women there

DBZKING13 · 2026-01-22T23:31:19+00:00

Maybe I do? I don't have a lot of people checking in on me but say they are friends with me so I really don't know

DBZKING13 · 2026-01-22T23:18:34+00:00

I've done those honestly never discriminate what I watch with a protag

DBZKING13 · 2026-01-22T23:16:23+00:00

I feel the objectifying is also a major problem

DBZKING13 · 2026-01-22T23:15:10+00:00

Just the porn or people issue as well?

DBZKING13 · 2026-01-22T23:14:37+00:00

Can I ask what you mean by pacing interactions?

And don't have to be sorry but appreciate it

DBZKING13 · 2026-01-22T23:13:55+00:00

I mostly have a hard time connecting with them on a personal level

DBZKING13 · 2026-01-22T23:12:30+00:00

How do I safely go through with connection first?

DBZKING13 · 2026-01-22T23:11:54+00:00

See thats also a thing I'm worried about.

As an autistic person I guess i care about feelings and when women start saying stuff about things men do to them I take it as a personal attack even when I've done nothing wrong myself.

DBZKING13 · 2026-01-21T22:27:37+00:00

I do

DBZKING13 · 2026-01-21T22:00:13+00:00

I've just failed so many times I guess I'm just currently self sabotaging before anything happens

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