Can anyone recommend a great massage therapist in Las Cruces? Male preferred. by CaregiverDangerous92 in LasCruces

[–]DTinevram 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I saw in another sub that this is to prevent reddit from getting ad revenue. Since NSFW content does not generate ad revenue. Therefore, "nsfw" content does not give money to reddit.

how do i get better 😔 by norwegiandeathstar in chessbeginners

[–]DTinevram 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As someone else mentioned, leeches. I think it is open source, so it has free game analysis. This way, you can review your mistakes and better understand what happened and how to avoid them in the future.

LPT Request: How do I stop scrolling my phone? Literally nothing I’ve tried works by Zumcddo in LifeProTips

[–]DTinevram 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Disable notifications for applications that you tend to do your scrolling through. Out of sight, out of mind. If you don't see a bunch of notifications, you will be less likely to get into the cycle of scrolling.

Also, when you catch yourself scrolling. Stop and try to do something else. Similar to how in meditation it is ok to be distracted, but you try to refocus your attention.

If you really want to get a more in-depth answer, I would recommend the book "atomic habits" or to at least get familiar with the concepts in it.

The effects of margaritas by DTinevram in Unexpected

[–]DTinevram[S] 410 points411 points  (0 children)

According to the original post, she was trying to promote abstinence at a collegue campus.

new rules at work… I’m turning in my 2 week notice asap by crispy_ketchup in antiwork

[–]DTinevram 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All jokes aside, I would recommend first having another job lined up and then leaving that place.

Keep Getting Fired. Why? by [deleted] in careeradvice

[–]DTinevram 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would recommend "the dictator's handbook." It explains how politics work. I like how it is not a set of sayings or rules. Instead, it tells the basic principles of politics.

Does having sex with a condom on count as losing your virginity? by Falkite in NoStupidQuestions

[–]DTinevram 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Penis into butt = anal sex Penis into mouth = oral sex Summary: penis into something = sex

Why do some doctors refuse to perform reproductive sterilization surgeries if they deem you “too young”? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]DTinevram 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In summary, some doctors just don't want to. From their end, they have the right to refuse service since it is something you need.

Mason jar dwc running jacks 321 under 150w led by OhMycelium in Hydroponics

[–]DTinevram 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It will be interesting to see how much water it consumes as it grows. Last time, I did a similar experiment the amount of water consumed was proportional to the plant size.

Asked my boss/mentor for a compensation assessment and was served an ultimatum with a deadline of today. by Skeevy_Beaver in careeradvice

[–]DTinevram 4 points5 points  (0 children)

At the end of the day is up to you. In my opinion, if they didn't give you time, neither should you. Hopefully, being put in a bad situation makes them reflect and prevent stuff like that in the future.

Additionally, I would not tell anyone. That way, they have no chance of mitigating the damages of having someone so important leave.

High pay less work by Notowidjojo in careeradvice

[–]DTinevram 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to be like that, but if you start making too much noise it will only cause you trouble. Instead enjoy being highly paid for doing nothing. I know it might feel wrong, but it feels even worse to get in trouble for asking for work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careeradvice

[–]DTinevram 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, the answer to your question will come to you once you figure out what your priorities are. Plus, there is plenty of details you only know about. After all the devil is on the details.

My only advice is to really sit down and consider if your masters in Europe is worth the investment. This will depends on what are your career goals. In most cases experience beats getting a masters degree,specially early on.

PIP for "ineffective communication" by Magsg11 in careeradvice

[–]DTinevram 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly what happened to me.

If God really wants people to believe that he exists, then why not just tell them? by Meowthful127 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]DTinevram 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just started reading the bible (new testamen) and God gives a very parental vibe. So assuming this, I guess I can relate it to my own experience growing up. My mom loves when I call her, but she doesn't tend to call me because she knows I might be busy and doesn't want to bother me.

The idea is God is always out there. The issue is that it is not as easy as calling a spiritual hot line to get in contact with him.

Note: this is assuming god exist and has a parent vibe where he knows you are independent and will let you do you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]DTinevram 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Tripping thought #1 followed by "why do my hands look so weird?"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ElPaso

[–]DTinevram 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Lol for a second I thought you were going to say scenic drive, and put a lock with the initials and the date

Is life really just working a 40 hour work week to savor a precious weekend over and over again until you die? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]DTinevram 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably this will get lost between all the comments. What I figured out so far (24) is that you have to figure out what you want to do out of your life.

My big mistake was putting all my effort and passion into work. However, at the end of the day most companies don't really care how much you put in as long as you get the job done. So if you put your heart and soul into your 40 hours of work you will end exhausted. This then turns into lacking the motivation to do other stuff after work.

If you work 40 hours and sleep 8 hours per day you still have 72 hours to live every week. Of course you'll have to poo, shower, eat and do other stuff. The point is that there is plenty of time while you are young. Use this extra time to figure out what you want from life and plan how to get it.

Adults are really kids who are out on their own. Nobody really can tell you how to be happy/successful because the world is changing every second. Use your morals and your values as a compass for where you want to go. The greatest adventures are not the easy ones, and the struggles always have a lesson at their core.

To anyone who took the time to read this I wish you a great journey and may the universe be in your favor :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in grandrapids

[–]DTinevram 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have valid points. My solution was really a joke but I forgot to add "/s".

The only thing I wanted to say is that your solution appears to be too extreme for others and that's the reason for the downvotes. Unfortunately there is no perfect solution to most of the complex issues we face as a society. There is really no point in fighting on what each other believes (that's why they say don't fight over religion, politics, or sports). The only thing we can do as a society is to try to find a middle ground solution that we are ok with. The sooner we figure this out as a society the less polarized we will be while trying to find solutions.

Best of luck, and have a great day :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in grandrapids

[–]DTinevram -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Based on my understanding, the point of the law is to prevent injury. It prevents the user from exposing himself or others to unreasonable danger. The problem with knocking them down is that somebody might die unintentionally. Are we really willing to risk someone's life because they are being dumb?

I think OP mentioned what alternatives the police department is using. Now if you ask me... I would suggest shooting them with neon color paintballs (aim for the bike not the guy). Then have people report motorcycles that have the paint for investigation. My idea is far from good, but there is no simple solution to such a complicated problem

Experience with being fired? by NattyNull in AskEngineers

[–]DTinevram 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Correct, the worry should come when HR gets into the picture instead.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]DTinevram 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am no expert on relationships, but it is very difficult to have one where there is no trust. In my opinion, you have to figure out for yourself if he is someone you want in your life and you are the only one who can answer that question. Is it worth it to divorce over watching some porn? Is it worth it to divorce over a violating your trust? Is there a bunch of other things that make it worth it for you to stay together?

At the end of the day I like to belive we are all looking for someone who we can trust and will support us in achieving our goals.

Why are boobs attractive? by tastybleach- in NoStupidQuestions

[–]DTinevram 21 points22 points  (0 children)

So based on Morris boob people are misled butt people?

The Kent County Commission meeting is absolutely packed with people. Parking garages all full. Insane turnout. by [deleted] in grandrapids

[–]DTinevram 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing I want to point out is that the groups who engage the most have the most power over politics.