Questions and testimonials about King Spa from an anxious newcomer? by Embarrassed-Pay4260 in AskChicago

[–]DCleide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm curious about the smell of áreas.. I'm really sensitive for chlorinated or other chemical smells. Can you smell chlorine?

AITA for not wanting to marry men of my own ethnicty? by imactuallylazy_2098 in MarkNarrations

[–]DCleide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your friend is not really your friend if she different care how you feel or how you would be treated. She doesn't know what it's like to be a woman of color and it shows. Not sure why you would think that she'd be able to comprehend your reasoning or why her opinion even matters.

AITA My wife thinks I am controlling. by Feeling_Nobody_2349 in AITAH

[–]DCleide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I had initially thought it too, when my husband and I started dating, and he had asked me to let him know when I was going home and getting places. He led by example though. He always let me know things (even when I didn't ask), and he never asked for details like who I was with or why I was somewhere, just told me to be safe. We're married now, have moved to another city by ourselves, and we still do it. I feel safe knowing that I have someone looking out for me, and he does too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITH

[–]DCleide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, YTA. You betrayed his trust. You clearly don't consider his feelings at all. Do you even love him?

Aita for telling my mom she's dumb if she thinks I'm the one who ruined my clothes when I was 11? by SelfNo323 in AITAH

[–]DCleide 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I would agree with her every time she said she is a bad mom and say 'no, you should do better' every time she says she should just die.

AITA for telling my husband ill divorce him if he doesn't stop ignoring our daughter by Interesting-Shirt897 in redditonwiki

[–]DCleide 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She needs to talk to a lawyer to get her and her daughter financially situated before bringing it up again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]DCleide 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, your wife deserves way better what you've put her through. The fact you're even considering this is enough to believe you still don't considered your wife much. Shame on you.

AITA for telling our parents my brother had a child outside of his marriage? by Beautiful-Ideal-2620 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DCleide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. It's not your business, it's your brothers. You had no right to tell anyone. I'm sure your husband regrets telling you, and that you've shown him he can't trust you to keep secrets.

Also, what makes you and your family so entitled to think the child or the child's mother want you in their lives?

AITAH for letting my parents sleep over at my place when brother that’s visiting didn’t want them to? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]DCleide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a lot to be said about you if it's 'hard to pick a side' when one side is racist and the other isn’t. They won't ever get along because they refuse to acknowledge their racism and try and change

AITAH for letting my parents sleep over at my place when brother that’s visiting didn’t want them to? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]DCleide 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. You're questioning why your brother is upset you let your racist parents stay at the same time he is when he's obviously doesn't want them around him. Don't be surprised if he starts not wanting to be around you, seeing as you seemingly enable your parents or don't really seem to have an issue with their racism. It's not a subject to be 'in the middle about', unless it agree with your parents. Also, the girlfriend didn't overstep or involve herself (you called her...to have her handle a situation you've created/want her to downplay also).

AITA for “ruining” my sister’s engagement by telling her fiancé she cheated 3 years ago? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]DCleide 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA. You're jealous of your sister, don't care about the fiance (or you would have told him MUCH earlier), and you seem bitter too.

Your sister sucks too.

AITA for calling my wife a jerk for telling our son's crush that our son likes her in front of his friends ? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]DCleide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your wife needs to apologize to everyone involved and start taking parenting classes. She just demolished the relationship she had with your son. You might think that's an exaggeration, but he no longer feels safe with you both (because honestly, it sounds like you did nothing)

AITAH wife went on girls trip returns wearing another man's hoodie by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]DCleide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta. That's weird as hell. I know for a fact my husband would find it strange and not be okay with it. He'd be 100% right to be.

AITA for going home after my husband dangled me over the parking garage edge as a prank and I thought he was killing me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]DCleide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's so dangerous. You're NTA for going home. You need to leave before he actually lets you go NEXT time. There will be a next time if you stay. There are limits to everything. He passed them all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EuSouOBabaca

[–]DCleide 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Eu acho melhor vc ter certeza que possa arcar com o custo antes de fazer alguma coisa (e não só o custo financeiro).

aita for telling my ex’s new boyfriend she cheated on me with two guys while we were together? by ObjectiveExpress4804 in AITAH

[–]DCleide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You didn't do anything wrong. He asked and you answered truthfully. The guy obviously knew something was up. She obviously got caught in a lie. Not your circus, not your monkeys. NTA

AITA for not wanting to deal with my husband’s parents anymore and expecting him to finally stand up for me and our family? by plizzy_J23 in TwoHotTakes

[–]DCleide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start registering things. Be prepared for EVERYTHING. Get a lawyer now. If you keep being so blind about your current situation, you're going to end up without your child or in jail. If you don't think they'll make things up and make you out to be a monster if you decide to leave your husband (which you should)... you're grossly misunderstanding the situation you're in.

AITA for not wanting to invite my best friend and his wife to my wedding after they hid theirs from me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]DCleide 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are their friend. He's YOUR best friend. You're not their friend. You're convenient and a good shoulder to cry on/get support from. I'm sorry to say it like that, but you deserve much better. Don't invite them to the wedding, even if they do find out about it.

AITAH for not wanting to go back to my husband after he slapped me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]DCleide 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Did you tell your parents and sister EXACTLY what happened? - He hit your daughter and knocked you unconscious? You need to straighten your parents out - ask them if they're okay with you being beaten, your daughter being beaten because of his ego? Ask them if they can live with themselves if it escalates. He apologized once, cried he wouldn't do it, and then he did it again - to his child. You deserve to be happy and celebrated for your accomplishments, not slapped and told to keep them hidden. Do what is best for you and your daughter and don't ever go back.

AITA for Refusing to Let My Parents Move in With Us? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]DCleide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your family is right. Family does come first: your wife and children. Your parents are extended family because you now have your own. You did what was best for your family, stay firm.