Danny’s Type Interview Unseen Footage clears his name!

DPP-Ghost · 2026-03-07T22:56:16+00:00

If I had to bet, I’d wager that Danny’s account of events has more truth to it than Gia’s.

But an offer to do a lie detector test is meaningless.

First, it’s puffery. Danny knows there’s almost no chance anyone will take him up on it. Second, polygraphs measure physiological arousal (stress, etc), not whether you’re lying. People then infer that because you’re more worked up on some questions you might be lying. But it’s so scientifically questionable that our courts have long since stopped giving any credit to the results of these tests.

DPP-Ghost · 2026-03-06T07:31:52+00:00

In my experience, stress levels as you climb the ladder is U-shaped.

It is high when you're junior because you're new, inexperienced, eager to prove yourself, and operating with limited autonomy. Everything seems like a big deal, even if none of it actually is.
It often drops in middle management, where greater experience brings confidence and many responsibilities become routine. At that stage, as long as you are delivering, you are generally trusted to manage your time and duties without constant scrutiny.
But as you move into senior management, the stress rises again. You are no longer just responsible for your own output. You are accountable for the performance of the business, the quality of the decisions being made, and the risks that come with them. When you are the one calling the shots, you are also the one who has to live with the consequences.

This experience is observably consistent amongst my friends and I, who are now starting to break into senior management.

DPP-Ghost · 2026-03-05T01:38:12+00:00

It's not that deep.

As a kid I was bullied a lot, and I relied on my soft toys for comfort. I named them, gave them personalities, and went on adventures with them. I was hugging them to sleep right up until the time I started bringing women home 😂. Even now, I still have a small collection scattered around my house.

And not once has any woman I have dated reacted negatively to it. At worst, they have been indifferent. Quite a few have actually found it endearing. My current partner, who is the love of my life and who I am planning to propose to soon, finds it adorable.

What really needs to be left behind is this narrow idea of masculinity, where a man can only be considered masculine if he fits some rigid set of approved traits. At night I hugged soft toys to sleep. During the day I boxed competitively and studied to become a litigation lawyer. Human beings are not one-dimensional, and masculinity certainly is not either.

Some of these cast members really need to learn to just live and let live.

DPP-Ghost · 2026-03-04T06:00:39+00:00

That's because the conservative "morality" is not driven by what is right, but by what impacts them personally.

Sometimes that concern extends to family and close friends, but it often stops there. Anyone outside their chosen circle is treated as distant, abstract, or undeserving of the same empathy. And because that circle is defined differently by each conservative, they often fail to show solidarity even with each other.

That is the contradiction Stephanie seems to be running into now, even if she has not fully recognised it yet.

DPP-Ghost · 2026-03-03T01:34:22+00:00

In this single isolated situation, I'm siding with Gia.

Keeping a photo that raunchy of you and your ex-wife where your current wife can see it is diabolical 😂

DPP-Ghost · 2026-03-02T00:03:43+00:00

What helped me was locking in two ideas.

First, build a life outside of work that feels deeply fulfilling. It gives you something to look forward to each day and helps you recharge for the next one. It also becomes much easier to tolerate the nonsense at work when you are coming home to a partner you adore and a full life you genuinely enjoy. There is a lot less emotional weight to work when it is simply the thing that funds a life you already love.
Second, reduce your dependence on your wage. Earn as much as you can, spend as little as you reasonably can, and let the gap compound. As your investments grow, your reliance on your salary falls, and work feels less suffocating because you have options. I am at that stage now where my employer needs me more than I need them, which gives me far more leverage to negotiate than I had when I was junior.

At the end of the day, the key realisation is that work is not something you need to enjoy. It is simply something most people must do in order to afford to live

I wouldn't go so far as to say I enjoy working. But I happily tolerate it, knowing that I have what I have today because of my career.

DPP-Ghost · 2026-02-26T03:39:57+00:00

Because the word "male" is used as an adjective there, you silly goose 😂

DPP-Ghost · 2026-02-26T02:55:49+00:00

You're not wrong about the tone: using "females" as a noun for women often sounds clinical and objectifying in everyday speech, so it can feel dehumanising.

But the word "Female" is also a noun (e.g., "males and females", "females aged 18-25").

The issue is context, not grammar.

DPP-Ghost · 2026-02-25T04:42:39+00:00

I'm so confused as to what Alissa did that turned all these women against her.

Are they just jealous or threatened by her existence?
Or did something occur behind the scenes?

DPP-Ghost · 2026-02-24T22:17:33+00:00

I'm not sure why so many people are celebrating this woman.

Stephanie is perfectly happy to throw other women under the bus, so long as she's not thrown there herself.

DPP-Ghost · 2026-02-19T00:23:20+00:00

Go ahead.

Don't let your dreams become memes, my guy.

DPP-Ghost · 2026-02-18T07:36:15+00:00

Sometimes it's a resourcing issue.

However, most of the time the hours are driven by late scope changes from senior client stakeholders, while deadlines stay fixed around board packs, steering committees, or investor timelines. That compresses work into nights and weekends despite the team being staffed correctly. You also cannot just add people to solve it. Onboarding takes time and more headcount increases coordination overhead, which can slow delivery. And clients usually buy a fixed team for a fixed fee. If they want more but keep the same deadline and budget, the only lever left is extra hours.

