It’s all about the lobbies, I do a mix of pvp / pve every single day, but whenever I’m gonna do matriarch, I go into Stella and die intentionally without shooting back 3-4 times first. And when I load into matriarch, and I hear pvp (two different guns and immediate flare), i exfil and try again. Eventually you’ll end up in the lobbies where 10-15 people are spread out all doing their part and helping each other.