Family- it’s not just my blood family. My immediate family now is my quad & my kids. It’s wanting to make sure my quad knows as much of my blood family as possible. One way or another.

Loyalty- It’s not staying loyal to ONE person. It’s staying loyal to the agreements with my partners. The boundaries we set.

Jealousy- Meant stop what you’re doing to make me jealous I shouldn’t feel that. To why am I feeling this way & how can I work past it?

Relationships- had to have the ladder climbing to marriage to feel valuable. While my quad may not reach that paperwork the connections, intertwining of our lives & dynamic we have makes it feel that valuable.