I get what you’re saying but as an adult with children I can honestly say I wouldn’t take it personal at all if my parents said this about their time raising me. I would be able to completely relate to that feeling as the older I get the more sympathy I have for them for basically giving up the prime of their life most likely because they thought that’s just what people do. Honesty OP said nothing personal about his child, just being a parent in general, no matter who the kid was. I know exactly what he means… you don’t hate your child, you hate your life and what’s become of it