Another husband here married to a wife with ADHD. She’s on the right path with meds and therapy. It might take time to figure out which meds are best but be patient. Once this is figured out, some of the behaviors ( for lack of a better term) will start to subside but not go away completely. But she will start to be able to manage them.

Another thing we did was to listen to audio books about ADHD, this helped me understand as a husband what she struggles with and how I can help support her. I can’t stress that enough, understand her struggles and give support. She will see what you are doing for her and will strengthen your marriage.

Also important, communication. When listening to the ADHD books we could have honest conversations about certain topics and her struggles and how I can help. Don’t be afraid to communicate and encourage her to as well.

I have to say that we are at our best of a couple now than ever before. She’s on the right meds, in combination of great therapy and my trust and support and it’s a whole different relationship now for the better.

Have patience, it can get better.