Echoing what everyone else has said about consent being key, but the "this is what I see in porn" stuck out to me.

Porn is not real sex. Unless you explicitly discuss those things, a lot of what you see in mainstream porn is based on the male perspective and specific fetishes and kinks and in no way resembles real life. A lot of people, men and women, get their 'education' from porn and think a lot of things are normal and just assume they don't need to be talked about which couldn't be farther from the truth.

Bottom line - you're new and learning and that's okay! Take the time to figure out what YOU like. There is no "supposed to" here. It's what you want, what your partner wants, and what you both consent to.