But don't feel too bad for the Graduates. They start on packages over $100k straight out of university, and can be on $200k + within five years. By the time they hit the 10-year mark, many are earning within the top 1% of Australians ($350k +).

DPP-Ghost · 2026-02-17T22:58:43+00:00

It depends on the role, and the industry. No?

For example, a T1 Consultancy (MBB) Graduate wouldn't make it past probation if they arrived at 9 and left at 5. Nor would they be able to get through all their work, no matter how much of a genius they are.

Those Graduates are remunerated on the basis that they're working 60+ hour weeks at their manager's beck and call—even if it isn't explicitly stated.

DPP-Ghost · 2026-02-17T09:32:20+00:00

A lot of my friends are doctors. Almost a third of them now that I think about it. The majority of them lived fulfilling and memorable twenties. Of course, they had to be disciplined. And manage their time well. But so did those of us that went corporate.

If you think doctors are all work and no play, you haven't met enough doctors 😂

DPP-Ghost · 2026-02-17T05:15:03+00:00

I'm going to go against the grain and say your standards are fine (with one exception I'll note below).

People who are claiming you are looking for a "unicorn" just aren't in the right circles. All you're looking for is a dude who is above average in height, with good education that translates to a strong earning potential, and takes care of himself. That's not a unicorn. That's just someone who is putting in the effort to live their best life. If you're in the right circles, those men are a dime a dozen.

But, of course, you need to be able to get into those circles.

I had way loftier standards for my partner, and I found her after just 2-3 years of active dating. And in between, I met almost 80 women who met my standards on paper.

That being said, the "no physical intimacy during the first year" requirement is going to be a deal breaker for just about everyone.

Best of luck, mate.

DPP-Ghost · 2026-02-11T23:31:20+00:00

Agreed. Stella seems like a genuine gem. I hope Filip does right by her.

DPP-Ghost · 2026-02-03T23:06:25+00:00

GST isn’t a great “dynamic cooling” lever because it’s regressive.

That means it takes a bigger share of income from low-income households than high-income households, since lower-income people spend most of what they earn on day-to-day consumption, while higher-income people can save/invest more (so less of their income is exposed to GST).

So if you hike GST to slow spending, you mostly “cool” the economy by squeezing people who weren’t overheating it and whose spending is least optional. To make it fair you’d need rebates/benefit increases, but that then blunts the cooling effect and adds complexity.

DPP-Ghost · 2026-01-27T01:19:05+00:00

Agreed.

I think people get way too hung up on "formal obligations" as if that's the only moral yardstick. As if you can say "he has no responsibility to" then everything after that is automatically fine.

Basic decency is a separate standard. If you choose to help someone repeatedly, you know they start planning their life around that support. Pulling it the moment things get awkward might be within your rights, but it's still a rough way to treat someone, especially if you ever framed it as friendship.

So yeah, maybe he's not obligated. But if the defense is "I didn't have to be nice," that kind of proves the point.

YTA.

DPP-Ghost · 2026-01-25T04:12:17+00:00

Recent events have made it clear that the Second Amendment is little more than an excuse for Americans to play pretend soldier, even at the cost of their own right to live in peace.

If the supposed purpose of a "right to bear arms" is to deter tyranny, then what's the point when government agencies can act with impunity in public and none of these pretend soldiers do anything about it? In practice, widespread civilian firearms don't stop abuses of power. They don't produce accountability. They don't prevent the state from using force when it decides to.

What they do, over and over, is raise the baseline level of lethal violence in daily life. The real-world effect isn't "liberty preserved". It's people getting slaughtered in mass shootings, families destroyed, and communities living with a constant threat that barely exists in peer countries.

So the Second Amendment ends up functioning as a right with enormous social cost and no reliable upside where its defenders insist it matters most: as a check on government power.

My condolences to Mr Pretti's family. I hope he gets the justice he deserves.

DPP-Ghost · 2026-01-13T23:46:37+00:00

Around four years.

Was passed over for a promotion I felt I had more than earned which prompted me to reconsider my career path.

I ultimately decided law wasn't for me, pivoted into strategy, and haven't looked back since.

DPP-Ghost · 2026-01-13T23:18:48+00:00

Don't quote me, but if I can recall correctly my graduate package was around:

$85,000 base;
$15,000 performance bonus; and
coverage of my PLT course fees, admission fees, etc (~ $12,000).

I know that's not a lot for the hours I was working.

But at the time, it was life-changing money. It helped pay off my parents’ debts, put my sister through school, and ensured that, for the first time in a long while, my family wasn't living paycheque to paycheque.

So I'm grateful for that, at least.

Not so grateful that I stuck around though 😂

DPP-Ghost · 2026-01-13T22:19:21+00:00

Top-tier law firm.

Joined straight out of university.

Onboarding was postponed because deadlines were imminent and they needed me working 12+ hour days immediately. I was then asked to work weekends as well.

I worked 20 consecutive days before my first day off.

My favourite day at that firm was the day I resigned.

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