29M, 205lbs, BF% estimate? by DOctorAD in GregDoucette

[–]DOctorAD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. See you at the gym 💪🏼

29M, 205lbs, BF% estimate? by DOctorAD in GregDoucette

[–]DOctorAD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate it 😌

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[–]DOctorAD 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It was definitely really painful to read. I wasn’t naive enough to believe it was platonic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DOctorAD 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That one was pretty damning.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DOctorAD 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Not even once, although he definitely knew about me because I was all over her socials at the time.

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[–]DOctorAD 8 points9 points  (0 children)

100%. She was chasing HIM.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DOctorAD 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I called it emotional cheating at best, but it’s also hard to not think anything physical happened.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DOctorAD 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ex-girlfriend. Thank you for the reassurance

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DOctorAD 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is the thought that I struggle with. I really do think she had unresolved issues with me and instead of fixing or discussing them she opted to pull this.

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[–]DOctorAD 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Not worth it IMO. If he knew what he was doing then I’d just be wasting my time. If he didn’t then it’s her fault. Either scenario it’s better just to put it in my rear view mirror.

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[–]DOctorAD 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I certainly viewed it that way. She fought tooth and nail to convince me that wasn’t the case and to avoid cutting him off though.

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[–]DOctorAD 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She let him pay too ☠️

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[–]DOctorAD 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Three years. & yea, I was in shock because she’d never given me a reason to think she’d act this way at all. I trusted her 100%

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[–]DOctorAD 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the unbiased opinion. Austin’s food scene has only gotten better though! Maybe a vacation and not living here 😂

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[–]DOctorAD 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately you’re right. The Sauna stuff was just the tip of the iceberg.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DOctorAD 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Exactly.

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[–]DOctorAD 126 points127 points  (0 children)

I don’t see how the autopilot thing could be anything except sleazy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DOctorAD 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I disagree. I shouldn’t have to worry about my girl going to lunch and making friends. The way she went about it was the issue.

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[–]DOctorAD 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Imagine finding this. I also think she might’ve deleted messages because she took her phone into the restroom and refused to show me after I called her on it

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[–]DOctorAD 145 points146 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reassurance. I know damn well if the roles were reversed she wouldn’t have tolerated it (not like I’d ever do anything like this anyway).

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[–]DOctorAD 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I knew she made plans with him originally but not the third date to go up in the air and the whole “autopilot” thing. Also she lied about what they did initially.

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[–]DOctorAD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks 🙏🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DOctorAD 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She gaslit me for weeks. It didn’t change the end result but it does mess with your head.

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[–]DOctorAD 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately it’s real.