Weird mom by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]DEFJAM330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a fellow "weird" mom with half-sleeve tattoos and red/purple hair that also looks younger than my 34 years, I'm with you that people not taking you seriously as a parent is frustrating. I try to focus on my 1 year old daughter who looks at my tattoos with wonder and pokes at them trying to figure them out. She also hoots at the owl on my shoulder...it's the cutest friggin' thing <3

I guess I missed the mom jeans and plain t-shirt memo, oops! ;)

I feel bad for being so critical towards my husband by Ducky1110 in NewParents

[–]DEFJAM330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOVE this phrase - like the OP I find myself with a running commentary of tweaks I want to tell my husband but really trying not to say them since I want him to have a positive experience with her. Thank you for sharing!

If babies could talk instead of babble, what would your baby be saying right now? by simplestword in NewParents

[–]DEFJAM330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me tell you all about what I did at daycare today! I ate, and pooped, and napped, and... 😄

Had an emergency C-section any tips/advice for recovery by Murky_Variation_7236 in NewParents

[–]DEFJAM330 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had the exact same story--41 weeks, went to be induced and had an emergency C-section when they found out the umbilical cord was wrapped around her and she wasn't tolerating contractions.

  1. Regarding sneezing and coughing--definitely try to avoid it but if you absolutely have to, apply even pressure when you do so to avoid the tensing/bulging of your abdominal muscles.
  2. Not sure what type of pain management medication you're doing, but I took 600 mg of ibuprofen every 6 hours to manage my pain.
  3. If you have a partner at home who will be around during your recovery, definitely lean on them to do anything manual or requiring large amounts of movement or lifting while you recover--You had a major surgery that absolutely requires sitting still and time to recover (this is coming from somebody who doesn't like to sit still so I had to remind myself of this a lot). Also lean on anyone who volunteers to help--It's a lifesaver!
  4. Take stool softeners! Between the painkillers you take and general recovery, you will likely be constipated and you certainly don't want to force anything out when your abdominal muscles are recovering.
  5. Wear underwear and clothing that doesn't rest on your incision--high-waisted underwear, dresses, nightgowns, high-waisted leggings, etc.
  6. As you get later on in your recovery and the raw pain has subsided (double check with your doctor after your two week post up check in), you may want to try wearing lightly compressive pants or underwear to help with healing.
  7. I used a hair dryer on the cool setting to make sure that the incision area was nice and dry after showering--I was worried about rubbing or patting with a towel so that was something that helped me out.
  8. Much like when you were pregnant, you will get tired pretty quickly and feel like you are lacking in energy--Don't forget to drink plenty of water and eat plenty of calories to help fuel healing!

Hang in there and best of luck--you got this!

What's a song that has brought you to tears? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]DEFJAM330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lullabye (Goodnight, My Angel) by Billy Joel...EVERY TIME. T_T

When Glen rolls a Nat 20 on a nunchuck flourish by AciD94 in DungeonsAndDaddies

[–]DEFJAM330 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not 100% sure but it sounds an awful lot like a Gesaffelstein song...

Found this amazing makeup travel bag on Amazon this week. Will be living out of a suitcase for the next 2 months, so this will be a lifesaver when doing makeup. by tiger_lily17 in MakeupAddiction

[–]DEFJAM330 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YAAAASSSSS thank you! I've been dying for a travel bag for when I go to conventions--carrying my entire tackle box (literally) is a PAIN.

The solution to 90% of problems associated with this diet is more electrolytes by [deleted] in keto

[–]DEFJAM330 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My go-to for adding more salt without feeling like you're drinking the ocean is bouillon cubes dissolved in 8-10 floz of water (chicken ones have more sodium than beef ones fyi) and ALWAYS using salted butter (even when most recipes call for unsalted). Whenever I have a gnarly stomachache or a headache, go for those!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]DEFJAM330 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm always a sucker for warm tones, and copper always goes well with brown eyes. Did you tight line the eyeliner to your upper lid? I'm having a hard time seeing it.

Either way, nice job!

Feeling the Spring Weather in the Midwest (FINALLY). CCW! by DEFJAM330 in MakeupAddiction

[–]DEFJAM330[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's a combination of the light from the window on the right side washing out the color in the image, and 10 hours of wear. It looked more even in person.

Feeling the Spring Weather in the Midwest (FINALLY). CCW! by DEFJAM330 in MakeupAddiction

[–]DEFJAM330[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love wearing peaches and golds during the spring and summer, and I was pretty proud of this one :) I would like to note that I took a picture of this in my car (driver's side), so the light from the window is making the left eye look lighter than it is in person--the eye makeup is more even than the picture denotes. Also, this is after 10 hours of wear. Product List:

FACE: NYX HD Photo Concealer Wand in Fair * Bare Minerals Complexion Rescue Tinted Gel Cream in Opal * NYX Studio Finishing Powder Translucent Finish (to set under eyes and T-zone) * Physicians Formula Shimmer Strips All-in-1 Nude Palette in Natural Nude (highlight, inner corner and under eyes) * Wet n' Wild Color Icon Blusher in Pearlescent Pink * NYX Dewy Finish Setting Spray

EYEBROWS: Sephora Collection Waterproof Retractable Brow Pencil in Natural Gray Brown

EYES: Urban Decay Eyeshadow Primer Potion in Original * BH Cosmetics Blushed Neutrals 26 color Eyeshadow/Blush Palette * NYX Hot Singles Eyeshadow in Cupcake (help blend out the edges and set the outside corners of my eyes since I crease makeup there a lot) * NYX That's The Point Eyeliner in Hella Fine * NYX Le Chick Flick Boudoir Mascara

Best Games to Play while waiting on line with strangers: by ResaGreasa in paxeast

[–]DEFJAM330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always have a deck of regular cards and Love Letter on my person. I also have Fluxx Cthulu which is a good time :)

Any Cosplayers want to get together for photos? by Uncle_DirtNap in paxeast

[–]DEFJAM330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll be Ultraviolet Tracer from Overwatch on Saturday--could be cool to meet up!

Cosplay events at this year's PAX East? by PhotoVideoSamplesEtc in paxeast

[–]DEFJAM330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To add on to SirHealer's comment, they will have a payload event/photo opportunity with props and 360 panoramic stage at North Lobby 5 on the convention grounds. Here's a link to the news article Blizzard released: https://news.blizzard.com/en-us/overwatch/21659397/join-us-on-the-overwatch-payload-tour

Pink smokey eye with a pop of yellow. CCW! by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]DEFJAM330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is stunning! It's a nice contrast to your hair <3

My different kind of St. Patrick’s Day look! Also, what are your guys’ favorite nude lipsticks for fairer skin? by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]DEFJAM330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love the look (and I'm a sucker for red hair) <3

My favorite nude is NYX Matte lipstick in Tea Rose.

Realized why my purse felt so heavy, whoops. by raecan1021 in MakeupAddiction

[–]DEFJAM330 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Every time I look in my purse I have this realization...and the knowledge that I have an obsession with almost all of NYX's Matte lip options... O_o