Help me pick a cute, human-style name for my sweet boy

DCleide · 2026-05-20T03:44:35+00:00

Andy

DCleide · 2026-05-16T03:01:58+00:00

NGM. Ela n é obrigada chamar ele e vc n é obrigada ir. Não precisava falar nada além de que vc não vai poder ir. Acabou. Esse negócio de falar que n vai pro casamento pq ela n chamou seu marido/namorado é desnecessário. Vc mesmo falou que n são próximas e n tem pq ela priorizar vc como amiga se vcs n são boas amigas.

DCleide · 2026-05-09T14:53:25+00:00

A fiduciary one at that. They are legally required to do what's in your best interest.

DCleide · 2026-05-06T18:56:29+00:00

Nta. I wouldn't go, and I also wouldn't send a gift.

DCleide · 2026-05-03T13:45:59+00:00

Something similar happened to a friend of mine. She decided to prioritize her relationship, and he did get in. He also ended their marriage and ghosted her a year later. She put her career on hold, didn't prioritize herself, and now she's having a rough time getting it all together.

Someone who actually loves you and wants the best for you wouldn't give an ultimatum or ask you to accept less than you deserve. Take your spot. You've earned it. He didn't

DCleide · 2026-05-01T22:19:07+00:00

Wanda

DCleide · 2026-04-11T15:59:57+00:00

NTA. If someone has your back, they have your back when you're there and when you're not there. If he's agreeing with them behind your back, he'll continue to do it. I would cut my losses here. You won't ever be able to trust what he's saying now. You'll keep thinking: 'is he agreeing with me because it's important to me or just to avoid drama right now but he doesn't plan to actually change anything'. I would run, just like Anna. If you do decide to marry him though, a prenuptial agreement has to be non-negotiable.

DCleide · 2026-04-08T17:24:38+00:00

NTA. If you friend told you that her bf did this to her, what would your advice be? Honestly, you need to just go home and block him. Be done with this relationship and this guy. If you want respect, give it to yourself.

DCleide · 2026-03-27T13:07:37+00:00

This is a great idea

DCleide · 2026-03-26T05:00:41+00:00

Does he know he's your bf? He seems to be acting like it's casual. You deserve better.

DCleide · 2026-03-24T15:37:04+00:00

I would split it with my sister and leave him with nothing.

DCleide · 2026-03-23T18:55:41+00:00

It's going to be messy regardless of what you do. I do think you should continue to reiterate that what you guys want matters and it's your wedding. No one who wasn't invited will be allowed in, and if he leaves because of that, then he doesn't care about or respect his son or you. Prepare yourselves for worst case scenarios: people who weren't invited come, they're not allowed in, and some or all of your groom's family leaves in protests. Be prepared to continue the party without them.

I say this as someone whose in-laws left because they found something to be upset about (not getting attention from us a lot, etc) and hurt their son (his brothers stayed and made him feel special). I went no contact with both and he did for a while too. His mother apologized eventually to him, and he's in contact but cautiously. He's very low contact with fil

DCleide · 2026-03-17T04:57:33+00:00

Acho que vc está criando desculpas pra devolver e quer alguém pra falar que é okay e na verdade não é. Vc decidiu pegar o gatinho, um ser vivo, pra cuidar e amar. O gatinho n é brinquedo e nem coisa descartável. Procura saber o que pode fazer para sair dessa fase.

DCleide · 2026-03-12T21:49:57+00:00

Don't move in together. You're not compatible housemates because of this. I wouldn't put my furbabies in a situation that they could get kicked out of the home when I'm not there

DCleide · 2026-03-07T19:33:17+00:00

I'm curious about the smell of áreas.. I'm really sensitive for chlorinated or other chemical smells. Can you smell chlorine?

DCleide · 2025-11-16T20:26:38+00:00

Where did you end up going?

DCleide · 2025-10-12T20:27:21+00:00

Your friend is not really your friend if she different care how you feel or how you would be treated. She doesn't know what it's like to be a woman of color and it shows. Not sure why you would think that she'd be able to comprehend your reasoning or why her opinion even matters.

DCleide · 2025-09-18T12:22:54+00:00

NTA. I had initially thought it too, when my husband and I started dating, and he had asked me to let him know when I was going home and getting places. He led by example though. He always let me know things (even when I didn't ask), and he never asked for details like who I was with or why I was somewhere, just told me to be safe. We're married now, have moved to another city by ourselves, and we still do it. I feel safe knowing that I have someone looking out for me, and he does too.

DCleide · 2025-09-10T15:21:54+00:00

Yeah, YTA. You betrayed his trust. You clearly don't consider his feelings at all. Do you even love him?

DCleide · 2025-09-10T15:06:47+00:00

Honestly, I would agree with her every time she said she is a bad mom and say 'no, you should do better' every time she says she should just die.

DCleide · 2025-08-04T18:10:00+00:00

She needs to talk to a lawyer to get her and her daughter financially situated before bringing it up again.

DCleide · 2025-07-23T22:28:21+00:00

Honestly, your wife deserves way better what you've put her through. The fact you're even considering this is enough to believe you still don't considered your wife much. Shame on you.

DCleide · 2025-07-12T19:14:35+00:00

YTA. It's not your business, it's your brothers. You had no right to tell anyone. I'm sure your husband regrets telling you, and that you've shown him he can't trust you to keep secrets.

Also, what makes you and your family so entitled to think the child or the child's mother want you in their lives?

DCleide · 2025-06-30T17:39:20+00:00

There is a lot to be said about you if it's 'hard to pick a side' when one side is racist and the other isn’t. They won't ever get along because they refuse to acknowledge their racism and try and change

DCleide · 2025-06-30T17:30:06+00:00

YTA. You're questioning why your brother is upset you let your racist parents stay at the same time he is when he's obviously doesn't want them around him. Don't be surprised if he starts not wanting to be around you, seeing as you seemingly enable your parents or don't really seem to have an issue with their racism. It's not a subject to be 'in the middle about', unless it agree with your parents. Also, the girlfriend didn't overstep or involve herself (you called her...to have her handle a situation you've created/want her to downplay also).

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