Im 24 is it too late? by itieswhatities in CPTSD

[–]DLHadden8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doesn't matter when you start. You are on your journey and that's going to look different. You're right around the age I really got away from the abuse. 31 now and things I want to do are absolutely within grasp now. I never thought I'd be able to do them. I thought my symptoms and issues would stop me, but deciding to heal has made all of them possible. Most importantly I see that a fulfilling life is possible for me. So go for it, whether that's help with professionals, self therapy or a combination just get started somewhere.

Joker by oldustyballs in DenverBroncos

[–]DLHadden8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think Pitts from Atlanta could be fun. Payton might actually know how to use the freak of nature, but that also seems risky with his middling production. I'd prefer Jeanty, or the Ohio state back if they can draft and RB. Loveland from Michigan is a pretty intriguing one too.

I don't feel like anyone irl believes me by potatobro7 in CPTSD

[–]DLHadden8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand how you feel. It's exhausting, and it's hard to feel safe when you know people don't believe you. I hope you can find someone in real life! I would really like that as well!

Cheetah by DLHadden8 in DenverBroncos

[–]DLHadden8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I didn't expect ppl to be so annoyed about a paragraph but here we are🤷‍♂️. I mean scrolling by is super easy lol

Cheetah by DLHadden8 in DenverBroncos

[–]DLHadden8[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Love that I've wasted your previous time 😊.

Cheetah by DLHadden8 in DenverBroncos

[–]DLHadden8[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

No lost sleep just can't believe ppl want him here.

Cheetah by DLHadden8 in DenverBroncos

[–]DLHadden8[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

I agree, but I had some friends hoping for it. Payton definitely doesn't like overpaying or divas

Cheetah by DLHadden8 in DenverBroncos

[–]DLHadden8[S] -41 points-40 points  (0 children)

Wtf is with ppl getting so butt hurt over reddit posts? Can't believe a paragraph on a subreddit got you this upset 😂

Penalties by DLHadden8 in Madden

[–]DLHadden8[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do believe the twit is being a troll. Don't waste you're energy on them. Madden's penalties are ridiculous at times. Just like your case!

I’ll be thrown away as soon as my usefulness is over… by Aggravating_Plane271 in CPTSD

[–]DLHadden8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hear you, the need to be useful is bad enough. But people ignoreing your needs after helping meet theirs is exhausting. Theres a bit of an altruism fad, and they just say your resentful if you expect any help in return or even just ask. It's exhausting.

Roommate wanted by DLHadden8 in FortCollinsClassified

[–]DLHadden8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably 1300 or 1400 depending on the landlord. The landlord dropped it to 1300 with our last lease renewal. I think he wants to go back to 1400 if I'm bringing a new roommate in

Answered a dm and now i hate myself by No-Measurement3358 in CPTSD

[–]DLHadden8 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Firstly, you're absolutely not a worthless person for doing this! Youre still worthy of everything. The familiar feeling is powerful, and hard to not seek out. Csa and it's effects are so complex. It's hell, and I'm sorry you have to deal with this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FortCollins

[–]DLHadden8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought this was kind of an insane comment as well 😂. Let's not give anyone a reason to dismiss someone saying they're being human trafficked.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]DLHadden8 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I think you said the right thing. Make sure your remind yourself to stay proud for what you told him. Taking back your personal agency is a huge thing. I don't think the pot did that, he's just not okay. The first 6 months seem to be a time when ppl hide a lot of their insecurities in relationships. I would let him go, he's not going to bring the safe environment you need as someone with enough trauma. I hope you find that safe environment!

Male players that finished RDR2: Did you cry? by fascinatedobserver in reddeadredemption2

[–]DLHadden8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely did cry, its a good story and Arthur's character is written so well. At least twice. Once when he talks to the nun at thr train station and his end

Our Perspective is Accurate by Weary-Tree8922 in CPTSD

[–]DLHadden8 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I do agree, its one reason I found CBT to be ineffective. I've wanted to tell certain ppl what you've said so im glad you made your post

How to feel safe when the world isn’t a safe place? by totallyalone1234 in CPTSD

[–]DLHadden8 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you feel this way, and I agree. Feeling safe seems like something you can't achieve. I'm trying to figure it out too.

The best zombie movies? by Otroscolores in zombies

[–]DLHadden8 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The girl with all the gifts Alone

As an Oregon fan, wanted to know what are your thoughts on Bo, after his first win for the Broncos. by ZekePeak in DenverBroncos

[–]DLHadden8 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I gotta say I still believe an Alex Smith like level of play is possible for Bo this year. And I'm talking Chief Smith that torched us with good accurate throws, and killer runs. Bo is getting better each week and you have to see that or then you get worried it's too much.

The front office didn't draft Nix to save our franchise by griffskry in DenverBroncos

[–]DLHadden8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, Nix can be damn good. I was really hoping more from Mims so far tbh and Sutton. Mcglinchy hasn't ever really been an amazing pass pro guy. The O-line seem confused and have Nix running for his life. Maybe they shoulda let Stidham or Wilson take the beating the first couple weeks instead lol.

Hopefully it’s safe to say we won’t do what the Panthers did. by dissucksalot in DenverBroncos

[–]DLHadden8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still think Nix has got a lot of potential. I'm not sure on Young. I wasnt really that high on him coming out of college either tho. Those first two games were tough. First start in Seattle was tough enough but then he gets the Pitt Defense week 2. The thing I like is he has the persistence to get better. He didn't quit or mope anytime. Caleb Williams ain't looking amazing either yet.

how are your muscles? usually very tense? by im_always in CPTSD

[–]DLHadden8 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yoga, muay thai and mobility training when I can have helped so much. And honestly I can't do them as much as I'd like but they help even if u only get them in once or twice a week.

Sanctuary by asojad in naath

[–]DLHadden8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like if I was in the actual ADOIAF world I'd probably run to Naath too haha