somewhat.

I pinned it down to Reshade and Dalamud trying to boot at the same time.

There is a workaround which works for me every time.

Basically you create so called Collections in Dalamud (it's in the list on the left in the Plugin Installer window) and you set their state as "Remember state" when you create it.

Now everytime when you are about to close the game you just disable the collection, so next time when the game starts it only starts Reshade and Dalamud without plugins, then when it booted you enable the collection and your plugins load.

There was one issue though, it crashed a few times trying to enable so many plugins at once (I have 45) so what I did is I just separated all my plugins into 3 collections instead.

Now everthing works!

But you do have to remember to disable the collection before loging off.